Fate is like the wind, inadvertently blowing.
For people with connections, it only takes one chance to meet and spark feelings. If they don't have a chance with each other, even if they get along day and night, it is difficult to develop into a couple.
Why is there such a phenomenon in the world of emotions?
From the perspective of love psychology, everyone is an independent individual and will have its own magnetic field.
The fate of two people is often determined by the magnetic field.
Those with similar magnetic fields, with the possibility of communication, will be attracted involuntarily. This attraction will prompt both parties to secrete dopamine, which will make both people become emotional.
Therefore, both parties will easily place their feelings in an important position and have a feeling of pity for each other.
Once such a subconscious is formed, two people will involuntarily come closer and overcome many obstacles to come together. And each other's love will also usher in opportunities to heat up again and again in a quiet way.
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In the eyes of men, there is a difference between love and liking.
Falling in love with someone starts with liking.
Two people with similar magnetic fields can easily produce a feeling of mutual liking.
But how to deal with fate, there are differences between the two sexes.
For example, girls tend to be very focused, like a boy, will slowly develop into true love. After determining the relationship between the couple, what the woman expects is often the love that does not abandon.
But in the eyes of men, they often distinguish between like and love.
Even if they don't love, some men will not refuse the girl's overtures, because in the eyes of these men, even if they interact with each other, they will not suffer losses, but will take advantage.
But deeply in love with a person, men will behave differently.
With the opportunity to communicate, they will spare no effort to show goodwill and want to completely win the hearts of girls. Even if you enter marriage, the man who really loves will remain active enough to manage the feelings of two people with heart.
Because, such a man has long regarded girls as partners for the rest of their lives.
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If they love you, men will have such expectations.
True love makes people strive to be perfect.
If you just like it lightly, men may approach you.
However, in the process of communication, they can maintain enough rationality, and there is often a bottom line for girls' efforts.
If the girl's demand exceeds the man's expectations, then the man will choose to leave.
Completely in love with a girl, men will not only become emotional, in the process of pursuing each other, there will be a performance of all-out efforts, even if it is hard and tired, they will persist.
When encountering such a boy, girls can not only find a sense of happiness, but also have a long-term sense of solidity.
Of course, men who give love will also ask for it. If he regards a girl as his wife and is willing to marry this girl, men will also have expectations and wishes.
The love that men want, it turns out, is like this, and they miss it if they don't understand it.
Work hard for girls.
Because they love you, men will see girls as the object of their protection.
In the process of getting along with two people, even if the girl does not remind, the man will use the initiative to show goodwill to manage each other's feelings. I hope that in the passage of time, I can witness my sincerity and let the girls truly accept themselves.
Men are indifferent when they don't love you.
If they have true feelings for girls, they will look forward to being able to use their own efforts to give each other a happy life.
In the eyes of men, the happiness of girls is the goal of their own efforts.
After two people hold hands, the man will take the initiative to shoulder the responsibility, without the need for the girl to put forward the needs, he will also strive to be the "roundworm" in the girl's belly, through meticulous care, step by step into the depths of the lover's heart.
So, if you meet a boy who loves you, you might as well fulfill him.
For him, being able to protect the woman he loves is a great happiness.
Just because, the man who really loves you, wants to give girls a better life. To this end, he will change himself, find a new goal, and stick to it, all the efforts, but for the woman next to him.
Hope you can understand him.
Fall in love with someone and men will become generous.
In front of the girls, they strive to pose as gentlemen, hoping to gain the approval of the people they love.
And when they hold hands smoothly with each other and get along in the time, the man who loves you will also grasp the details, strive to bring a real sense of belonging to the girl, and be willing to become the only one for the rest of a woman's life.
But sometimes, men are really busy.
After encountering love, if the man is just playing with the mentality, he will naturally not change himself for the sake of the girl, and he will not be busy for the future of the two people.
On the contrary, the boy who cares about you will work harder after falling in love with you.
Because he is ready to spend the rest of his life with you, hoping to give you a solid present and a better future, men need to shoulder more responsibilities and win more workplace feedback.
When a man is busy with love, he may not have time to take care of the girls around him.
In this case, the man will look forward to being able to gain the understanding and support of the lover. Rational men can realize that a truly happy life is inseparable from the joint management of two people.
Women's understanding will make men more grateful.
In the age of love, there will be all kinds of people.
Some people have a sincere mentality and hope to meet people who can stay together for a lifetime.
There are also friends, they just want to be fresh, will go into contact with love. When there is no novelty in love, these people will withdraw their love and become indifferent.
In men's minds, they often distinguish between liking and true love.
If it is just a playful mentality, they will not pay true feelings, but will use a shallow attitude to treat the fate around them. Meeting such a man will be the misfortune of a girl.
And the man who really treats you is ready to live with you.
Once you hold hands successfully, men will look forward to being able to use their own efforts to give girls a happy and stable life, in his view, this is the responsibility and responsibility of men. At the same time, men will also hope to get the understanding and support of girls.
In the eyes of men, only by doing this is a manifestation of true love. When necessary, girls can understand themselves, their own efforts are worth it, and then, they will cherish the girls around them more.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.