What the? She actually kissed her son more than a hundred times a day? Still taking your son to take wedding photos? This alternative motherly love is really hard to understand.
Female star Dong Jie said in a mother-and-son reality show that she has to kiss her son more than a hundred times a day, which is still somewhat restrained.
When her son went to bed together, Dong Jie hugged her son and kissed him non-stop, kissing his cheeks was understandable, and kissing his mouth was a bit difficult to accept.
You must know that her son Dingding is 11 years old this year, and the child should teach him the principle of male and female incompatibility when he is 3 years old. Although it is a mother, I must also pay attention to proportions.
When taking her son out to dinner, because her son was playing with children of the same age, Dong Jie felt that she was left out in the cold, and she would say to her son with grievance: "If I don't come again, I will cry." ”
At this time, the son will immediately run over, hug Dong Jie, kiss Dong Jie's mouth, and comfort: "Little baby, be obedient." ”
At this point, my goosebumps came up. Dong Jie even competed with children for favors and deprived her son of the right to socialize.
Not only that, Dong Jie also took her son to take wedding photos.
The son knelt on one knee and held the flowers and said to Dong Jie, who was wearing a wedding dress, "I want to marry you." ”
Dong Jie smiled happily with her face, and the feeling of happiness was about to overflow the TV screen.
Isn't it unethical for his son to say he wants to marry him? Although it is a joke, it is not advisable.
Dong Jie's morbid maternal love really made me incomprehensible, and she was still immersed in it.
After the child is 3 years old, he should keep a certain distance from his parents, reduce the skin kiss, and teach the child a correct outlook on life and emotions.
There are many ways to express love, and it should also vary depending on the age of the child.
Dong Jie's way of expressing maternal love is really unnecessary, it is easy for children to develop wrong emotional concepts, produce a mother complex, and even become a mother-in-law man.
But in the final analysis, Dong Jie's love for her children stems from her unhappy original family.
When Dong Jie was 10 years old, she was sent to the song and dance troupe to learn dance, and from childhood, she was far away from the love and care of her parents, and naturally lacked love and did not know how to express love.
Moreover, Dong Jie's marriage with her husband lasted only 4 years, which also prompted Dong Jie to pour more love into her son, and excessive possession and love created the current wrong parent-child relationship.
Dong Jie sometimes calls her son "Daddy." When Dong Jie is wronged, his son will also comfort Dong Jie: "Little baby, don't be angry, Daddy loves you." Therefore, many netizens said that Dong Jie raised her son as a husband.
As the saying goes: the woman avoids the father, and the son avoids the mother.
Is this overly intimate mother-child relationship desirable? Doesn't excessive maternal love feel suffocating?
What do you think about that?