Text: Xi Xihuan
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People live in this world, there are always many people who want to fight for breath, live a light on the face, that means that they live successfully, will let others look up.
However, many people are very powerful when they are young, but in their old age, they still do not know how to restrain their edges, and finally do some stupid things, but they make their old age restless.
In fact, with the increase of age, people's psychology will change, maybe you like to be lively when you are young, but in your old age you prefer to be alone; maybe you feel that being rich and powerful is success when you are young, but in your old age, you know that health and wife are the greatest wealth.
Everything has a cause and effect, and what a person does in his youth buries the cause and effect in his old age, so even if some people live a miserable life in their old age, they are actually not worthy of pity.
People must learn to be patient, as the saying goes, take a step back from the sea and the sky, endure the calm of the wind and waves for a while, many contradictions and conflicts are derived from impulses, especially in the old age, many people will suffer losses in this regard.
Therefore, in your old age, no matter how powerful you are when you are young, don't do these things easily, because once you do many things, you will bring unnecessary trouble to yourself.
01 Play ambiguous
Some people have said that love is not limited by age and geography, and even in old age, there is a chance to meet true love.
However, many people confuse love with ambiguity and mistakenly regard ambiguity as love, or rather, some people like to play ambiguous games and enjoy the inexplicable emotional game.
However, although the initial stage of ambiguity is very fascinating, in the end it is a waste of their own time and emotions, and may bring a lot of trouble to themselves.
Uncle Fan is a very spiritual old man, when he was young, he was a famous handsome man in the factory, many girls took the initiative to show kindness to him, and he was happy to enjoy such a taste of being sought after.
Later, even if he got married, he did not relent, and he was everywhere, and finally his wife could not stand it, filed a divorce with him, and took the children.
But instead of realizing regret, he felt that he was very powerful and could attract the favor of so many members of the opposite sex, but he did not expect that after his later years, it was precisely because he liked to play ambiguous, so his life has been unhappy.
After retirement, Uncle Fan's friends have wives, children and grandchildren, when there is nothing to see the children, and go out with his wife to travel, but also very comfortable.
But Uncle Fan, alone, when he first divorced, his ex-wife took his son away, so many years he has been playing ambiguous, never thought to see his son, so the son did not kiss him when he grew up.
It is precisely because of the bad reputation that when he wants to find a wife, no one has anyone to look for him. Once he was sick, Uncle Fan did not have a relative around him to take care of him, and even if he hired a nurse, he was always angry with him.
When people reach the twilight of their twilight years, they should actually understand that although the charm of youth once made them proud, it does not mean that they are necessarily happy.
In the later years of life, the most important thing is stability, and it is the most important thing to have a companion who accompanies you for a lifetime, and no matter how much ambiguity is on the head, it will not give you the stability and steadfastness you need for life in front of you.
02 Squander health
There is a good saying that no matter how much a person has, whether it is excellent appearance, high intelligence, or money and power, it is better than having a healthy body.
When many people are young, because they are tired of running for their livelihood, they squander their bodies unscrupulously, and they feel that it is okay to be young and tired and bitter anyway, as long as they get the materials they want.
However, the body is everyone's most precious wealth, and you need to take good care of it, only by constantly storing health in it, you will do more things you want to do in your old age, otherwise you will always have more regrets when you are tired by your body.
Aunt Zhang has always been a very strong woman, when she was young, she was a famous strong woman in the unit, and she often couldn't even take care of her home when she worked.
Her husband has always had opinions about her, thinking that since a woman is married and has a family, she should put the family first, but like Aunt Zhang, she can't even take care of her children, and she often can't meet her husband.
Therefore, after her daughter went to junior high school, her husband also began to have a cold war with her, but Aunt Zhang did not care so much, and at that time she was in the rising period of her career, and the competitive pressure was very high.
In the face of her husband's incomprehension, Aunt Zhang ignored it, and she felt that only the achievements in her career were the most important.
In fact, her husband is also very concerned about her body, in order to work, she often stays up late, has long suffered from stomach diseases, once rushed to the airport when there was a car accident, although there is no big deal, but also hurt the bones, but she did not listen to her husband's good rest, a few days to go to work again.
The couple's feelings have been lukewarm, in the blink of an eye, the daughter has grown up, the husband has always silently taken care of Aunt Zhang, after retirement, Aunt Zhang is considered to be fame and fortune, pension is rich, but her body has also fallen a lot of problems, are too hard to fight when she was young.
Once because too busy, want to travel has not been able to achieve, now retired finally have time, the wife also made a travel plan, which knows that Zhang Aunt has committed a waist disease and can not move.
In this way, many of the regrets of the old couple when they were young could not be realized because of Aunt Zhang's body, which is really regrettable.
But even so, Aunt Zhang still did not accept defeat, always felt that her body was not so bad, so she did not cooperate with taking medicine and treatment, her health was getting worse and worse, and her wife who took care of her was miserable.
I have to say that Aunt Zhang is really confused, people have a sense of enterprise in this life, and it is a good thing to know how to be self-motivated, but it is also necessary to pay attention to their own physical health, otherwise the last drag is still the family, and the suffering is themselves.
There are always people who feel that their lives are very unhappy and smooth in their old age, some regrets when they are young have not been able to let go, and some of their unfulfilled wishes, especially in their old age, the older they are, the more they can't let go of the obsession in their hearts.
But you must also understand that no matter what wishes you want to achieve in your later years, what dreams you want to complete, you need to have a certain amount of capital, or your own personality charm, or a certain economic foundation, or you have a healthy body, so when you are young, you must know how to accumulate these life wealth for yourself.
In old age, people must not do stupid things, because many times, in fact, there is no chance to start over, and the last to suffer is themselves.
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