It is often said that travel is an important criterion for testing whether a couple is suitable, and there are also friends around who experience the tragedy of breaking up at the end of the trip. Today I would like to talk to you about why it is easier for couples to break up after traveling together.
Many couples go abroad for honeymoon after getting married, and as a result, they quarrel over some things, are disappointed in each other, and a good honeymoon trip becomes a breakup trip, and even can't wait to go home and get divorced at the airport. Those shortcomings that have been whitewashed, more likely to be exposed in an unfamiliar environment, in the case of a person's exhaustion, the way of communicating with strangers, the way of coping with unexpected situations, the state of physical fatigue and adaptation to unfamiliar environments, the emotions when the expected effect is not achieved, the difference in consumption concepts between two people, etc. All of these will be displayed in front of two people during travel.
During this period, girls will feel that their boyfriends are not as considerate as before, and they will be confused and overwhelmed when they encounter unexpected situations. Boys may also find that girls are not as delicate as before, love to be clean, will play a little temper when angry, obviously they want to go to the place, wait until they want to go, but they want to sleep more lazy. The older you get, the more you realize emotional stability, how important is it for an adult? If you don't travel all day in a hotel, it's hard not to feel tired. Everyone has shortcomings and problems, and travel will not only expose the shortcomings of both sides, but also allow both parties to find each other's hidden shining points, and it takes courage to constantly tolerate and run.
However, travel is not only in life, travel does expose shortcomings. However, these shortcomings will gradually be exposed in daily life, so there is no need to raise some small frictions in travel to the level of three views. Try to be an emotionally stable adult, whether it is for your partner or a stranger around you, don't be a victim of negative energy, complain that it can't solve any problem, don't magnify the other person's shortcomings, and don't ignore the other party's strengths.