Love is attitude
It's more about action
01
It is often said that the boyfriend's parents do not agree, what to do?
In fact, this kind of thing whose parents hate who to lead the solution, the other one to cooperate on the line, because it is the other party's parents he can't figure it out, what do you take to persuade.
The other party is afraid that he will not even want to see you, do you shout in the air?
He is the treasure in the hearts of his parents, if he is not selected by himself, in fact, he does not look at the majority, either because he is not in good shape or because he is not tall enough.
Either you hate that you don't have a good job, your family is average, in short, it is not pleasing to the eye, but these things you change are not going to be good for a while and a half.
So it's very pale to let you face it, what can you say, say I love your son, say I will always be good to him, in fact, the essence of marriage is value.
Parents will only understand more that in their eyes you are not worth enough, and it is useless to say more.
02
They care about their children, so only the children can solve it if they come forward to speak.
So the important boyfriend comes up with his own attitude, and if he's very determined with you, then the parents are helpless.
They can stop it for a while at most, but they can't stop it for a long time, as long as every time you mention that you are not good, the boyfriend refuses to listen, and every time he says he disagrees, the boyfriend leaves.
They also have no way, of course, to confront their parents, come up with their own attitude, not filial piety to their parents, usually other things should be well communicated with their parents or said well.
It is still necessary to visit the parents, but this one thing is firm, not to say that there is resistance, or that everything must be done against, it is a bit extreme.
After a period of time, seeing the attitude of the son, the parents began to slowly compromise.
03
Of course, the boyfriend argues according to reason, the girl can not stand by and watch, you can ask the boyfriend what to do to change, can do it.
Don't say that they can't look up to me, then I will give up and fight with them, after all, you have to be with your boyfriend, and you can't make him embarrassed.
If he's always on your side, we'll also want to think about him and make him feel like he's not alone.
Then in addition to the boyfriend's attitude, his actions are also important.
Although some people say that you are very important, but in fact there is no push, always hope that you face and solve, it is a bit of a sense of escape,
Because what can you do? You face it directly, and it's basically very difficult.
04
Just like some people have a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage, they escape by themselves, so that the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law directly conflict.
In this case, everyone looks at the people caught in the middle and ignores it, that is, they are kings, and in the end, they are actually both defeated.
Men should stand up and deal with it at this time, fair and just, everyone will feel that there is no cheapness in the future, and it will not be biased.
Because two people without feelings you let them understand each other, communicate, it is too difficult, if they will consider each other will not go to this step.
So since there are contradictions and unhappiness, it proves that two people can't live in peace, and you need to coordinate.
Whoever you go to talk to, even if it is unpleasant, will not remain in the heart, because you are the bond.
So when the parents don't agree, just look at the boyfriend's attitude, he supports, you have the possibility to continue, he is broken, then you have no way to continue.
Even if you barely go down, you will still repeat itself.
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