Sima Qian said: The world is bustling, all for the sake of profit! When Liu Bang was still the King of Han, he once made a "promise to share the world". However, whether it is the King of Yan at the beginning of the establishment of the Han Dynasty, or Han Xin, who once made great achievements, and then Xiao He and Yingbu later, they all showed one point, they can only share hardships, not wealth together!
In modern real life, most people in the face of interests, what comes out on the surface is that the interests are greater than everything, and many people will cross the river and tear down bridges for their own benefits. Speaking of these, Wu Qingling has a deep understanding.
When Wu Qingling was 8 years old, her parents divorced, because her father had a new love at that time, and after her mother learned that her father had a new love, she had a big fight with her father, and in the end, her father abandoned their two mothers and daughters.
Wu Qingling suffered a lot with her mother that year, and her mother raised her while working part-time, and also let her go to college, for her, her mother did not remarry.
After everyone graduated, Wu Qingling met Jiang Wei of the same company, and the two of them intersected more because they worked in the same company, and naturally, the two came together.
After Wu Qingling and Jiang Wei fell in love for a year, it was time to talk about marriage, so after both sides met their parents, Wu Qingling's mother did not raise objections, but she just had a request, asking Jiang Wei's family to take 66,000 dowry money. Jiang Wei did not say no or give to his face, but he pulled Wu Qingling aside.
"Your mother wants a dowry of 66,000, too much, we are married, we are all family, what bride price do you want, right?" Talk to your mother, the bride price will not be needed. ”
At the instigation of Jiang Wei, Wu Qingling proposed to her mother that she did not want the bride price, but her mother insisted on her principles and did not give the bride price money, and her mother did not agree, so Wu Qingling got into trouble with her mother:
"Mom, I told you straight, you agree or disagree, I'm going to marry him, the bride price money will be waived, please don't beat the mandarin duck, if you insist, then I won't recognize you as a mother."
After the mother heard her daughter's words, she was really sad in her heart, and finally she did not say anything about her daughter, but she also had her own bottom line: "Well, the bride price of 66,000 is too much for you, then you must give at least thirty thousand, this is the bottom line of the mother, if they do not agree, the mother will not agree to anything." In the end, Jiang Wei's family gave Wu Qingling's family 30,000 dowry money.
In this way, Wu Qingling and Jiang Wei got married. After marriage, Wu Qingling and Jiang Wei's parents did not live together, but Jiang Wei's mother had the key to their home, and every three to five places, Jiang Wei's mother came to her son's home.
This day, after Wu Qingling got off work, just walked to the door, he saw his mother-in-law chatting with the neighbors, only to hear her mother-in-law say:"
My son only spent thirty thousand yuan, he married a wife, thirty thousand yuan, she also married, so what does that mean? It shows that she is not worthy of my son
。 The mother-in-law said triumphantly.
Wu Qingling heard her mother-in-law say this to outsiders, and her heart was angry, so she did not give her mother-in-law face, and directly carried it with her mother-in-law, so that her mother-in-law could not get off the stage.
After that, the mother-in-law hated Wu Qingling, and when Wu Qingling was pregnant and about to give birth, the mother-in-law directly did not greet her face, making it clear that the daughter-in-law did not serve the confinement, and the grandson did not bring it.
After Wu Qingling's son was born, her mother-in-law fulfilled her promise and did not appear in the hospital. At this time, Jiang Wei said to Wu Qingling: "It's not to blame you, you gave my mother angry away, now there is no one to serve you Yuezi, no one to help you with the baby, you look at it yourself, anyway, I will not ask you to ask someone to help you." ”
After hearing her husband say such a thing, Wu Qingling was very sad in her heart, and her husband not only did not help her in her month, but also said this set of heartbreaking words, which was really sad.
"Mom, you're retired now, you have nothing to do anyway, in the future, you can help us with the baby, you're old, I'll raise you later."
The son-in-law's words were very beautiful, and the mother-in-law did not say a word of no, so she agreed to Jiang Wei and stayed with the child. In this way, Wu Qingling's mother lived in the home of her daughter and son-in-law, which was 8 years, bringing up her grandson.
In these 8 years, Wu Qingling's mother worked hard and complained, the pension of 3,500 yuan a month, basically all pasted to them, treating the grandson, Wu Qingling's mother has never been stingy, so that the grandson is particularly close to her.
However, Jiang Wei is not accustomed to the mother-in-law spending more money on her son, and every time she complains that she spends more money, but Wu Qingling's mother never cares about spending money on her grandson and daughter. For 8 years, Wu Qingling's mother did not save a little pension for herself, but spent all her pension, which was pasted in her daughter's home.
On the day of the child's 8th birthday, Jiang Wei's parents came to make a birthday for his grandson, and in previous years, Jiang Wei's parents did not come to the door, but on the day of the child's birthday this year, Jiang Wei's parents came, and just after entering the door, Jiang Wei's mother said:
"Mother, it is indeed hard for you to help us bring our grandson for so many years, but now, our family, we don't need you anymore, my wife is now retired, after the child, it is we who come to bring it ourselves, you go back to your hometown."
Wu Qingling's mother was immediately angry: "The child is now 8 years old, you are here, why did you go before?" Still drive me away, huh? Is there one like you? ”
"This is my son's house, we can come when we want to come, we can leave when we want, how old are you?" Haven't you heard? The daughter who married out spilled out the water, here the surname Jiang, not the surname Wu, hurry up. ”
But when the son-in-law saw his parents here, he not only did not persuade him, but said to his mother-in-law: "Mom, you should go back to your hometown, now, my parents have come to bring us children, and in the future, you don't have to worry about it anymore." After Jiang Wei's mother heard her son say this, she looked triumphantly at Wu Qingling's mother.
After Wu Qingling heard Jiang Wei say this, "You want to drive my mother away, right?" In our most difficult time, my mother has been helping us with the children, and now that your parents are here, the children are older, you have crossed the river and demolished the bridge, okay, in the future, you will live with your parents, I will take my mother away, let's divorce. After the divorce, the children followed me. Wu Qingling couldn't bear it anymore and directly slapped Jiang Wei.
The child also ran over to protect his grandmother, and wanted to follow Wu Qingling and his grandmother.
Jiang Wei: "If you want a divorce, yes, if you want to divorce, the children belong to me, I will not give your son to you, otherwise I will not agree to divorce..."
The two sides are at an impasse...
For this kind of man who crosses the river and demolishes the bridge, he has never thought of the grace of his mother-in-law with a baby for 8 years, when his parents came, he was bent on letting his mother-in-law go and let his parents pick up ready-made, which shows how inferior Jiang Wei's character is, and the word "gratitude" does not exist at all in his mind. He didn't take this wife seriously at all, and in the end, once the benefits were exhausted by him, he would ruthlessly abandon them.
And Wu Qingling clearly knew that she could not compromise this time, and she did not want them not to take her seriously in the future, and to make more excessive demands on her.
Women remember: if marriage doesn't bring you happiness, make a decision. Of course, when the marriage between the two is coming to an end, please don't forget to win your own interests.