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Painter Qi Baishi once said
People laugh at one, people scold one laughs.
Savor this sentence carefully, and suddenly understand the great wisdom of dealing with the world.
Life is not easy, everyone will experience a variety of life.
Only the mind is transparent, the sun can shine in, if you set up a barrier for yourself everywhere, even the strongest light can not penetrate.
I want to open, see, and let go of the world, smile and pass, and life will always be elegant and calm.
Face feelings: Instead of pestering, it is better to bless
There is no need to be grumpy about the passing of a relationship.
There is no right or wrong feeling, but it is at the right time to meet the right person and walk together.
If they are separated, it means that the fate has been exhausted, and they cherish each other and go well.
Not long ago, a couple of lovers in the company who had been in love for two years broke up. The boy struggled to keep it many times, and also wrote a letter of guarantee to list all the shortcomings and mistakes he wanted to correct, but still failed to save the relationship.
The boy chose to jump off the building in anger, but was fortunately stopped by the security guards.
The news spread throughout the building quickly, and for half a month, neither of them came to work.
There is a song that sings well:
If you no longer have nostalgia for the affectionate past, let it drift away with the wind.
Let go, don't tangle, don't wander.
I still remember a girlfriend in college, everyone recognized that she and her boyfriend were born as a pair, and they were model lovers of school flowers and school grass.
After graduation, my girlfriend chose to stay in Beijing, and her boyfriend chose to go back to his hometown, and I shared a house with my girlfriend and took care of each other.
About a year later, when I came home from work one day, my girlfriend suddenly calmly told me that she and her boyfriend had broken up.
I was stunned, and I didn't say a word for half a day, but my girlfriend patted my head and said, "Hey, look at your stupid look, is it that I lost love?" Go, eat a delicious meal today to celebrate returning to singlehood. ”
On the way to the hotel, I was careful, always on the lookout for her out-of-control outbreak, and as a result, my girlfriend spoke to me very seriously.
They had loved deeply and had no regrets; now that time had passed, they were no longer fit for each other, and they were apart and did not resent each other. Looking ahead, everything is a new beginning.
When the feelings are scattered, then it should be decided and not entangled.
Indecision is just consuming each other, and it is useless to repair feelings.
The kite that cannot be dragged let go and let it fly freely;
If you can't hold the feelings, let it go and let it fly high.
Face the gains and losses: Instead of calculating, let go
Life is always about gain and loss.
In the world, a pair of hands, a heart, a roll of bags, we can't take too much.
But there are always some people who regard success or failure as the whole of life, and are always competing and competitive, not knowing that these are all competing with themselves.
I once heard such a small story:
A painter originally lived a leisurely life, in addition to painting, drinking tea, and napping habits every day, he was physically and mentally healthy and very energetic.
One day, his agent told him, "Your two paintings were suddenly sold for a very high price. ”
The painter could not sit still at once, and the thought of the long list of numbers on the bank card was thrilled and excited.
Soon, the famous painters became more and more busy, often going in and out of various salons and dinners, not only losing their nap time, but also often insomnia at night.
As his health deteriorated, he couldn't help but miss the quiet life of painting and drinking tea before.
Finally, after introspection, the painter closed the door to thank the guests, pushed away the dinner party and socializing, and tried to return to his former life.
Slowly, he regained his inner peace.
The painter gains fame and fortune, loses his calm heart, and when he gives up these fame and fortune, the inner peace returns to the source.
The gains and losses of life are nothing more than fame and profit.
Do not like or be mad, do not hesitate to lose, calmly face gains and losses, do not be alarmed in your heart, and naturally can appreciate the beauty of life.
When Su Shi was an official in the imperial court, his career was not smooth, and he was degraded three times in a row, but the more he lived, the more he lived, the more he was dashing and free.
In the four years since he was degraded to Huangzhou, he has created a large number of famous articles, and has also researched the famous dish that has been handed down to this day - "Dongpo Meat".
Degraded to Huizhou, he wrote "Huizhou A Must", which made Lingnan Lychee a hit, and created a new famous dish "roast sheep scorpion".
When he was more than a year old, he was demoted to Danzhou, and he did not forget to ridicule himself: the oysters here are delicious, but other officials cannot let other officials know and come.
In the eyes of countless people, the ups and downs of a life of hardship and three depreciations, Su Shi lightly summarized it as "Ask Ru Ping life merit, Huangzhou Huizhou Danzhou." ”
If a person calculates gains and losses, he will bind the heart;
A person who knows how to look down on gains and losses is to ferry himself.
Face grudges: Instead of tangling, it's better to forget
The lyrics sing:
People in the rivers and lakes can't help themselves, love and hatred are difficult, and there is no end to grievances.
Getting along with people is inevitable friction, there will also be right and wrong grievances, how to face and deal with it, but it is the benevolent who sees the benevolent, and the wise see the wise.
Sunac Sun Hongbin worked at Lenovo when he was young, with outstanding performance and outstanding ability.
In less than two months, he helped Lenovo establish 13 branches across the country, selling a total of 10 million yuan of backlogged inventory goods, which were also reused by Liu Chuanzhi.
Liu Chuanzhi has great trust in Sun Hongbin and intends to cultivate it to clear the obstacles on his way forward.
Over time, the people in the company began to take the initiative to gather around Sun Hongbin, and a Sun faction gradually formed within the company.
Later, because of some contradictions within the enterprise, Sun Hongbin was transferred away from the original department. Soon someone reported to Liu Chuanzhi that Sun Hongbin and others privately discussed transferring the 17 million yuan in their hands to other places.
Liu Chuanzhi was furious and immediately called the police, and Sun Hongbin was also sentenced to 5 years in prison for "embezzlement".
In the eyes of many people, Sun Hongbin must hate Liu Chuanzhi to the bone, but what surprises people is that After Sun Hongbin was released from prison, he took the initiative to invite Liu Chuanzhi to dinner, and the two discarded their previous suspicions and shook hands and made peace.
Truly intelligent people know how to break through the shackles of hatred and open up new prospects for themselves, just like Sun Hongbin.
Forgive others and liberate yourself. Let go of grievances, be comfortable, and the road is smooth.
Gain or loss to look down on the can accommodate things, the heart mirror ethereal beauty self-will.
Only by looking down on the grievances and hatred will the wind and moon be clear along the way.
Master Koichi has a saying:
In life, the heart is one inch wide, the road is one inch wide, and one thought is put down, and everything is at ease.
Do not mess with the heart, do not get trapped in feelings, do not fear the future, do not think about the past.
Life is like this, it is good.
For the rest of my life, may you and I live in the sun in our eyes, laugh frankly, lightly pack, and live fearlessly and calmly.