Although "the male eldest should be married, the female should be married", this is something that no one can stop, but when the father first sees his daughter being taken away by a boy in his arms, the mood is still very complicated.
It is said that "boys have tears and do not flick", but in traditional Chinese culture, daughters get married, fathers are often the ones who cry the most, in comparison, mothers are more calm, this is because when the mother, has experienced an unforgettable separation, has psychologically accepted the fact that women will inevitably marry, and as a father, there is no such separation, so seeing their daughters being "snatched" away, they may cry a lot.
Similarly, when the father sees his daughter following other boys for the first time, he will have this feeling.
Zhengzhou: The father sent his daughter to school, and the daughter turned around and was picked up by the boy, and the father looked helpless
In Zhengzhou, Henan, a father took a video that sparked heated discussions among netizens. In the video, a father rides his daughter to school, which, although its name is not revealed, is speculated to be a college or vocational school.
Because at the school gate, the daughter got out of the car, and before her father could leave, a tall boy appeared, and then the boy and his daughter walked into the campus with a smile and a smile, and left without looking back.
On the way home, his father sent a selfie video, he covered his face with one hand, his face was full of sorrow, and he shook his head while shaking his head, which was very helpless.
Netizen: Heavenly Reincarnation, who has spared?
Some netizens quipped: Seeing that the "little lover of the previous life" was taken away, the father was dazed. Some netizens also expressed their understanding of the father's mood: it was difficult to raise a flower, and the result was that people ran away with the flower pot.
Human nature is really very strange, why as a father, seeing his daughter being taken away by other boys, he feels very sad, very dazed, and even a little painful? If it is the boy's father, seeing his son take a girl, that mood will obviously not be like this, the boy's father, will not feel a little proud?
Of course, there are also parents of boys who say that they see this scene and are in a bad mood, because their son, who has worked hard to raise, has become someone else's cash machine.
Of course, this father does not have to be too sad, thinking back to the past, when you held your daughter-in-law's hand and left happily, did you ever consider your father-in-law's mood? At that time, your father-in-law's mood was actually the same as yours, and now it can only be said that it is a report and a report, the heavenly path is reincarnated, and who has the heavens spared?
Editor's point of view: Father and daughter are constantly watching and drifting away
As a father, in fact, you can understand the father's mood at this time, he is both happy for his daughter's growth, but also sad that his daughter will leave him soon, this mood is complicated, and the expression on his face is also very rich.
However, as a parent, you should also accept that the so-called father-daughter-mother-son relationship only means that your fate with him is that in this life and this life, you continue to watch his back drift away. The child slowly disappears from the background telling you that you don't have to chase!
Daughters have boyfriends, want to fall in love, want to marry, get married and have children, this is a step that most people must take, whether you accept it or not, in the end you can only accept it fully. Therefore, when the child reaches the age of love, don't stop it, at this time, you can go back to your wife and say, let her talk to her daughter well, grasp the measure, remind the child, pay attention to safety, maintain pure love, and learn to cherish and love the most important.