Walking on the street, I always heard an old man say, Alas, this child is really naughty, but this child is smart! Aren't naughty kids smart? Although people do not have a conclusion, they still think so in the general understanding.
Only the parents of naughty children know how bad it is to bring such a child, and they can't take care of it at a glance, and naughty children may bring little trouble to their parents at any time, making parents want to cry without tears, and the impulse to scold people can't stop.
In fact, how many kinds of smart babies are divided? If your child is very naughty, but at the same time meets the following three characteristics, it means that the child will have a future appearance, if it does not meet the following three characteristics, just silly trouble, it is likely to be the old man often said to collect debts of the child.
First, children with strong hands-on operation ability.
If the child in our family has a very strong hands-on operation ability, he shakes his small hand, he can meet his desire for toys, that means that this little guy is not ordinary, the level of intelligence is definitely not under ordinary people, this kind of child we as parents, even if he is naughty, impulsive, love to step on the things at home, we must be patient, or do a good job of guidance, do not destroy the child's talent.
For this type of child, it is recommended that parents give their children more opportunities to dismantle things, even if the child makes a mess of the room, we must be patient, and then endure, to know that many days are endured by parents like this.
Of course, parents scientific guidance is also very important, children are not afraid of destruction, but parents should guide children to restore the dismantled things to their original state, which not only exercises the child's hand-brain coordination ability, but also improves the child's thinking ability and memory.
Second, the child who desires to learn
If your child does not idle his mouth to ask you why this is why and why that, we can initially judge that this child is a child who is very willing to use his brain, and through observation and thinking, they come up with a phenomenon that they do not know, the answer, so they have to ask their parents. We can definitely say that such a child is a relatively high IQ development, and the desire to learn is also a very strong type of baby, for this type of child, the average parent will feel more annoyed, how can this child ask some low-level questions?
Wise parents will guide their children to explore the essence behind the problem, you can ask simple questions, but do not ask it, but guide the child to explore the problem in depth, greeting the essence of the reason.
Third, children with strong appeal.
There is a girl next to us who really has strong leadership skills, her calling ability is strong, and it is easy to change, keeping the children around them together, and they are very energetic and capable of managing others.
This kind of child can basically be regarded as a leadership personality, and if the parent finds that his child has this ability, then you must protect her well.
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