In this world, no one will always be young, no one will never be old, and getting old is the only way for a person to go.
When people are old, in addition to being afraid of loneliness, they will become timid, so they live cautiously, trembling, and uneasy.
If the children do not like it, do not say it as much as possible, and try not to do what the children do not like, in addition, they must also look at the children's faces and act, and feel that they are tired of life.
Before getting old, parents were the child's protective umbrella, the wind came to block the wind, the rain came to cover the rain, and this umbrella was always held up and never put away.
Finally, one day, the child no longer needs the already broken umbrella, and even abandons and rejects the umbrella, and the sense of loss in the hearts of parents is indescribable.
Not being needed, not being valued, not being understood, is the deepest pain in the hearts of parents, the longest loneliness, the greatest sorrow.
What parents are most afraid of is that they are no longer useful to their children, no longer needed, and even have become a drag on their children.
At this time, parents seem to have no strength to struggle, and even have no goal in life, and become only promises, lonely and helpless.
Poor parents in the world, as children, should be more considerate of their parents' hardships, give their parents more sense of "need", and honor their parents more.
Modern people honor their parents, in fact, it is very simple, as long as they do not add trouble to their parents, do not give their parents a look, and do not lose their parents' temper, it is enough.
The older people are, the more sensitive they are, the worse their psychological endurance, the stronger their self-esteem, and as children, they should be more delicate in their parents.
More pleasant looks, less horizontal eyebrows and cold pairs; more understanding and tolerance, less complaints and dislikes; more patience, less impatience.
A life is very short, don't let your bad temper, don't let your willfulness, don't let your carelessness become a weapon to hurt your parents.
Filial piety comes first, and the best filial piety is actually to reassure parents, and to reassure parents is not within the reach of materials, mainly on the spiritual level.
Children should pay more attention to their parents, understand their ideas, try not to go against their wishes, and find ways to make them feel at ease and comfortable.
For parents' sense of powerlessness, uselessness, and aging, children should be more enlightened and use practical actions to reduce their psychological burden.
Children should remember that no matter how annoying they are, they should not lose their temper with their parents, no matter how much pressure is, they should not transfer it to their parents, and no matter how many things there are, they should also take time to accompany their parents.
You know, parents still have a place in life, parents to life only have the way home, while everything is still too late, while parents are still alive, we must care more about our parents and accompany our parents.
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Wen Ling, a freelance writer, has her works in major newspapers and online platforms. This article is the author's original and reprinted with the author's permission.