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Author: More more, original author of the emotional essay
Many women become particularly emotional after falling in love with a man, and it seems that when a woman loves a man in particular, her rationality seems to be taken away by the man.
Obviously, before falling in love, she was also a very independent, rational, and sober woman, but once she met love, it seemed that her IQ was equal to zero, and she would be particularly prone to encounter scumbags.
This is the difference between a woman and a man, a man who is eager to give everything he has to a woman when he first likes her.
However, after this period of fresh feelings, the feelings slowly fade, and they will no longer be good to this woman, and even begin to get tired of this woman.
But if a woman does not particularly like a man at the beginning, slowly the man is soft and hard, and she does not hate this man after being with him.
Especially after physical contact, women will love this man more and more, more and more inseparable from this man.
In the end, he gave everything he had to love this man, the more he loved, the more he loved, and finally the man became fearless, but the woman was completely dependent on this man.
Many women in contact with a man, they do not pay attention to the eyes, always feel that there are not so many bad people in this world, not so many sinister people, they are eager to tell this man about their sesame seeds, in the end they may be deceived by this man to score nothing.
Or being hurt by a man, not because of anything else, but because you yourself are too stupid, too naïve, and think of others too kindly.
Of course, everyone should face the world with a very kind and harmonious mentality, but the heart of harming people must not be there, and the heart of preventing people must not be without. Even if you fall in love with a man again, there are some things you can't just tell a man casually.
First: Your parents' savings and family funds
Linlin and her boyfriend did not get married for less than a year, and after marriage, her husband was very good to Linlin, and the two of them had a good life.
The husband also takes care of Linlin wholeheartedly, because Linlin can't cook or do housework, so many things in the family are contracted by her husband.
After getting married, her husband asked Linlin a lot of things she answered truthfully, such as how many suites there are, this is when they are not married, they both have made up.
Lin Lin thought that she had to answer honestly, because the husband and wife had nothing to hide and had to be honest with each other. So no matter what her husband asks, Linlin will say.
That day, her husband asked about Linlin's parents' savings and their family foundation, Linlin actually hesitated, but she thought about it, this is her husband, what can she do if she knows, they are all family.
So he said that his parents had more than 1 million yuan in savings, 1 house, his mother and some jewelry, and both of them also had pensions.
After Linlin told her husband these things, her husband's attitude towards her parents-in-law was completely different from before, which can be said to be the kind of dedication.
Linlin's parents are very strange, usually an ordinary family, living a very ordinary life, why the son-in-law has been giving everything recently and is very frequent.
Lin Lin couldn't hold back and told her parents the truth. Parents scolded her stupid, can not he ask what to say, usually their old two are very low-key, whether it is a deposit or income or something, basically will not say to the outside world, one is not necessary, the second is actually no money, can two people pension, Linlin what difficulties can help a hand.
And they feel that there is more than enough than the upper and lower, and it is better to live a plain life. I didn't expect that the son-in-law had other plans, which made Linlin's parents feel that this son-in-law's heart and eyes were actually quite a lot.
Second: Your disgraceful past
Li Li and Jianguo are going to get married, but just when the two are happily preparing for marriage, Jianguo's parents suddenly oppose Jianguo and Lili, saying that they don't want the two of them to continue, tomorrow the day has been decided, but they have canceled the wedding day, and also prohibited Jianguo from interacting with Lili.
Li Li was a little confused, she didn't know what was happening, obviously the two of them didn't quarrel, there was no unpleasant thing happening, why would the future in-laws not allow Jianguo to communicate with themselves.
And many relatives and friends around them are talking about what is going on in their home.
Later, Li Li learned that it was the fact that she had been caught in the police station for 15 days before was known to Jianguo's parents, because Lili had told Jianguo before that although Jianguo was not comfortable in her heart, she was helpless where the two people's feelings were, and it was not easy to say that they broke up.
I had to follow her down. However, I don't know where my parents heard about this matter, and they were very angry that why Jianguo didn't tell them, although the wedding date had been set, he still asked Jianguo to disconnect from Lili immediately, because marrying such a woman would affect his children in the future.
When Li Li used to go to school, she had a period of time to fool around all day, did not go to school well and skipped school every day, met some people outside the school, mixed with some so-called social big brothers, and fought with others.
Once she was arrested and detained for 15 days, which became a black history that cannot be erased from her resume.
Third: The stupid things you did for your last love
Men and women, like women, don't want to hear some of their other half's previous love history, and some women foolishly tell the current all the stupid things they have done for their exs in the past. For example, abortion for the sake of the ex, for the sake of the ex's vendetta against his girlfriend and so on.
This kind of thing can be said without saying it, and it can rot in the heart, because if you don't say it, no one will take the initiative to tell you the current one, unless the person has ulterior motives.
The stupid things you did for your ex, if you tell the incumbent, he doesn't care, if he has a small heart, he will go online with you for this matter.
And if you hold on to these things, your feelings will definitely have problems, and if you know what you did before, he will blame you for not doing it for him now.
Therefore, there are some things that can not be said without saying, and can be placed in the heart.
A little more about:
Women, don't be silly enough to think that you are naïve enough to tell men everything, and men will love you to the bone.
There are some things that can be said without saying, there is no point in saying it, and it will also make men who are not good to you take advantage of it.
Men who are good to you generally don't ask these things at all.
Because men love you, they will accept your past, accept all your good and bad, this is really love you.
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