A person always looks up to and envies the happiness of others, but when he looks back, he finds himself being looked up to and envied.
What we are most accustomed to doing is to look up to others, but we always forget to look down at ourselves, some people say that this is not satisfied, some people think that this is a self-motivated performance.
It is true that proper "hunger" will promote everyone to keep running forward, but too much hunger will make everyone ignore what it feels like to be "full".
If you have enough "hunger" in your career, you may let everyone climb to another peak, but if it is also the same in your relationship, it is easy for everyone to miss out on true love.
Maybe for some people, it is impossible to distinguish what is true and what is false, so you must know that you will not mind your three middle-aged women who "stir" behavior, most of them are emotional.
1. Willing to eat alone with you
Perhaps for young men and women, going out to eat together is too common, even if they go to eat alone, it is very common, and it will not make everyone think about it.
But this is not the case for middle-aged women, perhaps because of the relationship between age, or because of the change of concept, so that everyone is more sensitive to the relationship between men and women.
Unless they are old friends for many years and know each other's roots, it is similar to ordinary friends who have just met, and most of them will not accept the invitation to eat alone with each other.
Because they know that behind such behavior, it is easy to qualitatively change the relationship between each other, and even imply that men love themselves, so their acceptance is equivalent to acquiescing to their pursuit.
In the absence of any other ideas, most of them will directly refuse this invitation, except in special cases, but if they accept your invitation and will not refuse it almost every time, it only means that they also want to know more about it and see if there is any possibility of continued development.
2, willing to come to your home as a guest
Most middle-aged people will have their own house and no longer live with their parents, although they may be the only one in this family, but they will also be their most private presence, and will only share it with the closest people around them.
Therefore, generally everyone will not easily invite others to their homes, especially to invite the opposite sex alone, which can only show that you have other ideas about her.
These are actually tacit "little secrets" between adults, and women naturally know it, so if they refuse when everyone invites them to the home, it means that there is no other more idea about you, unless it is a lot of people together, maybe they will accept it.
And when they are willing to accept going to your house alone, it only means that they also want to use this to understand your financial situation, living habits, and even more in-depth things, so as to judge whether they meet their requirements for the other half.
Of course, at this time, they will have such thoughts, which is enough to prove that they have moved their hearts for you and already have ideas that they want to develop further, just to further determine their own ideas.
3. Willing to accept your expensive gifts
As the saying goes, eating people's mouths is soft and people are soft, although there will be greedy and cheap people in this world, but for most women, they still have the correct three views.
Especially when getting along with the opposite sex, they will deliberately maintain a certain distance and will not provide each other with wrong signals, which will cause unnecessary misunderstandings between them.
Men generally like to give some gifts when pursuing women, and unlike ordinary friends, these gifts will be more expensive.
If it is some insignificant gift, perhaps the women will accept it, but after that, they will most likely find an opportunity to give them gifts instead, so that there is no arrears between them.
But if it is a very expensive gift, most women will not accept it, because they know what it means behind it, and such an expensive gift makes them not know how to repay this humanity.
However, if they accept your gift, it means accepting your kindness, acquiescing to your pursuit, and even having some joy because of it, after all, it is really a happy thing to be given a gift by someone you like.
It is not difficult to be good to a person, but it is difficult to be consistently good; it is very simple to accompany a journey, and it is difficult to stay together for a lifetime.
Maybe when we like a person, we will be willing to hollow out our minds to be good to her because of a momentary freshness and desire to conquer, and when the freshness passes, the passion no longer exists, and all the good will be reduced to ashes.
In fact, many times, what women want is that everyone is consistent, and it may be difficult to maintain a boiling passion all the time, but it is easy to be good to them.
If you truly love someone and are willing to spend your life with them, then you will be able to stick with it, because you will find that as long as she is happy, you will be happy, and all the focus of your life is around her.
And if you are not sure enough about your feelings now, don't easily provoke others, life is short, don't waste your own time, and don't waste other people's feelings.