Fa Xiao, who had been in love with her boyfriend for five years, divorced two years after marriage. Their love process, the people around them are well known, so sweet, so attached, when they got married, they invited a lot of friends to the scene, everyone blessed, no one expected that there would be such a situation now.
The divorce was filed by a small family, and the husband and the female colleague of the company had an inexplicable relationship, and she could not accept it, so she had to file for divorce.
She was very entangled in her heart, constantly asking me, "Do you say I should leave?" I still have him in my heart. ”
No matter who it happens to, sadness is inevitable. Everything has a two-sided nature, and the feelings are the same, a relationship, when there are two feelings that are happy with each other, there will also be times of sensitivity and uneasiness.
You love him because he has done so many things that move you, and you are sad because he has done things that hurt you. If your husband has done these things to you, let go even if you love them.
01 Long-term cold violence
There is no relationship, a marriage is only sweet and there is no dispute, and even the best feelings will have noisy times. The two have disagreements, and some quarrels have occurred, and they should ease up as soon as possible to resolve this contradiction. But because of this, men ignored you for several days, did not answer the phone, did not say much when they returned home, and once used cold violence against you.
One quarrel is like this, two quarrels are still like this, long-term cold violence makes you physically and mentally exhausted, but the heart still loves him, can't bear to say let go, can't bear to divorce.
In fact, it is really wrong to think like this, only men who don't love you are willing to do this to you, and men who love you will not snub you again and again.
If your husband has done this to you, let go even if you love it. Men who will not compromise and will only carry out cold violence have long since stopped taking you seriously and recognized this fact as soon as possible.
02 Never consider your feelings
Shanshan's in-laws will come to sit at home when they have nothing to do, and Shanshan will take care of her every time she eats well and drinks well. Everyone was on the table, she was alone in the kitchen still cooking the last dish, the in-laws called her to come over to eat, but the husband was eating next to her, and he did not forget to say, "It's okay Mom, you can eat your own, she likes the last one to come to dinner, loves to eat the rest." ”
Shanshan's face was displeased when she heard this, and her husband did not care about her face at all, "What, I said it is not right, all of you sweep the plate, so you can eat, no wonder it is so fat." ”
If your husband has done this to you, let go even if you love it. He is not selfish, he just doesn't want to be tolerant of you, and his love for you is really too little and too little compared to your love for him. 03 Had an affair
Men steal, only zero times and countless times, don't expect men to really return to the family after cheating.
A man can not look good, the career is average, but your family must be loyal, committed a problem of principle, it is really a problem of character, it is difficult to reborn like the original for you.
It's like a vase that breaks, and you try to get it back to its original form, but this vase is no longer the original one, and it's more fragile and easier to break when you touch it. Men who have extramarital affairs are not worthy of forgiveness.
If your husband has done this to you, let go even if you love it. You have to be clear about what you want, don't lose yourself, lose yourself. Women's beautiful youth is too short, there are so many interesting people and things in the world that we have not yet encountered, and our minds must be clear when it is time to make a decision!
Love is easy to make people lose their minds, easy to be emotional, but some things, when it happens, it is difficult to turn back, a person hurts you again and again, can only show that you are really not so important in his heart.
When you have time, think more about yourself; when you have time, improve yourself more; when you have time, run yourself well. Let go of the man who has hurt you, you get better, and naturally there will be excellent people coming closer to you. The future, what you want, time will be given to you.