What kind of life do you want to live (2)

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If I ask you, what kind of life do you want to live?

How would you answer?

Don't say how to answer, just say how to think.

When you are very young and have not yet undergone social beatings, you may match your own vague ideals and dreams according to your own corresponding life.

Since it is a dream, an ideal, you should be very clear that it will not be completed soon, and may not be completed for a lifetime.

Therefore, although the direction is very vague, but you need to work hard, this basic cognition you have. At the same time, you also know that you need to live in this process of striving for goals.

Life needs material security. Doesn't material security require money?

But how much money is money?

The lifestyle must be easy and stable, if it is not easy and unstable, you have no way to complete your ideals, dreams.

At this time, if it is a rich second generation, you will match your lifestyle in your environment at that time. There is no sense of lack of money and circumstances from childhood, so the lifestyle you think you should have for yourself is higher than that of the poor.

If you were poor, you would have been matched in your environment at the time

The lifestyle you want, even if you don't feel short of money, but because you are in that environment, the life you think you should have will be lower than that of the rich. If the match is higher than the rich or the same as the rich, it is not the way you want to live, it is already your dream.

After entering the society and experiencing the baptism of society

We all start to deviate from our original dreams and want to live the lives of rich people.

What should the life of a rich person be like?

Is there a match for the life we want based on our current environment and ideas?

So what kind of answer is needed to match your current thinking?

Since you want to live the life of a rich person, you should match the lifestyle you want, only in this way can you realize your idea of becoming a rich person.

At this time you want to become a rich man is just an idea, no longer a vague ideal, a dream.

Only by becoming rich can we live the life of a rich person.

At this time, we have experienced the test of society, no longer the ignorant teenager, and we will not match the way of life we think we should have according to vague ideal dreams.

There is no way to set a uniform standard for the lives of rich people.

Because everyone's standards are different.

What about your standards?

So please set a standard for yourself first

And you're an adult, no longer the clueless teenager

How are the criteria set?

From my own words, at the beginning, I wanted to live a simple life, make a fortune and retire, the rest of my life is indifferent, there is no big pursuit, I raise children, I take care of my parents, I live in a house, I can keep my mood happy and healthy, and I can rest when I feel tired.

Even if there is no wife, no children, a person is very good at the end of his life, you can eat a person, the whole family is not hungry, do not eat the old, it is best to use your time reasonably, do something you like, develop and develop your own interests and hobbies, such a life is even the life of a rich person.

Is that hard? In fact, it is not difficult at all, although the current competitive pressure is large, the salary income will not be very impressive, but such a simple life requirement, as long as you can bear hardships, you can still easily achieve.

I am not the kind of person who has been spoiled since childhood and is not willing to suffer hardships, and even when I entered the factory for the first time in my life, I still felt very relaxed, much easier than when I was a child doing farm work in my hometown.

And although the salary I received was not very much, I was still very happy. After all, the salary you get is definitely higher than the living expenses given by your family during schooling.

Since then, I no longer have to ask my father for living expenses, my excess money can still have my own arrangements, I can buy what I want, so the mood is still very happy, although the work is very hard, but every day after work is still very happy, the mood is also better.

And I will write a diary every day after work, or read a book. The factory is also in charge of food and housing, so there is basically no big expense, and every month it is paid a salary, that is, to go around the next town at will, and the highest consumption is to buy a pair of shoes for more than two hundred yuan.

The monthly expenses are not more than six hundred yuan, and the salary of four thousand yuan a month is about four thousand yuan, and it is still very easy to save three thousand yuan. Isn't such an easy and stable and comfortable life the life you originally wanted?

But why, with the passage of time, I changed from a sunny and happy, positive, optimistic migrant worker to a person who always carried negative emotions, began to be pessimistic, and lived into a person who even hated himself, resulting in a world-weary heart?

Infected by society, Panbi's heart is getting stronger and stronger, after all, it is not convinced, not convinced that there is no starlight of mine in the prosperity of this world, and always want to live like the eyes of others.

What should it look like in the eyes of others? Have the ability, have the ability, make more money.

In fact, this is not really their own pursuit.

It is not that you do not pursue wealth, but no matter what the result is, in the process of pursuit, you are diligent, hardworking, positive, continuous progress, and constantly improving yourself.

Although he did not enter the world at that time, he was not a fool, nor did he think that he could easily complete the accumulation of wealth. I know very well that before I have no skills and no ability, if I want to make a lot of money, I can only rely on how much I want, not afraid of hard work, work hard, and get the results I want at that time.

And now it turns out that if I really followed my original ideas at that time, today's self must be a me who makes me very satisfied. Even if you don't live to be what others see, you will definitely live as you like.

However, with the infestation of bad speech on the Internet, disobeying the world's size, not having its own shining point, not convincing that there is an ambition in the heart, why not speed up the process, and use so long to exchange for the same life as others.

I don't believe that my mind is mature, my thinking is advanced, I am very "wise", and I am proud of my peers, why should I be so slow?

Even more dissatisfied with yourself, since you think you are talented, why don't you be treated by others and don't shine a dazzling light.

Why not speed up the pace and walk a path that no one else can catch up with.

But as a result, I didn't even get the slowest result in my own planning. Can only sigh how thin it is to me?

I think of all these disobediences, and I feel that my blood is gushing, and I feel that this way of working hard by ordinary people is not my wish.

So what kind of life you want to live, in fact, you always know what it is like to make yourself happy. How to do it.

Just to quickly live the way others see, constantly adjust their own path, and when they know that this road is a little far from what they want, they find that they have wasted too much time.

In fact, as long as you change back to this road, although it has lengthened the time, but in the end you can definitely live as you like, but you have become accustomed to this road, you still pretend to continue to work this road, and when you get farther and farther away, you will not see hope and start complaining.