Opening Remarks:
In the tea ceremony, there is a saying called: once in a lifetime.
That is to say, you are likely to meet with a person, only this time in this life, and only this time in your life, so you must cherish this rare fate.
In this life, life is the most impermanent, and you never know which tomorrow and the accident will come first. So, you never know if the person sitting and drinking tea with you will have a chance to reunite next time.
Perhaps, the once long journey of life has made you have many encounters and many misses, but most of the affection takes time to accumulate, just like, the "once in a lifetime" is probably to wait for the only person who has a specific date.
Therefore, man, you must live exquisitely, but you must also be able to do it.
On earthly roads, we are all just pedestrians; in the vast universe, we are all just a piece of gravel.
Only when you live "exquisitely" can you cherish the people you meet and enjoy life; only if you "can be satisfied", can you be calm and calm no matter what the situation.
Mr. Lin Qingxuan once had a saying, very beautiful:
"Zhu Yan will disappear, the white hair will not let us go, and let us drink tea together"!
Therefore, life is a long road, and let us live "once in a lifetime", but also "drink tea together at any time".
Only by living "exquisitely" can we know how to cherish it and enjoy life well
Perhaps, in life, we will always see some girls, no matter when, even when they are not busy with work, she will paint exquisite makeup, wear beautiful skirts, and spray a little perfume with a faint taste.
When you walk into her, you'll be attracted to her temperament.
There are also some people, even if they are very busy at work every day, come out early and return late, but they will also clean up their homes, spotless, all kinds of trivial things, will return to their places, even if there is a baby at home, there will be no toys on the ground, all kinds of dirt.
When you walk into this home, you will immediately feel physically and mentally comfortable.
Just because, these people, they live very carefully, they will not let their lives be burdened by the environment, affected by the people around them.
He will live very hard, full of beautiful yearning and expectations for the day. Whether he has money or not, he will not let his life be a mess, and he will not let his life be without bright spots.
Yes, in this life, a high-quality life may not cost a lot of money, but there must be a "love and exquisite" heart.
For example, the table does not have to be solid wood, but it must have a beautiful table cloth, there will be a good-looking coaster; the house does not have to be large, but it must be clean and tidy, with green decorations, flowers blooming; curtains are not necessarily brand-name, but must be gentle in tone, not spicy eyes...
Living exquisitely is the only way to truly love life and truly know how to cherish it.
The same is true of being a person, whether it is a friend or a lover, you can only "pay attention" to cherish the people you meet, and you will not let your fate have regrets no matter when and where. Because each other has sincerely paid and lived together without any concern, in this life, no matter what your ending is, there will be no regrets, no regrets.
People, with a "exquisite" heart, are really beautiful.
Only by living "will be", can we be at ease with the encounter, calm and calm
Perhaps, what we really know about a person is to see his reaction and attitude in the face of adversity.
After all, if you are proud of the spring breeze, many things do not require you to work too hard, and someone will observe and see the color to do a good job for you; and when you are in adversity, there will be a lot of thin coolness and cold warmth.
Huang Bo once said in an interview: Before becoming famous, all kinds of hooks and corners, careful machines, all kinds of bad people, after becoming famous, surrounded by good people, everyone's face is full of smiling faces.
The truth of life is very cruel, no one's life, will be smooth sailing, calm waves, only you, no matter the wind and waves, can be calm, brave to break through the mentality.
So, don't be so real, live a little, and be at peace with the encounter.
Many times, it is not life that defeats you, but that you surrender to life. The stability and steadfastness of the day require you to take out your most beautiful appearance and take out your fate mentality anytime and anywhere in order to live a different life.
Spring has a hundred flowers, autumn has a moon, summer has a cool breeze and winter has snow, if there is no idle business to worry about, it is a good season in the world.
So, no matter what you're experiencing in the moment, sadness, irritation, or depression, depression, coldness... Stay up, let yourself have a happy heart, the situation will change with your heart, and you will eventually see a bright spring.
In fact, sometimes, life is very funny, the more you want to get something, the more it does not give you anything, but when you don't care, it will naturally come to you.
Therefore, live a little "will", wait quietly, practice patiently, let yourself cultivate the charm of not being alarmed, and let yourself have the peace of mind to solve all difficulties.
In this life, the best way to live: can pay attention to, can also be done
Mr. Ji Xianlin once said: The best state of life is to live frankly, soberly, and truthfully.
Time, like a white colt crossing the gap, is fleeting.
In the rush of life, everyone has gone from a loud cry when they landed on the ground, to an old man with white hair and wrinkles, but a hundred years have passed.
In this life, people are actually not so long, a flower blossoms and falls, a grind, an experience, and so on.
In the hustle and bustle of the world, what is most needed is that we can find ourselves. When the situation is good, try to be exquisite and let yourself live with quality; when you are in adversity, you can also be satisfied, not too perfect, but also not OK.
In short, let yourself live a little fuller, live a little more freely, live a little more casually.
There is an old saying: whether poor or rich, happiness does not depend on money, whether it is an official or a people, health and peace are the most important.
Therefore, those who are kind to you, do not forget the affection of others to give you charcoal in the snow; those who can't look back on the past, they should give up, don't cling to the past; those who have given you warmth, know how to reciprocate, do not hurt people's hearts.
When you cross the blizzard and walk into the sunshine; when you step over the thorny grass and walk to the spacious avenue; but you cross the valley fog and see the rainbow after the rain...
You will understand that in this world, there is actually a cause and effect, the ugliness will eventually be exposed, and the good will eventually be treated favorably.
So, live a little more soberly, live a little calmer, don't be irritable, don't be cowardly.
When you can pay attention, don't be careful, when you should be, don't pay attention. Everyone's life is like this, we must come out of the desolate place and out of the bustling scenery.
People live a lifetime, and everyone wants the years to be quiet.
However, the years are quiet, and you need someone around you to bear the hardships for you. We are all just mortals, prosperous in the world, but also just a dream, the dream awakened, everyone is the same way home.
Life is short, we can't, look at every scenery everywhere, the only thing we can do is to cherish the present;
In the world, we will taste the bitter, spicy, sour and sweet, one by one, but only if we have really tasted it, we will know what it is like to be happy;
Human feelings are cold and warm, we will appreciate them one by one, but when we see clearly, we know how to pay, and when we see through, we will understand that we don't need to be too persistent.
Therefore, in this life, the most real way to live is to "pay attention to it, and it can also be done."
The heavens and the earth are wide, the sun, the moon and the stars, may everyone be able to live freely with a peaceful and casual heart, not humble or arrogant, let the wind and rain blow, let the wind and waves be big, the waves are not alarming, and there is nothing to fear.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!