I have seen such a sentence that the beauty of a poor girl is a poison given by fate.
In this era when appearance is justice, isn't it a fortunate thing to have beauty? At first, I was a little puzzled, until I saw Zhou Nan, who was reduced to a high-ranking official's plaything in the TV series "Twelfth Second".
Zhou Nan is a female college student from a poor family in the Academy of Fine Arts, and the cost of her college attendance is sponsored by Wang Shaofeng. And this nobleman in Zhou Nan's mind is actually a disaster star in his own destiny.
Wang Shaofeng approached this young female college student and provided him with rich material living conditions, but step by step he wanted to pull her into the mire of money.
For a poor female college student with empty beauty, her studies and future are inseparable from the decoration of money, and the life of those drunken fans is a world she has never seen.
In the end, Zhou Nan was packaged by Wang Shaofeng as a gift to a high-ranking official, and she was completely reduced to someone else's Qing woman, constantly being squeezed by Wang Shaofeng for surplus value.
When a poor girl is empty and beautiful, it just so happens that this beauty can bring you great wealth in a short period of time, and I don't know how many people can resist this temptation.
For people whose wisdom and ability cannot support beauty, outstanding appearance is indeed a disaster.
Qingwen in "Dream of the Red Chamber", with her beautiful and outstanding appearance, makes her proud. She came from a humble background, just a little girl who was constantly being transferred.
How beautiful is Qingwen? Regardless of her description, she looks like Lin Daiyu, a daizhu fairy, and it can also be seen in Cao Xueqin's sentence, "The dexterity of the wind and the deft attract people's resentment."
With this resentful beauty, if Qingwen can live cautiously, it may be a different scene. She has a straight nature and sharp teeth. It has become a fox charmer who must be wary of seducing Baoyu by those in power, and it has also become a thorn in the eye of the same class of servants.
Just when Qingwen was finally driven out of the Grand View Garden by Madame Wang, the raider said something like this: "The wife only thinks that he was born too well, it is inevitable to be light-hearted, the wife is well aware of such a beautiful person, the heart can not be quiet, so I am very suspicious of her, like our rough and stupid pour good." ”
In that feudal era, there was beauty but no background, and he maintained his beautiful personality, and he could only leave a grudge in the air. Qingwen's life can really be described as "beautiful in success and beauty in defeat".
Liu Wenjing, the heroine of Chen Guo's novel "My Beautiful Friend", is a poor but beautiful woman, but because of this beauty, she has suffered many more hardships and temptations to resist than ordinary girls.
Liu Wenjing, who graduated from junior high school, was forced to marry by her family and asked her to marry the son of the village chief. The village chief's son was a well-known "second-rate son", so Liu Wenjing fled to the city alone and worked as a waiter in a small restaurant in Shanghai.
Here, she met her boyfriend "Rat". A college graduate from the county seat of Hunan, he now works as a small clerk in a bank.
"Rat" is glad that she can have a girlfriend like Liu Wenjing, because Liu Wenjing, who has just arrived in the city, does not know how great an advantage beauty is for women, if she knows that her beauty can make her live a rich life, how can she catch up?
Liu Wenjing is glad that she can have a boyfriend like "Rat", a "rat" who graduated from college and has a stable job, for a rural girl like her who graduated from junior high school who works in a restaurant, it seems unattainable.
However, when the mother of the rat learned of this relationship, she resolutely disagreed and blasted Liu Wenjing, who was kneeling on both knees, out of the house.
Emotionally frustrated, Liu Wenjing felt that she was so bad that she had a diploma, studied hard enough, studied day and night, and really passed the college entrance examination to a well-known university in Shanghai.
However, Liu Wenjing, who came from a poor family, could only work and read half-time, but some people in the village who had ill intentions spread rumors about Liu Wenjing everywhere, saying that she was making money by selling her body in Shanghai.
It is precisely because of Liu Wenjing's outstanding appearance that these rumors seem to be more and more true.
After graduation, Liu Wenjing faced the family's successive requests for money, and also thought about finding a rich man to marry myself, but she met a liar, she used her wit to escape, but she was more convinced of her life, after all, she could only rely on herself.
Liu Wenjing also had a boyfriend who was a returnee, but finally broke up because the differences in living habits and values of the two people were too big to integrate.
In the end, Liu Wenjing did not choose to use her beauty to find shortcuts, but found an ordinary boy in life to form a family.
Maybe there are many girls like Liu Wenjing in life, but some people hold on to themselves, and some people go astray because of too many temptations.
Since ancient times, red face has a thin life, and beauty is a double-edged sword. No wisdom, empty beauty, for girls who are not deeply involved in the world, is a very terrible thing.
For beautiful girls, there are usually two options for marriage:
The first is to use their beauty to cross classes, but the hardships that need to be paid are needless to say. Some people suffer, some people have a bunch of children, some people wait for more than ten years, and they don't necessarily have a reputation. At the same time, we must also be mentally prepared to have the ability to deal with those who are interpersonal and to deal with those who are lowly and humble.
The second is to choose an ordinary person to marry, but marriage is a sharp weapon to consume hormones, and life will always be flat. And those beautiful women have long been accustomed to the life of the stars and the moon, and it is undoubtedly painful to break away from the comfort zone. At this time, compared with ordinary women, it is more testing of the self-sustainment and self-control ability of such people.
Poor girls, good looks, have to face more temptations, this kind of beauty will often drive you to want to get something for nothing, but forget that everything in life has a price.
No matter how outstanding the appearance is, there is a shelf life, and women have the ability to accept the gap in life, which requires you to have a strong and sober heart. The wisdom of the mind is the confidence that you can always grasp and will not pass with time.
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