The quality of daughters in "Dream of the Red Chamber" is generally higher than that of men, which is the embodiment of the omen of men in the last days. Several daughters were raised as boys by their parents. For example, Zhen Yinglian, Lin Daiyu and Wang Xifeng.
Zhen Yinglian is the shadow of Lin Daiyu, not much to introduce, this article talks about Lin Daiyu and Wang Xifeng, who were also raised as boys, why was Lin Daiyu raised as a talented woman praised by everyone, but Wang Xifeng became the living King of Yan that everyone feared?
(The second time) This is now forty years old, only a three-year-old son, and he died in the past year. Although there were several concubines, nai he was childless, and there was nothing to do. Now there is only his wife Jia Shi, who has a daughter, whose name is Daiyu, who is five years old. Husband and wife have no children, so they love like treasures, and seeing that he is smart and beautiful, they also want him to read and read a few words, but pretend to be the meaning of the adopted son, and talk about the desolate sigh under the knees.
In ancient society, men were inferior to women, and lin daiyu, even if she was one year older than her brother, had to be introduced behind her brother. The original text specifically said that she was born to his wife Jia Shi, and speculated that Lin Brother was born out of ten.
Unfortunately, Lin's younger brother died prematurely, and Lin Ruhai's heirs were difficult, so he raised Lin Daiyu as a boy and gave him the "resources" to educate his son.
The ancients raised their daughters and sons are very different, and sons should devote resources to careful cultivation and vigorously invest in education. Lin Ruhai specially hired Jia Yucun to enlighten her daughter.
Jia Yucun was born as a scholar and served as a prefect, and his level would not be worse than that of the Hanlin attendant who educated the prince, and the high standard was self-evident.
In contrast, her daughter's education is more general, taking Li Feng as an example, her father "did not make him read very much, but he only made some three or four kinds of books such as "Four Books of Women", "Biography of Lienu", "Collection of Xianyuan" and so on, so that he could recognize a few words, remembering these few virtuous women in the previous dynasty, but only to spin the well as the main thing..."
The daughter's education follows the family's edification, and the mother teaches by example, and the emphasis on morality is not heavy on talent. "Spinning Performance Well Mortar" is mainly the basic of the Husband's Godson, cultivating everyone's boudoir and virtuousness.
Lin Daiyu was educated by Jia YuCun, and her learning improved by leaps and bounds, and she read the "Four Books" at the age of seven, and then stood out among the daughters of the Grand View Garden, and completely grew into an amazing talented woman. This is closely related to the family style of the Lin family poetry book heirloom.
Besides, Wang Xifeng was also raised as a boy, but the Wang family was not because of the desolation of the heirs, but intentionally.
Although Dai Yu did not know her, she had also heard her mother say that Jia Lian, the son of her uncle Jia Huan, was married to a niece within the second uncle's mother, Wang Shi, who had been raised as a boy since childhood, and whose scientific name was Wang Xifeng.
Wang Xifeng is a scientific name, the nickname is Brother Feng, and they are all male titles.
The ancients took strict names, and Feng Weixiong was a male name. For example, Jin Yong's Miao Renfeng, Gu Long's Lu Xiaofeng. Huang wei female is the daughter's name. That's how "Phoenix Seeking Phoenix" came about.
Wang Xifeng was "disguised as a boy to be raised", dressed as a boy and received the same education as his brothers, quite a "Zhu Yingtai" style.
However, the Wang family is different from the Lin family, and it is also different from Zhu Yingtai's study, and the Wang family is the same as the Jia family.
At the beginning, the governor was in charge of the county prince, and the second duke of Ning Rong were both soldiers, and the Jia family abandoned wu congwen, but the Wang family has always advocated military force.
Lin Daiyu was raised as a boy and taught poetry etiquette and Confucian learning.
Wang Xifeng was raised as a boy, but what he cultivated was the character of scheming and decisive killing.
Therefore, lin daiyu who grew up is talented and is a model of talented women. However, Wang Xifeng did not know a single basket in big characters, and he was able and fierce with an iron fist, and he was even more rogue, with the meaning of unscrupulous means to achieve the goal. This is the difference between the inheritance of "family style".
In this way, Wang Xifeng educated her daughter Qiao Jie, and it would certainly be difficult to become a talented girl like Lin Daiyu. However, Lin Daiyu's children are destined to be culturally refined and carefully cultivated, and it is not ruled out that blue is better than blue.
Therefore, the ancients paid attention to the inheritance of "family style". The Lin family and the Li family are more suitable for the Jia family who abandon wu congwen. Most of the daughters of the Wang family are raised by the Wang family, and if it is not for special reasons, they include Xue Baochao, who was educated by Aunt Xue, and they are not suitable for the future development of the Jia family.
The reason why the Wang family cultivated their daughter's "heart techniques and means" is also to be able to quickly control the in-laws. From Mrs. Wang, Aunt Xue to Wang Xifeng, they have a very clear family style, helping them quickly control the resources of their in-laws for the benefit of their mother-in-law.
The Wang family grew step by step through the benefits of the marriage of their daughters. That is, Lin Daiyu borrowed the "mother locust" policy that Liu Yao satirized. The marriage of gold and jade is a continuation of the mother locust strategy.
It is precisely because of the problem of family upbringing that the personality of the daughter of the Wang family is somewhat gloomy. Wang Xifeng even played it to the extreme. There are clues in the original text to prove that there are six or seven people who died directly and indirectly from Fengjie's related lives, which is still superficial.
Belonging to the same male education, Lin Daiyu was educated to become a talented woman, but Wang Xifeng became a living Yan Luo. The root cause is still the family style.
The Lin family is the Shuxiang Mendi, and the Wang family is the iron-blooded family. The wind of the Lin family can have a long history, but the Wang family will inevitably be lonely and not long!
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