In love, there is a big difference between men and women.
Men are truly dedicated to women and meticulous to women, and women will feel that such men are very reliable. And if women are truly dedicated to men and obey men in everything, then men will not cherish such women.
There is a lyric that reads, "What you don't get is always in turmoil, and what you prefer is fearless." This lyric could not be more appropriate for men.
Women pay to men unreservedly, which will spoil men, and he will slowly get used to it and take this kind of giving for granted. The end result is that you are getting more and more tired, and he is hurting you more and more unscrupulously.
Everyone wants to harvest happy love, but love is not something that can be obtained by giving alone. Women must understand that if they want to trap a man's heart, they must master some "little skills".
Love is equal, only by staying sober and flexibly using "small skills" can we firmly hold men's hearts, and smart women understand.
As a woman, you can't take the initiative to "beg" a man
Love is mutually giving, falling in love with a person, you can't help but want to give, want to be good to her.
Having a man who is gentle and considerate and loves himself, every woman will feel very happy. Because, he always knows what you want, and he can always give you some romantic little surprises.
However, there are also some women who often complain that their boyfriends are straight men and never understand romance. And some men are also very aggrieved: you women don't say, how can you guess what you really want?
In fact, there are some things in love that cannot be begged. Women's minds are indeed difficult to understand, but from a woman's point of view, women cannot ask men for it, because it will consume love and devalue love.
True love is what is willingly "given" and "given" for granted, not "begged".
Women should have independent space and keep a sense of mystery by distance from men
In love, two people are attracted precisely because of the sense of mystery, people have the psychology of curiosity, the more mysterious, the more they want to find out.
And there are many women who do not understand this psychology, love or marriage after love is very warm, become very clingy, as soon as they have time to give men video calls, get tired of getting together after work, and want to stick to men every moment.
In the long run, the man must be very annoying, he will feel that you are shallow, there are no hobbies, and let him not have a little space.
People often say that "distance produces beauty", in fact, women must have their own independent space, keep a distance from men, maintain a sense of mystery, he has his hobbies and circles, you also have yours. In this way, he will be trapped by you and love you more and more.
Women should constantly improve themselves and let men have a sense of crisis
Many women fall in love or get married, focusing on men, feeling that with men there is a dependence, they slowly become lazy, become less self-disciplined, do not pay attention to maintenance, do not pay attention to diet, do not pay attention to learning.
They don't know that over time, they will slowly depreciate, such as getting fat, deteriorating skin, and stagnating in their careers. The result, of course, is that men will certainly not cherish such a woman, or even leave her.
Good love should be two people on an equal footing, moving forward hand in hand, motivating each other to become a better person, rather than standing still.
So, even if in love or married, women don't forget to progress. In life, you must continue to maintain your figure, but also maintain your skin, and you must also improve yourself further in your career. The better you are, the more you can attract more excellent people, and the more men will have a sense of crisis, so they will care more about you.
In short, it is not easy to manage feelings, and only by learning to manage can feelings become sweeter and sweeter.
You know, love is not sacrificing yourself, nor is it blindly giving. Love is equal to each other, and it is the union of each other that makes both people more complete.
Smart women know that men like challenges, like to pursue women with difficulties, and women who are too easy to get and too obedient are not what they want.
Therefore, women must master some skills in order to catch men's hearts and harvest happy love.