Children with high IQ have 3 major performances when they are young, so they are trained in this way, and most of them have a career when they grow up
Children are the crystallization of parental love, the continuation of the family, and the future of mankind. Children will always face bumps in the road to growth, so parents' family education is crucial.
Many people of the older generation say that children can see whether they will have a future appearance when they are young, this statement is relatively one-sided, because children are a blank piece of paper in dealing with people, everything benefits from the teaching of the day after tomorrow, but some of the behaviors of children when they are young will indeed affect the development of the day after tomorrow.
1. Imagination is abundant
Imagination-rich children are rich in creativity, if you find that children in the drawing class or art class, can create a variety of paintings and handicrafts by their own imagination, it means that the child's right brain is extremely developed, and if the child likes graffiti at home, parents should not stop this behavior, arrange a safe space for them, and let him play freely.
The exercise of imagination can stimulate children's learning potential, so that children can form divergent thinking when learning fixed knowledge, think of other children's unthinkable answer ideas, parents must be guided, and the probability of children becoming an excellent person in the future will be very large.
2. No crying, no fuss, perseverance
Many children will always give up halfway when doing more difficult things, and even cry and make trouble when they encounter setbacks, so that children will not be able to become a great instrument in the future. If you find that your child can sink his heart to learn and do things, will not cry when encountering difficulties, and dare to keep trying and making mistakes, then he will inevitably become a top talent in the future, whether in learning or work.
How to cultivate a strong character for children who are born with a weak personality? Parents can put the challenge in front of the child, artificially create some risks and obstacles for the child, at least let the child practice a strict discipline and regularity for a long time, such as playing the piano, dancing ballet, and at the same time supervise the child to give him a certain reward to promote, such as meeting the child's wishes in stages and so on.
3. Active thinking
Active thinking children are always able to talk, lively and outgoing, and are very good at making friends. And some children grow up in a strong parental education, only according to the parents' "orders" to do everything, completely do not have the ability to express their own opinions, then they will only hide behind when they grow up, will gradually become hated "marginal people".
For children whose thinking is not active, parents can not blindly teach, we must guide them to express more inner thoughts, such as taking them to nature to see the beauty of the world, the child's inner world is rich, and the thinking will become active.
If you want your child to have a career, whether the child is gifted or not, you must work the later education. Especially before the child is 6 years old, it is necessary to develop his right brain, for example, you can read more picture books to the child, which has significantly improved the child's intelligence, memory ability, perception ability and so on.
There is a Montessori early childhood education book that is very suitable for parents and children, Montessori is a well-known Italian parenting expert, she founded the early childhood education law that affects the world. Montessori found through observation that children aged 0-6 are born with an "absorbent mind", which allows children to quickly learn and absorb things perceived in their surroundings.
Simply put, children will have a "learning sensitive period" in the process of growing up from 0-6 years old, and children in this period will learn things very quickly, if the child's potential in this period is not developed, future children will have to pay more hardships to obtain the ability that can be easily obtained in the "learning sensitive period".
To this end, Montessori has specially created a lot of early education games, which can help children absorb knowledge more efficiently in the "learning sensitive period", and this set of books just contains a variety of Montessori ideas.
This set of books is divided into 6 volumes, which help children grow up in an all-round way from 6 aspects: "sensory ability development", "language ability development", "intellectual development", "life ability training", "excellent character development" and "mathematical ability development".
Time with children is also the happiest period after parenthood, parents must accompany their children to read, learn and grow together, and must also pay attention to the skills and methods of education, it is better to start a set of Montessori early education game books, and strive to develop their children's potential!