Some people say that it is not easy for men today, and they are overwhelmed by the high expenditure on marriage, and many young people directly dare not talk about love and marriage.
It is true that many men nowadays are not easy, and some women's requirements are indeed too outrageous, but most of them are still very good.
In fact, men are not easy, women are not easy, if the once wrapped feet are a shackle of women, then now quite a bit of a taste of "independent women" is another shackle.
After marriage, whether it is to make money at home or to run the family at home, it is a division of labor and cooperation, and there are indeed some women who have no income after marriage and do not have any family status, but there are also many couples who have a good life.
In fact, this has nothing to do with making money or not, but related to the object you choose, but unfortunately many women can't see through it, and still regard making money as a life-saving straw, but they don't know that it may be unladylike, or emotional problems.
A netizen in Shandong shared his life moments, in a building facing the street, the netizen held a mobile phone facing the bottom to shoot.
There were several cars parked on the side of the road, and there was a person next to him holding several balloons, and netizens said that this was her father-in-law, who was standing below selling balloons.
It turned out that this female netizen had not had a job after giving birth to a child, and now life is stressful, not to mention that the family has also bought a house in the city, and it is too hard to rely on her husband alone.
So this female netizen wants to make balloons to sell, although it is made by herself, but each one is very good-looking, not worse than the hands of those traders, it seems that the female netizen's hand is still very clever.
For this female netizen, the difficult handiwork in the eyes of others may not be difficult for her, but the next step makes her feel deeply embarrassed.
I don't know if I have been at home for too long, or because I am afraid, although I have made a lot of balloons, but this female netizen does not dare to sell on the street.
This immediately upset the female netizen, and when the female netizen was overwhelmed, the father-in-law stood up domineeringly and directly expressed his love for his daughter-in-law with actions.
The father-in-law directly said that as long as the daughter-in-law is ready, he will sell, which is very simple, but it is extremely touching, so there is just that scene.
Looking at the father-in-law who sold balloons downstairs, the daughter-in-law felt very moved, even if the father-in-law did not sell the last one, she was still very moved.
The father-in-law used his own practical actions to cheer up the daughter-in-law, help the daughter-in-law to re-establish the courage to face the world, and also make the relationship between the two generations go further.
Women have to face the problem of having children, having a child plus the time to take care of the child later, basically can not go out to work for several years, if you have several births This time will be longer.
Without any source of income at home for a long time, many women become anxious, feel that their status is declining, and they are no longer valued.
Just like the netizen just now, he was also anxious because he stayed at home for a long time and had no income, and then he thought of doing balloon sales himself.
In fact, many women have made similar attempts after giving birth, such as the previous "hot and abnormal micro-business", many of which are mothers.
In fact, many people know that many micro-businesses do not make money, mainly to continuously develop agents, to charge various agency fees, but why do so many mothers still refuse to give up?
In fact, they don't understand, but not every mother is like this female netizen, and there is a reasonable father-in-law who silently supports her.
Many mothers fall into anxiety after marriage and are eager to regain their previous status by making money, but the idea of making money is not only not supported by their families, but many people are also ruthlessly suppressed.
This has also led to many people even if they know that the hope of micro-business is slim, but still refuse to give up, and bao mama wants to play mahjong to get rich, and as a result, she has a debt.
These things sound very magical, but if you think about it carefully, you can find the mystery, many contradictions and problems, we can't just look at their surface.
Women are very difficult before and after giving birth, the family must give enough care and support, follow-up should also actively help women from the family to return to society.