From childhood, the mother takes care of the child, the child also depends on the mother, the two people have formed mutual trust, many children grow up, still habitually listen to the mother's words, this kind of child is our legendary mother's treasure, especially boys. Often think that their parents are not easy, no matter what they say should listen, such men seem to be honoring their parents, but in fact, it may lead to more and more rigid family relations.
Women enter a family, they originally wanted to live happily with men, but who knew that I, a man, listened to my mother everywhere, which was a blow to women, and may also be disappointed in marriage and affect each other's feelings.
Li Fei and Wang Lei met in school, in Li Fei's eyes Wang Lei is a positive and motivated person, and he believes that Wang Lei is a potential stock, so the two will inevitably decide to enter marriage after graduation.
Wang Lei's family conditions are not good, and Li Fei's family bought a marriage house for two people. Originally, it was expected that her daughter could be valued in her in-laws' family, but her mother-in-law thought that Li Fei had climbed her son and looked down on Li Fei everywhere.
Li Fei likes to buy. Foreign purchasing cosmetics, but the mother-in-law said that Li Fei was wasting money, Li Fei retorted: I spend my own money, I want to spend how I want to spend, but the mother-in-law said that your money is my son's money, stunned is to throw Li Fei's cosmetics into the trash can.
Li Fei likes to eat supper in the middle of the night and often orders takeaway. But the mother-in-law scolded her for being a loser, often counting Li Fei's spending money in front of outsiders, and threatening that she must let Li Fei suffer a little.
Li Fei likes to sleep lazily on weekends, but her mother-in-law is always jingling in the living room, and the sound is very loud, so that Li Fei can't sleep at all. Li Fei gave her advice to her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law was very angry and said that everyone had been up for so long, and you were still willing to sleep.
Li Fei and her mother-in-law quarreled, and the two people did not give in to each other, and finally went to the street to scold. Wang Lei came back to persuade the two to stop, wang Lei severely criticized Li Fei, he thought that his mother was too difficult, so old, how could he be so angry?
Li Fei was not willing to show weakness, but Wang Lei said with a straight face: "My mother is an elder, and you have to listen to everything she says!" Hearing Wang Lei say this, Li Fei was very angry, she did not think that her husband was actually relying on her mother-in-law, what should be done in the days to come, so Li Fei said angrily: "She said to let us divorce!" ”
Although Wang Lei is considerate of his mother, and habitually listens to his mother's words, he is still considerate to his wife, and due to the discord between the two women, Wang Lei is sandwiched in the middle and is angry. When two people have a conflict, Wang Lei habitually favors his mother, which will inevitably make Li Fei complain, and the feelings between each other become indifferent day by day.
For men, since they have become a family, they should have the courage to be independent. You must not listen to the words of your parents in everything, only by making your attitude clear can you truly promote family harmony, if men always focus on their parents, it is easy to hurt the heart of the other half and destroy the original harmonious family relationship.