Question: The daughter is also a descendant, why does Jia Lian prefer sons to daughters, and with Sister Qiao, she still feels that her heirs are cut off?
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In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Sister Qiao is the daughter of Jia Lian and Wang Xifeng, who belongs to one of the Twelve Nobles of Jinling and is also one of the important characters in the book.
The officials heard that Jia Lian obviously had a child, and Wang Xifeng had already given birth to a daughter to the Jia family, but what did Jia Rong say when she instigated Jia Lian to secretly marry Second Sister You?
Jia Rong said, "Uncle lived for two years, and after a year and a half, even if he made trouble, he was scolded by the old man." The uncle only said that the aunt always did not give birth, and it was for the sake of the heirs, so he did this privately outside. It is the aunt who sees raw rice making mature rice, and she has to stop. Ask the old lady again, there is no end to it. ”
In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", jia rong's uncle in his mouth refers to Jia Lian, and his aunt refers to Wang Xifeng, it seems that in the hearts of most men, daughters are not heirs, no man in the family is equal to no one, Jia Rong and Jia Zhen talked about this matter, and so did.
After saying that, he took advantage of the fact that Jia Lian wanted to marry You Erjie as the second room on the road. He also said how to buy a house to live outside, so that Sister Feng did not know, "At this time, it is always just for the sake of the hardships of the heirs." Because the second aunt has seen it, kissing and kissing is better than what people who don't know elsewhere have said. So the second uncle repeatedly said to my father. "It's just that it's his own idea.
Later, Second Sister You was pregnant with a child, a male fetus, but was beaten down by Hu Tai's medicine of the tiger and wolf, and see what Wang Xifeng said?
Sister Feng only said: "We are destined to have no children, it is so easy to have one, and then I met such a doctor who has no ability." So he burned incense and prayed before heaven and earth, and prayed to chen himself: "I may be sick, but I only want you sister's body to heal greatly, and then I have to conceive and give birth to a man, and I am willing to eat and pray to the Buddha." He also scolded Ping'er for not being a blessed one, "Just like me." I am sick, but you are not sick and do not see a pregnancy. Now the second grandmother is like this, because we are not blessed, or what has been committed, rushing him like this. ”
Why, from ancient times to the present, most men seem to have a throne in their own family that needs to be inherited, and do not give up without having a son? Isn't the daughter a descendant? What is the root cause of Chinese preference for sons over daughters?
Some people say that daughters are going to marry out sooner or later, there is no son in the family, the incense will be broken, they will be eaten out of the house, and they will be dried in vain for a lifetime;
Some people say that only the son inherits his own unique Y chromosome, and the daughter cannot inherit the gene;
Some people say that the disparity in the strength of men and women, children are labor, and having sons is conducive to the survival and continuation of the family.
No matter what kind of reason, in the final analysis, the fundamental reason is nothing more than that women, whether in society or in the family, belong to the party that suffers losses, men are the party who can naturally take advantage, and the preference for sons and daughters is to take advantage, giving birth to daughters and granddaughters, and they will not be able to take advantage of them in the future, but they will be taken advantage of by others, and the others are just sloppy.
For thousands of years, women have been sacrificed unconditionally and endlessly, but in the past few years, women have begun to be unwilling to suffer and be wronged, and after learning a little selfishness with men, they have turned over the days of men, and complain everywhere!
The information in this article is mainly quoted from: "Dream of the Red Chamber" Cheng Gaoben, "Fat Yan Zhai Full Review Stone Record"