What does home look like in everyone's mind?
My ideal home is sprinkled with warm sunshine, the air is a faint fragrance of flowers, everywhere is clean and regular, enough to unload the tiredness!
But sometimes because of various factors in life, it often backfires, and there is a huge gap between our real home and our ideal home.
In real life, most of my friends' homes are always messy and bothered every day about cleaning up.
After looking at so many messy homes, I finally found the "common disease" of Chinese families! Poke your heart. I don't know if you have these common diseases in your family? If so, correct it.
01 is too nostalgic
Nostalgia is one of the important reasons why many families become more and more chaotic. In life, we will use a variety of items, some things can not be used after one or two times, but out of nostalgia, many people will still store these things at home, simply reluctant to throw them away.
Especially some elderly people, because life was more difficult before, so they are particularly frugal, many things are reluctant to throw away, and even bring back some waste cartons and other items to the home, and slowly the home is full of all kinds of debris.
But if you think about it, is it a pity that nearly 10,000 yuan and a square meter of house are used to pile up debris? And so many debris placed at home will also affect the mood, but also easy to breed bacteria.
So we must change the problem of nostalgia, usually the family will not use the items and some worn-out clothes, to throw away in time, these things are not useful to keep, will only occupy space.
We can also make a small space in the home for waste cartons and other items, and sell these waste items when the space is full, so that it will not feel wasteful.
Otherwise, everything will be thrown away directly, and some frugal old people will feel uncomfortable, which can also make them feel better.
02 Spoil children
Now many young people will be careful to treat their children after becoming mothers for the first time, and the children's grandparents and grandparents are more obedient to the children, and there is nothing wrong with caring for and caring for the children, but if they are too doting, it is not right.
After having children, we will find that there are more and more supplies and toys for children at home, before the living room and our activity space, etc. After having children, they will become children's world, and children's preferences can sometimes only be maintained for a period of time, some toys are not liked after playing a few times, these things will only occupy space at home.
Therefore, before we buy things for children, we should also consider whether these items must be purchased, especially when buying toys, try to choose a more suitable toy for the age of the child, do not move everything home.
When the child grows up, we should also slowly cultivate the child's ability to do things, and do their own things, for example, when we are young, we can let the children put the toys they have played with back to their original places.
When the child grows up, we can also slowly cultivate his hands-on and self-care ability, so that the child can develop a good habit, so that the child will become more independent when he grows up.
03 The household chores are all on one person
Although it is said that the society now pays attention to the equality of men and women, in many Chinese families, all the housework will still be pushed to the hostess alone, and the man will not care about it after returning home.
Regardless of whether the hostess is at home full-time, we should not push the housework to a person, the home is not a person, all the work is handed over to one person, then the family will only become more and more chaotic, and it may affect our feelings for a long time.
Whether it is the host or the hostess, you should undertake some housework within your ability, such as some small work at home can be handed over to the hostess, but if you need to clean the furniture in the height or replace the maintenance items, then you can give it to the host.
In addition, the most important thing in the home is not to clean but to maintain, if maintained well, even if we do not clean for a week, the home will still be very clean, but if the maintenance is not good, it may have just been cleaned up in the morning, and the home will become a mess at night.
So we usually have to develop a good habit at home, the used items should be put back in place, usually some small debris at home should be picked up casually, so that it can be cleaned up at will, and all the housework should not be piled up at the same time.
Usually used dishes and chopsticks or cups and other items, to be cleaned in time, otherwise it is easy to breed bacteria for a long time.
summary:
After visiting many Chinese families, I finally found out that everyone was sick. If there are these problems in everyone's home, then we must correct them in time, and a comfortable living environment will also make us more relaxed.