It is an indisputable fact that it is difficult for couples halfway. Where is the specific difficulty, every such family can say a bunch of bitter things. For Lao Xie and Fang Yinuo, their lives are even more difficult, and Hehe's illness has cast a shadow over this special family.
Lao Xie and Fang Yinuo are a halfway couple, but their lives were originally very good, and the two were not only not strangers before marriage, but also friends for many years. At that time, Lao Xie and Xiao Lu both liked Fang Yinuo, but Lao Xie was not good at expressing himself and missed the opportunity, and finally Fang Yinuo chose Xiao Lu.
Unfortunately, Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo's marriage was finally defeated by a trivial family life. They separated with resentment towards each other. Especially Fang Yinuo, she did not even let Xiao Lu visit Hehe, hoping that this biological father would completely disappear from Hehe's life.
Unfortunately, Hehe's illness has shifted all the lives that seem to be on the right track. What happens in the hospital tests human nature. For Fang Yinuo, Lao Xie and Xiao Lu, they will face difficult choices. Among them, Fang Yinuo is hurting others in the name of maternal love, which is difficult to accept.
The doctor informed Fang Yinuo that he had found a suitable match for Hehe, and everyone was happy because of the news. This is the most exciting news after Hehe fell ill. Unfortunately, the good times did not last long, and the bone marrow donor who was successfully matched refused to donate.
At this moment, the mood from the peak to the bottom is the most obvious. Fang Yinuo even hysterically begged the doctor to tell them the donor's information that they were going to ask for this person who could bring hope to Hehe. In order to find this person, Fang Yinuo, Lao Xie, Xiao Lu, and Lei Wen even used unconventional means. Not only did he find the leader of the bone marrow bank, but he also took advantage of his family.
Maternal love, fatherly love, becomes an expression of selfishness. Hehe is a child, and the donor is also looking forward to his own child. Donation or rejection is an individual's right. You can't ask the other person to give up your child because of this child.
There was no clear time to wait for bone marrow donation, and Fang Yinuo accepted the doctor's recommendation. In order to save Hehe's life, she wants to have another child with Xiao Lu. This was an almost ridiculous decision, Fang Yinuo was Lao Xie's wife, and Xiao Lu was Dong Fan's husband.
This was Fang Yinuo's first decision to hurt the people around him. For Lao Xie, this matter is cruel. At first, he had a hard time accepting it. After venting and roaring, Lao Xie chose to accept. Moreover, he also refused Fang Yinuo's request for divorce.
Thinking about it carefully, it is not surprising that Lao Xie can accept it, because he has always loved Fang Yinuo deeply, deeper than others imagined. As long as he could keep Fang Yinuo by his side.
From another point of view, this is what Fang Yinuo can rely on unscrupulously. She clearly knew Lao Xie's feelings for her, and asked him to accept her decision, which was hurting in the name of love. Lao Xie didn't even have the right to refuse because he didn't want a divorce. Whether it is to continue the marriage or divorce, Lao Xie can only accept it.
Similarly, Fang Yinuo did the same to Xiao Lu. Xiao Lu could only accept Fang Yinuo's suggestion. If he does not accept it, then Xiao Lu is the father who does not care whether his child is dead or alive, and he will lose the right to visit the child again. Fang Yinuo kidnapped 2 men with the love of a mother, Morality.
And this is just the beginning, making the decision to conceive naturally, Fang Yinuo's behavior is also questionable. After examination, Fang Yinuo's body had problems and could not immediately undergo artificial insemination with Xiao Lu. In this case, Fang Yinuo proposed natural conception. She did not tell Lao Xie about this decision, nor did Xiao Lu tell Dong Fan.
This decision is sad. A mother can do nothing to save her child. The end of Fang Yinuo's marriage with Xiao Lu was because of Xiao Lu's betrayal, but at this time, Fang Yinuo also had to perform the same behavior. She became the most contradictory version of herself, and she was also hurting Lao Xie and Dong Fan.
This decision is also ridiculous. Ironically, Fang Yinuo did not feel that he had done anything wrong. Because she has the most suitable reason. If you hurt your other half, it seems that it is indeed a child's life that is more important than the child's life. Is the damage really graded? Injury is harm, whether it is a child or an adult.
Dong Fan's pain, Lao Xie's lack of words, let the whole thing like a rainy day, slowly penetrate people's hearts, breeding harm. One person's pain eventually evolves into the pain of many people. Moreover, everyone has no right to refuse, and can only suffer in silence. Although Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu finally terminated this almost absurd decision, the whole process of the development of the event made people think deeply.
The third thing Fang Yinuo did to bring harm to Lao Xie was that she concealed her pregnancy. Fang Yinuo, who accompanied Hehe in the hospital, accidentally learned that he was pregnant. Old Xie liked the child very much, and if he knew about it, he would certainly be very happy. However, Fang Yinuo hesitated, she did not tell anyone.
Old Sister Xie once said that the most bitter thing in this family is her brother. He may be busy until the end of nothing, and the child has no money. Although the eldest sister's words are not good, they are indeed facts. Halfway couple, very sensitive to the problem of children. Whether it is a husband and wife, or a family member, they will feel that there is a child, and the halfway couple will become a real couple.
Fang Yinuo's reason for concealing this matter was simple, she and Lao Xie's children seemed to have come at the wrong time. Hehe's illness is a lingering haze in this family. Before Hehe is discharged from the hospital, all the happy events will be dimmed. Between the two children, Fang Yinuo is making a trade-off, and Hehe may be ranked first.
After knowing that she was pregnant, Fang Yinuo did not tell Lao Xie at the first time, and she also drank alcohol to release herself. This behavior is very inappropriate for the mother-to-be, and it also betrays her heart. Old Xie also accidentally learned about Fang Yinuo's pregnancy, but he did not say it. He wanted to hear Fang Yinuo tell himself that this was the child of the two of them after all.
Old Xie asked Fang Yinuo if there was anything he wanted to say to himself. Fang Yinuo's answer was, no. The simple two words are another harm to Lao Xie. Regarding this child, Lao Xie could fully express his thoughts, because that was also the continuation of his life. Hehe was their child, and so was this unborn child.
Fang Yinuo can't be too selfish and decide the future of a child alone, which is her minimum respect for Lao Xie. In "Dear Child", Lao Xie is an old good man who is not controversial. But such a person is always hurting.