The TV series "Dear Child", co-starring Qin Hao, Ren Suxi and Nie Yuan, has aroused heated discussion among the audience with topics such as marriage, parenting, and mother-in-law.
Casually open the barrage of a certain episode, you will find that all netizens are expressing their own views. Most netizens are accusing Xiao Lu (played by Qin Hao) of being unreliable, not having the courage to take on the role of a husband, not handling family relations well, not taking enough care of his wife and daughter, and increasingly avoiding his duties as a father.
There are also audience comments to discuss, bluntly saying that Fang Yinuo is too anxious after childbirth, many things do not have to be too nervous and sensitive, and more bluntly say that her overly anxious emotions have affected her husband's rest.
In general, the attitude of netizens and viewers towards Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo is not one-sided support for his wife, and many netizens understand Xiao Lu, thinking that it is not easy for him to support his family, and he can't even sleep well at night.
Here, I no longer discuss too much about who is the bigger problem after Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu became new parents, but lamented that since the two sons had children, life is a chicken feather, and various problems continue to erupt.
First of all, I invited a sister-in-law who looks extremely reliable but keeps moths!
Here is a laugh, playing the role of Yue Jie is a powerful actor Liu Lin, don't look at the role of friendship cameo, but Liu Lin plays what it looks like, and many of the characteristics of Yue Jie are played.
For example, when she first arrived at Fang Yinuo's house, her sister-in-law had always been particularly affectionate, smiling as soon as she spoke, giving Fang Yinuo the feeling of a spring breeze.
But netizens quickly linked up, sending a barrage saying: The big lady is not a good person to get along with!
And the follow-up plot also responded to the ridicule of the audience, and the sister-in-law is indeed an unprovoked lamp! Not only was he secretly fed Hehe milk powder discovered by Fang Yinuo, but he was also found to sleep lazily at night.
More because of the problem of hehe jaundice, it completely triggered a contradiction between the two people, and finally the sister-in-law ran halfway, which hurt Fang Yinuo's heart fiercely.
Can't find a suitable sister-in-law, can only ask the mother-in-law to help.
As a result, Gao Caiping, played by Li Qinqin, is a rough and unsophisticated person, who loves to smoke and play mahjong, does not pay attention to hygiene, and washes his granddaughter's clothes and adults' clothes mixed together.
After washing the hands of the rag, I then went to collect the clothes of the baby who had just dried, and I did not pay attention to any details and nutrition when eating.
The most speechless thing is that Gao Caiping is a grandmother, not paying enough attention, coveting mahjong and causing Hehe to fall from the small cart.
The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is about to erupt!
Fang Yinuo's mother is also not a person to get along with, as a retired person in the unit, she has a decent job but also has her own inner sense of superiority.
Especially in the face of vulgar relatives, Fang's mother's inner disgust and disdain are revealed minute by minute.
Gao Caiping suffered all her life, pulled her two sons to grow up, and then bought a house for her eldest son Xiao Lu to marry, on the contrary, Fang's mother has always had a stable job, her husband also listens to her words, and her daughter became a teacher after graduating from her studies.
In the final analysis, the Fang family and the Xiao family are basically two people, and the marriage union of the two families is wrong from the beginning.
The disadvantages of not having the right door are not revealed after the new marriage of the two children, but after having a baby, all the problems will continue to erupt.
And once you have a baby, you will not be greeted by small problems that can be tolerated and self-digested, slowly accumulating until one day it completely explodes.
Don't look at Xiao Xu is to let his mother go home through the routine of finding things, but in fact, the fierce quarrel between the 4 people also completely expressed their inner grievances and dissatisfaction.
In Xiao Lu's view, the two families quarreled, but they were all trivial matters.
However, in the eyes of the mothers of both sides, this is not a small matter, but a major event that will affect the stability and happiness of life in the future.
In the eyes of the audience, after Xiao Lu and his wife have children, there are frequent contradictions along the way, and they cannot be completely attributed to which party is at fault.
Of course, Xiao Xu is the biggest problem, delicious and lazy to do not do the right thing, sister-in-law Fang Yinuo scolded him at all: quite a big person does not understand four or six!
But there is one thing Xiao Xu still did well, that is, when Fang's mother satirized that Gao Caiping would not educate her children, Xiao Xu immediately replied and did not care whether the other party was an elder.
Although Xiao Xu was a little disrespectful to the elders, to be honest, Fang's mother's sense of superiority was too much above the high color screen.
Gao Caiping is indeed vulgar and shallow, but it is not easy for her to raise two children as a single mother and also cultivate Xiao Lu. Even if she spoiled Xiao Xu, it was also her guilt as a mother, and Gao Caiping was not completely accustomed to her younger son, and she also scolded and scolded, some sons are so uncontentious, what can a mother do?
Speaking of high color screen, she is not completely wrong!
In addition to the fact that her living habits are not very good, she still cares about her daughter-in-law. Housework is also out of the question, the cleaning is organized, and the laundry and cooking inside and out are like full-time nannies.
On the other hand, Fang's mother, as soon as she came, condescended to arrange tasks, took care of a doll with her daughter and two adults, but let her family be responsible for the family's meals and housework.
The most disgusting thing is that Fang's mother and daughter joined forces to "exclude" the high color screen, not letting her touch the child, and even avoiding her when going out in the sun.
