Beautiful love is always yearning, but if you don't like each other, the other party will definitely like it.
In this era of many women and boys, many people will have an illusion, that is, girls do not have to worry about finding people, but the reality is not necessarily so, if you just want to find a partner, then naturally there is no trouble, but if you want to find a you like, meet your needs, it is not so easy, especially when the other party is not very cold to you, you take the initiative to pursue men is actually extremely difficult, you may not have the courage to pursue after being rejected once.
So what if you meet a guy you like and aren't interested in yourself? Xiao Ya will share this topic with you today, first of all, it must not be lightly given up, because there are really too few high-quality boys, and some have even been taken down in the student era, even if there are some, uh. Slipping through the net around there will be a lot of competitors, encounter some people with similar conditions, a little hesitation will be preempted by other women, although said, there are some women's conditions are not very good, but the stupid bird flies first, encounter a good condition of the opposite sex, then let go of some, put bold, those who think that high-quality people are picky, waiting for boys to chase themselves, never take the initiative of you, and finally can only harvest embarrassment. Be sure to insist on a few more times, first of all, make yourself excellent, and then express this intention with the object you like, once it does not work twice, take it slowly, but don't be too extreme, naturally it is good, boys, you also do not like the twisted melon.
Second, smile, I believe you all know that the luck of girls who love to laugh will not be too bad, as long as you always keep the smile and happiness on your face, a positive. Upward people will have a lot of contagion, and I'm sure you'll definitely like a guy who loves to laugh, right? Boys who love to laugh and are sunny, because such people can get a good attitude for everyone around us. Boys are very stressed in life, and if I believe he meets a Lego girlfriend, he also likes it very much. Third, try to change yourself and make yourself very good, which is very important, I think no one does not like optimistic and self-motivated girls. In the same way, there is no one who does not like good people.
If you don't have any talent in you, no ink in your stomach, and your appearance is unrecognizable, but the person you like is radiant, making you look intimidated, but you dare not get close, then what are you waiting for at this time? Hurry up and make yourself excellent. This is not a fairy tale, less knowledge, only sparse learning, then read more books, in poor shape to go to the gym to lose weight, find their own interests and hobbies, make yourself full, then you are afraid that you do not have the courage to tell him that you like him? Even if you are rejected, but in the process of trying to become excellent, I believe you will definitely gain a lot of things, and you will not stop here, because of what? You have fought for it, you have worked hard, and there are no regrets.
Fourth, don't go shopping with each other for dinner and milk tea. Seeing boys is not like, you try to change some of the other person's favorite things, such as playing games, the way to quickly shorten the distance is not to interact with each other, many boys do not like shopping at all, nor are they willing to go shopping, so what is the point of such a date? So correct your attitude, then since you are now pursuing each other, then you have to find what the other party likes to do, and you are not too annoying. In this world, there has never been a natural pair, nor a match made in heaven, but some people are trying to cater to each other and tolerate each other's careful thinking. Don't believe those poisonous chicken soup on the Internet, saying that there will be no good life after women take the initiative, happiness is to be fought for by themselves, men and women are the same. Of course, people who like you don't like you, this is also the norm of life, not necessarily you are not good enough to deserve him.
Feelings have always been reluctant to come, if a person does not like you, you do more or useless. So, it's better to make yourself a little better and meet the person who really likes you, the person who belongs to you.