The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth exists in the heart
As the saying goes, confinement is a more critical period for a woman, during this period, her heart is very fragile, if she is affected by the outside world at this time, it is difficult to recover even for a long time.
For most families, they will definitely use the strength of the whole family to take care of confinement women, especially the mother-in-law, who will also temporarily abandon the previous mother-in-law contradictions and take meticulous care of their daughters-in-law. And the mother's parents will also feel sorry for their daughter and bring her many supplements.
Women during this period are undoubtedly the happiest, accompanied by their husbands, but also enjoy the love of their parents, looking at their own children, their hearts are naturally very happy.
However, all these beautiful phenomena have a premise, that is, the mother-in-law.
01 Three years of marriage, and the relationship with the mother-in-law is not too harmonious
Lily and her husband met through blind dates, and after three months of acquaintance, they entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.
Although the two have known each other for a short time, but it still does not affect the feelings between the husband and wife, after marriage, the two respect each other as guests, love as ever, during the day the husband and wife go out to work, and at night after returning home to do housework together.
Coupled with the fact that the two do not plan to have children for the time being, after more than two years of struggle, the husband and wife have their first house in the county.
Soon, Lily and her husband moved into the new home together.
Although there is harmony and love between Lily and her husband, it seems that there has always been an unsolvable knot between Lily and her mother-in-law, and the root of this knot is in the sister-in-law.
In the final analysis, everything is because the mother-in-law is too biased, she pours all her love into the sister-in-law alone, and for the son and her daughter-in-law, naturally ignores a lot.
In fact, at the beginning, Lily did not get angry with her mother-in-law because of this, but she was also very considerate of her mother-in-law, after all, there are parents in the world who do not love their daughters, and then a later incident completely changed Lily's cognition of her mother-in-law, and also made the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law begin to intensify.
It was a very ordinary day, Lily suddenly received a call from her mother-in-law, saying that there was something temporarily needed from Lily at home, and Lily was busy in the field and could not leave for a while, so she called her mother-in-law to let her mother-in-law replace her for a while, but that day the mother-in-law happened to go to her sister-in-law's house, and the mother-in-law rejected Lily because she was inconvenient to walk away.
You know, the sister-in-law's house is only ten minutes away from Lily's house, and the mother-in-law is very concerned about the affairs of the sister-in-law's family, and is so indifferent to everything about the daughter-in-law.
It was precisely because of this incident that Lily recognized her mother-in-law.
02 During confinement, the mother's family brought many supplements
Soon, after Lily and her husband's unremitting struggle, they also had a savings, so the couple discussed having a child.
Therefore, after Lily became pregnant, she resigned at home, and her husband found a job near home, also so that he could take care of Lily conveniently.
Since Lily got married, her mother-in-law has only come to visit a few times, although Lily lives in the city, her mother-in-law is in the countryside, the distance is far, and it takes a lot of time to go back and forth, but as a mother-in-law, after learning that her daughter-in-law is pregnant, she must be very happy, even if it is a long way, she must always accompany her daughter-in-law and take care of her daughter-in-law.
However, since Lily became pregnant, her mother-in-law only had a few words of concern, and her husband was usually around to take care of her.
Soon, after the birth of the child, Lily began the confinement period. Since she could not leave people during confinement, and her husband still needed to work, Lily had planned to go to her mother's parents' house for a while, but her sister-in-law was also pregnant, and her mother was busy taking care of her sister-in-law.
So in desperation, Lily could only temporarily return to her hometown and live in her mother-in-law's house.
And Lily's mother's parents are also very distressed about their daughter, in order to make up for their inability to take care of their daughter's apologies, they took time to visit Lily once, and brought a lot of supplements.
03 The tonic was taken away by the sister-in-law
During the confinement period, the mother-in-law was also taking good care of herself, and Lily thought that there seemed to be a dawn of reconciliation between her and her mother-in-law, so Lily had planned to wait until the end of her confinement, and then find an opportunity to talk to her mother-in-law once to alleviate the misunderstanding that had arisen before.
However, unexpectedly, before Lily finished confinement, the appearance of an incident made Lily feel cold.
Because Lily was confinement, it was reasonable that the sister-in-law should come to visit her as the eldest sister-in-law, so the sister-in-law carried many things to visit Lily.
However, when the sister-in-law was leaving, the mother-in-law handed over all the supplements brought by Lily's parents to the sister-in-law, signaled for the sister-in-law to take home, and said: Your sister-in-law is fine, she does not eat these.
After Lily saw this incident on the side, she couldn't help but feel very angry, because the supplements brought by her parents were really more, and she also planned to keep a part of it for her sister-in-law, but she didn't wait for herself to open her mouth, and her mother-in-law acted as an "old good person".
However, Lily did not say much about it, watching the sister-in-law bring home the original supplements that belonged to her.
Since the end of Lily's confinement, she has left her mother-in-law's house, and after experiencing this incident, Lily knows very well in her heart that there is no possibility of reconciliation between herself and her mother-in-law.
After all, this is what happened during confinement, and it is really hard to forget for Lily herself.
Conclusion: For Lily, although she is dissatisfied with her mother-in-law's partial behavior, in her heart, she still hopes to reconcile with her mother-in-law, but everything that happened during the confinement period made Lily, who was originally very fragile, feel her mother-in-law's favoritism again.
Moreover, as a mother-in-law herself, when facing her daughter-in-law, she should be impartial and not biased, and she should also take enough care of her daughter-in-law, so that the feelings between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be as close as mother and daughter.