Circles are different, there is no need to be strong!
Who you are, you can attract whom.
Don't be cheap yourself, don't give at will, don't be wishful thinking to cater to others, your efforts to fit in is not pretty, the circle is different, you don't have to be strong.
Life seems to be calm and calm, but reality is always punching in the face and merciless. Everyone has their own social positioning, and what level you are determines what kind of circle you have. Don't expect to use your knee-bending pity in exchange for cheap sympathy from others. Your flattery and flattery, your flattery and flattery, your flattery and greeting, are just the talk of others after tea, the laughing stock after dinner, and the laughter in vain!
Lu Xun: The True Biography of Ah Q
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The general rule of the lichuan should probably start with "so-and-so, word so-and-so, so-and-so people also", and I don't know what A Q's surname is.
At one point, he seemed to have the surname Zhao, but the next day it became blurred.
That was when Grandpa Zhao's son entered Xiucai, the gong sounded boring to report to the village, Ah Q was drinking two bowls of yellow wine, and he danced and said that this was also very glorious for him, because he and Grandpa Zhao were originally from the family, and he was three generations older than Xiucai in the fine row. At that time, several observers were also solemnly a little respectful.
That knew that the next day, the earth protector asked Ah Q to go to Grandpa Zhao's house;
When The grandfather saw it, his face was full of splashes, and he drank:
"AQ, you bastard! Do you say I'm your own family? ”
A Q does not open his mouth.
The more Grandpa Zhao looked, the more angry he became, and he took a few steps forward and said, "You dare to talk nonsense!" How could I have a ben like you? Is your last name Zhao? ”
A Q did not open his mouth, wanted to retreat;
Grandpa Zhao jumped over and gave him a mouth.
"How can you be surnamed Zhao!" ——You have the surname Zhao there! ”
Ah Q did not argue that his surname was Zhao, but only touched his left cheek with his hand, and the dibao withdrew; outside he was reprimanded by the dibao, and thanked the dibao for two hundred wine money.
People who know it say that Ah Q is too absurd and goes to fight himself; he probably may not be surnamed Zhao, even if his real surname is Zhao, and there is Zhao Taiye here, he should not be so nonsense.
No one mentioned his clan since then, so I finally don't know what ah Q's surname is.
"You also deserve the surname Zhao"!
Advise the king to know self-discipline and not to go to the gentle attachment. The ability to meet the needs of others determines your value in the eyes of others.
The low-quality, low-energy, low-value self, coveting the three-foot-bar to fit into the high-value circle, will eventually be because of the wide variety of interests and the bamboo basket to draw water - an empty.
Circles are different, there is no need to be strong! Don't rely too much on anyone.
Circles are different, don't have to squeeze hard! Don't deliberately please anyone.
People's hearts are different, there is no need to force it! Don't have to go near anyone.
For all people, we do not force, do not force, do not squeeze.
Disturbed others, worked hard for yourself.