Wen | snow fell without dust
In interpersonal communication, the relationship between people needs to be cultivated, not that I am a good friend with you now, and I will be a good friend for the rest of my life. Only a relationship that has been carefully cared for will last.
Love is the same, the relationship between men and women is the smallest interpersonal relationship, and it is also necessary to add firewood to the feelings in time to make love permanently fresh.
It is easy for two people to fall in love, but people's hearts are always changeable, and how to make love last a long time is indeed not an easy task.
So, how can you make a man love you more?
In fact, whether it is love or marriage, women who will point "routines", men often love more.
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The distance from the man is moderate, which will make him love you more
Distance produces beauty, and keeping distance between people increases each other's mystery. Especially in the relationship, if you keep a moderate distance from the man, it will make the man have the desire to understand you and like you more.
The sister and brother-in-law have been married for 19 years, and the son has been in his third year of high school, and they are already familiar with each other, but they have not ignored each other's feelings. The two men have always respected each other and respected each other.
I asked my sister, how did the marriage work so well?
The sister said that the brother-in-law was not only her husband in her heart, but also a friend, mentor, classmate... In life, even if the brother-in-law is not right, she will never speak harshly to each other, but solve problems with understanding and respect.
In fact, this is where my sister is smart. She didn't get too close to her brother-in-law, but kept a sense of distance.
Therefore, the brother-in-law also respects and loves her. The brother-in-law often praised his sister in front of outsiders for his understanding, saying that he had married his sister as the greatest blessing in his life.
As the saying goes, getting too close to anyone is a disaster, and it's true, and it's the same in marriage. If you and your partner get too close, you will have no secrets and be transparent with each other.
In that case, he will feel that you are very clingy, and will even not take you seriously, do not care about you, and even hate you.
The feelings between husband and wife are like flying a kite, only by retracting freely, will you harvest the joy of flying a kite; it is also like pulling a leather band, only the distance is moderate, will achieve the best results.
Therefore, if you want a man to love you forever, you need to maintain a moderate distance, so that he will respect you more, like you, and never abandon you.
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Trusting him in your heart will give him a sense of accomplishment
Good friendships are based on trust, the same is true for feelings, if you want to make the other party love you more, you must establish your own sense of trust in each other.
Especially men, he is the pillar of the family, and he likes to feel trusted. If your wife can trust him and entrust him with heavy responsibilities from time to time, it will arouse his desire to protect and increase his love for you.
Girlfriend Xiao Rong has been married for five years, the daughter is four years old, and her husband never quarrels, basically no red face. The husband often says that Xiao Rong has a good personality and a good temper, and when he mentions Xiao Rong, the husband's face is full of love overflowing with words.
Indeed, when Xiao Rong was in love with her husband, she was very relieved about him, and let him do everything, even if he did not do a good job, Xiao Rong would never complain, but gently gave her husband more encouragement and support.
The same is true after marriage, the husband said, marrying Xiao Rong is very happy, every day is like falling in love.
In marriage, Xiao Rong will discuss everything with her husband and will not easily make up her own mind. In her life, she is full of trust in her husband, which makes his husband feel very accomplished in front of her.
In fact, women in marriage, sometimes do not have to be too strong, appropriate in front of men to show weakness, let him help themselves, in order to reflect his importance, will stimulate his love for you.
Between husband and wife, a man's greatest sense of accomplishment is to be needed by the other party, and if he can solve problems for his own woman, it will give him a sense of satisfaction and joy.
Therefore, the foundation of marriage is trust, and women's trust in men will increase the concentration of your feelings and will pave the way for your happy life.
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Only when he becomes better will he feel proud
As partners, men like their women to be excellent because then he will have a lot of face. If you are very good, he will also respect you in the process of getting along with two people, including his family will look at you differently.
Since ancient times, we have heard of Empress Wu Zetian and Empress Dowager Cixi, but few people know empress Liu E during the Song Dynasty.
Although she did not justifiably bow to the government, the government assisted by her was the peace of the world.
Like Wu Zetian, Liu E was born in the folk and had a very poor family. Liu E followed the drama class to sell art in her teens. Because of her talent and intelligence, she learned to play chess and calligraphy during this period.
Later, she was sold to someone else's house as a concubine by her husband because she was poor, and then she was sold again, and after several turns, Liu Efu was so fatal that she actually entered the palace as a concubine.
Liu E is smart and sensible, treats people sincerely in the palace, does not pull gangs, never competes with other concubines for jealousy, and has a good reputation in the palace. Therefore, she was very favored by Song Zhenzong and was crowned empress by Song Zhenzong.
Liu E, who became empress, handled things in an orderly manner without any mistakes, and won the trust of Song Zhenzong.
Song Zhenzong handled state affairs until midnight, and Liu E accompanied her until midnight, during which she accumulated a lot of experience. Among the concubines, Emperor Zhenzong of Song favored Liu E.
Therefore, if a woman wants her husband to love herself more and more, she must make herself more and more excellent. Staying still will only make your life stop, and there is no life.
Women make themselves excellent, will earn enough face for men, and make him full of confidence in life. He will be very dependent on you, and whatever difficult things he encounters, he will find the answer in you.
In particular, if you are better than a man, he will give the man a feeling of unattainability, he will feel that marrying you is wronged you, so he will double his kindness to you.
Excellence is not only a woman's skills in making a living, but also makes herself live well, is a woman's independent capital, and is also a solid foundation for obtaining beautiful love.
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In fact, if you want men to love you more, don't just know how to pay and please, use some "routines" to work.
Love is emanated from the heart, but it is not enough to rely on one heart alone. It also takes a little skill to make love unbreakable.
In the face of feelings, everyone has their own ideas and practices, but the changes are inseparable, as long as you have love, and then have the right way of love, you will harvest full of love.
True love, both love and progress, will bring growth to each other.
Therefore, if you want to make men love you more, you need to treat it with wisdom, so that love will be kept fresh forever.