I share a child's tone written in the parental double standard. Let's see how many of you have won?
01 They slept, I had to sleep
Indeed, from childhood to adulthood, every night I was urged by my parents to hurry up and go to the bath and sleep, and they had to turn off the lights and go to sleep. We must be put in bed before we stop.
I didn't know until I became a parent myself, because I wanted my child to go to bed early and grow a body. In addition, if I really want to go to bed early, I must put the child to sleep first, otherwise I will sleep, and the child will be a demon at home, in case something happens?
02 When they wake up, I have to wake up
How wonderful it was to have a weekend morning, finally without an alarm clock. However, your parents will definitely call you over and over again to get up for breakfast. Parents who open the door and lift the quilt are all there.
If I had gotten up very early in the morning, I would have stayed by myself, would not have called my parents to get up, and wished they would sleep more, and finally no one cared
03 Staying at home, annoyed me
At home, standing is not right, sitting is not right, parents can always pick a bunch of faults.
Eating you eat too much tells you to lose weight; eating less, saying that you hate the meal is not good.
You do housework and say you help; you don't do housework, you say you're lazy.
Read a book and say that you are pretending; if you do not read, you say that you do not want to make progress.
In short, they can't satisfy their wishes.
When I became a parent and my son was at home, I was really annoyed with him because I had to do more things. I wish he had gone to school, or the child had been taken out by his father.
04 Go out to play, think I spend money
Go out to play where there is no money, even if it is to hang out, take the kettle out of the house, take the car to ask for money, eat also need money. How many parents take their kids out to play without spending money?
When I became a parent, I realized that every time I took my children out to play, the money was sometimes spent in pain. The main thing is that they have no ability, and it is not easy to make money.
05 I don't talk, I'm dumb
Parents can't stand talking to their children, and the children don't react at all, and may come to a sentence: "Are you deaf or dumb?" "I was just very focused on doing my own thing and didn't pay attention to what my parents were talking about.
When I become a parent myself, I will be a little lonely when I see my children like this.
06 When I speak, I talk back
My dad complained to me that it was so difficult to serve my grandmother. She always said some stupid things there, and if my father didn't speak, she said that my father ignored her and was not filial piety. If my dad picked her up, she would say my dad was scolding her.
Usually what parents say, as long as we express our own views, parents will be crowned with the hat of "top of the mouth".
07 Eat and wear only and poor ratio
It couldn't have been more appropriate to apply to my parents. When I was a child, I was a picky eater, and my parents didn't have to eat the rice bran of their time every time, and there was very little oil and salt, let alone eggs, meat, fruits and the like.
Bring me my sister's old clothes to wear. Saying that the clothes are still quite new, they used to be "new three years, old three years, sewing and mending for another three years." You see, this dress is not even patched. ”
I am most afraid of rainy days, because shoes are easy to take off glue and enter the water. After the glue was removed, the parents used the fire tongs and burned red to help burn the soles of the shoes.
How many 7080 post-7080s plastic sandals were not patched by fire tongs in childhood?
08 Learning is only compared with good
In the past, my parents lingered in my ears every day, and the children of so-and-so were admitted to key high schools. When I was admitted to a key high school, they were again saying that the children of so-and-so were admitted to college. When I was admitted to college, they said again, so-and-so's children are admitted to prestigious universities.
09 Watching TV, the eyes will be blind; playing mobile phones will be blind; reading books will not be blind
If we watch TV and play with our phones, there is hardly any parent who doesn't say something bad for the eyes. But if I hold a book, they'll just say go to a bright spot and read it.
When I became a parent, I found that I did the same to my children.
Friends, are your parents like this? Will you become such a parent? After I found out that I was a parent, I understood the reasons behind the parental double standard.