Gao Caiping is the child's grandmother, and she also loves her granddaughter very much.
The most important thing is that she does not prefer sons to daughters, and the neighbors are also all kinds of praise daughters-in-law and granddaughters, bluntly saying that the daughter-in-law is capable, giving birth to a girl is good, the girl is considerate and well-behaved, unlike herself, who gave birth to two sons and was almost angry to death!
Gao Caiping is unreliable, but at least a reasonable mother-in-law, there is no disrespect for the family and daughter-in-law, and really quit smoking, she has smoked since she was young, even if she has two sons, she has not quit smoking.
To be able to quit smoking for her granddaughter and daughter-in-law, Gao Caiping can be a mother-in-law.
But the problem is that all the efforts of Gao Caiping are ruined by the fact that she accidentally caused her granddaughter to fall, which is the fuse of the outbreak of contradictions in the whole family.
Gao Caiping is careless is to scold, but not even give her the opportunity to correct the mistake, right?
But at present, the biggest problem in Fang Yinuo's marriage is not the tension between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, nor the intensification of the contradiction between the uncle and the sister-in-law, but the entangled extramarital affair between Xiao Lu and Zhu Zhu.
A girl like Zhu Zhu is the most terrible, knowing that the three dangs should still be justified, knowing that Xiao Lu has a wife and children and is still alive, is there the most basic moral shame?
Xiao Lu is also sad, because he was drunk and calculated by Zhu Zhu, and in the end he has been pestered, even if he refuses to accept it, he cannot be relieved. Zhu Zhu's stalking was already slowly ruining Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo's marriage.
Of course, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu's marriage itself has become increasingly tired. If nothing else, Hehe is more than one year old, Fang Yinuo is not willing to fulfill his husband and wife obligations, Xiao Lu as a husband has really endured for a long time!
If Fang Yinuo refuses to live as a couple in confinement, it is Xiao Lu who does not understand things, but this has been a year, Xiao Lu has normal needs, and Fang Yinuo cannot repeatedly shirk because of his high requirements, right?
Can understand that Fang Yinuo is a normal child, there are many concerns, but does she also have to consider the needs of her husband?
It can only be said that in "Dear Child", Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu and his wife, in the short period of one year after giving birth to their daughter, all the contradictions broke out one by one.
Many other families do not have problems, but also concentrated on the two sons, the mother-in-law problem has not been solved, the mother and daughter also quarreled because of the child, the husband and wife life has not yet been implemented, Xiao Lu cheated on the little three entangled.
The issue of trivial principles has been caught up by Fang Yinuo, can she not be depressed after childbirth?
Moreover, Fang Yinuo Xiaolu and his wife have frequent conflicts, in fact, there is already a metaphor in a detail in the first episode, that is, the long pot of green lotus that Xiao Lu's family placed at the top of the cabinet as soon as he entered the door.
Looking closely at this pot of green roses raised by Fang Yinuo, the stems and leaves were quite luxuriant, and they all hung long and hung down, hanging half the height of the cabinet.
But in fact, the green lotus can not be raised too long.
Look at the short video some people posted a full house of green lotus, some netizens who understand feng shui commented that "green lotus is full of houses, popularity is scattered, there is a loss of feng shui!" ”
In the short video, many netizens posted their own leafy branches, and even climbed to the ceiling of the green lotus, many netizens who did not understand also liked in the comment area, praising the blogger's level of raising flowers and grass is very high, and the whole house is very good-looking.
As everyone knows, many netizens also suggest that raising green lotus can not pull vines, which is easy to bring bad things. Some netizens also said that they lost the long green lotuses in their homes, and they didn't feel very good.
I checked the information, a lot of feng shui related to the importance of green lotus, it is recommended that the green lotus can not be too lush, is not conducive to residential feng shui.
Moreover, the juice of the green lotus is also poisonous, and it cannot be touched by children.
In addition, the stems and leaves of the green lotus are too long, and there are also the meanings of "winding" and "trouble", which is not very good.
From this point of view, the long green lotus that constantly appears in "Dear Child" also implies that Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu's marital life is constantly troubled and entangled.
Mention the details of the lens language in the play, not only the metaphor of the green lotus, but also many shots worth savoring. For example, when the mother-in-law takes her granddaughter out to play, Fang Yinuo will lie alone in the bathtub, and the window on one side is small and red.
The small space, the dim light, and the gloomy red color combine to create an atmosphere that is weak and slightly eerie. This feeling is Fang Yinuo's postpartum state, and it is also a portrayal of her marriage in a whirlpool of contradictions.
And there are netizens who say that the red light looks a little scary, is it a sign that something bad will happen?
In fact, don't underestimate these details in the play, repeatedly watch the first 8 episodes, you will find clues and clues in the plot. Many plots and details, such as green lotus, claustrophobic bathroom, broken socks, these three details, can be corresponded to Fang Yinuo's marriage problems one by one.
For example, Xiao Lu's broken socks, on the one hand, implied that his marriage with Fang Yinuo had a problem, and on the other hand, it also caused Zhu Zhu's sympathy to flood.
Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu, from the exhaustion of the chicken and garlic to the end of the marriage breakdown and divorce, are not one thing or two things, but a chaotic life, and when even small problems cannot be solved, disappointment and despair will roll in.