Whether the child is poor or rich is good, everyone has their own opinions. In the previous concept, the children of rich families grew up with golden keys, ignorant of human suffering, squeamish and luxurious; while most children of poor families were early in charge, industrious and enterprising. Until now, many people still maintain this understanding, however, with the development of the times, there are different views on this issue today.
A person's growth is not determined by wealth and poverty. Hunan TV has a program called "Metamorphosis", which has sparked a fierce public debate. The background of the show is very simple: at the beginning, the rich children of big city families are rebellious due to various kinds of growth, and their parents exchange them with the children of a poor rural family to change their children. At first, these children acted arbitrarily, smoking, drinking, fighting, and hurting their parents. After the show, these problem teenagers began to recognize their mistakes, became sensible, and understood their parents.
After watching this show, many people must have been impressed by the image of the rich boys and girls who grew up in the city as bad boys. Some people even think that the formation of the rebellious character of these children is either that the family is very rich, or the parents are financially rich in raising children, and then come to the conclusion that rich children are harmful to children, but ignore the importance of family quality education.
In fact, a pair of mature and high-quality parents will pay more attention to the quality education of their children, which is not only related to material wealth, but also give spiritual support and influence, especially the cultivation and education of personal morality and life in the world; and material is only another kind of capital given by parents to their children, which is by no means a reason to show off. It is undeniable that the abundance of material conditions allows children to contact the wider world, learn what they like, develop their professions and hobbies, and children who grow up in such an environment are by no means comparable to the kind of playboys and stubborn princesses who rely only on money to irrigate.
In modern Chinese society, especially in rural areas, there are many left-behind children who live with their grandparents and lack personal guidance from their parents, and in most cases, their grandparents, grandmothers and grandparents will only criticize them when they do something wrong and are lazy, but most of the time they choose to tolerate them. It is this lack of it that makes them not feel that there is anything wrong when they are abrupt, and over time, he will take everything for granted, and he will not feel guilty about doing something wrong.
A person's growth is not only related to money, but also related to quality education. The reason why the children of some wealthy families are raised lawless is that they are irrigated by money from birth, everything can be bought with money, and they do not have to worry about not being able to buy any toys or worrying about what will go wrong when they get into trouble. This is a road paved with money, which seems to be fascinating, and it may be an abyss road to go up.
Similarly, some children from poor families have experienced the hardships of life from an early age, so in the process of growing up, they know that their parents are not easy, and they are affected by poverty, forcing them to be angry and strong, and want to rely on their own efforts to create a new life. So we see a lot of children who work hard, can endure hardships, start to share the housework from an early age, they are excellent and capable, giving people a feeling that the children of poor families have long been in charge.
In retrospect, the poverty and prosperity of children is not just about money. If the children of wealthy families are well educated, they can become very good, they will not be restricted by material conditions, and they will even make good use of this advantage to improve themselves. This advantage provides more nutrients and energy for their growth. Conversely, children with poorer material conditions will not understand the meaning of suffering if they do not understand the hardships of life. If no one doubts whether their outlook on life is good, but whether they can eat enough and sleep well, then they have no incentive from the beginning to pursue a better life, become unenterprising, have to live and live, and eventually live a more mediocre life.
True excellence is glamorous, not expensive and expensive. He was brilliant and capable, but never inferior; he read a thousand sails, had an open pattern, but was never aggressive; he also had a childlike heart, which could endure trivial daily life, and also had his own poetry and distance.
It is better to raise the poor and the rich than to cultivate, how do you feel? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.