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Recently, actor Dong Jie posted a video celebrating her 42nd birthday on social platforms.
It can be seen in the picture that she is in a good state when she appears on camera, her skin is smooth and tight, and she is full of girlishness.
Just as she was finishing the sweet and sour ribs, Dong Jie and Pan Yueming's 13-year-old son appeared on the top.
He wore a t-shirt with black shorts and looked very comfortable that day.
The top of the 13-year-old, inherited the good genes of his parents, looks very handsome, and his height is almost higher than his mother.
In addition to posting a photo with her son, Dong Jie also talked about her understanding of life.
Middle age is very oppressive for the actor, and what she can do is to keep working hard and cherish everything in front of her.
Although she is 42 years old, Dong Jie's mentality is very girly.
In life, she is simple and casual, giving people a gentle feeling.
Thinking back to the cold autumn dressed in national clothes, she held the pure lily and smiled back, which was simply beautiful.
Today, Dong Jie is no longer the Dong Jie of that year, she has been replaced by new people, and her resources are getting less and less.
Occasionally talking about her is also some cliché news.
The once lily flower is now discredited, from a jade girl to a "desire woman", Dong Jie personally buried her life.
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Some people say that Dong Jie has a good chance of becoming the "next generation of Gong Li", but he has played a good card.
Some people also say that the reason why Liu Jialing did not have children is related to Dong Jie.
As for the bride who held hands with Nicholas Tse in 2000, she should have been Zhou Xun, but somehow it was Dong Jie who appeared on the Spring Festival Gala.
This series of questions can't help but make people wonder that Dong Jie's history of ascension to the throne is far from being as simple as imagined.
In 1995, Dong Jie officially graduated from the song and dance troupe.
I have to say that between this girl's hands and feet, it is unattainable.
The following year, she was selected by the program team and was given a chance to rehearse a skit.
With her excellent looks, she finally participated in Zhao Lirong's sketch "The Adventure of Part-time Work", and Dong Jie played a palace girl, which was very eye-catching.
In 2000, Dong Jie was again selected by the Spring Festival Gala and recorded songs with Nicholas Tse.
Since then, she has entered the eyes of audiences across the country.
If the Spring Festival Gala can change a person's fate, then Dong Jie must be the most typical representative.
In July of the same year, the well-known director Zhang Yimou found Dong Jie and invited her to participate in the filming of the movie "Happy Time".
After the film was released, it was sought after by the audience, and Dong Jie also won the Huabiao Award for Best Newcomer.
Originally, Zhang Yimou had the heart to praise her as the next generation of Gong Li, but Dong Jie had no intention of working hard in the film circle.
She did not heed the admonition of the old strategist and took over a number of TV series.
Until 2003, it ushered in its own peak moment.
With the "Cold Autumn" in the TV series "Golden Powder Family", Dong Jie suddenly became synonymous with "White Moonlight".
But since then, her play path has not gone smoothly, but Liu Yifei in the play has become a first-line actress in the mainland.
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Dong Jie went to Hong Kong to develop in a fit of rage, and by virtue of his aura in the mainland, he successfully defected to director Wong Kar-wai.
More importantly, she also became a fellow disciple of the film emperor Liang Chaowei.
After that, Dong Jie and Liang Chaowei sang together, took pictures of pictorials together, and celebrated birthdays together...
You know, Liu Jialing is Liang Chaowei's legitimate girlfriend, and the appearance of Dong Jie makes her very unhappy.
But this does not prevent the two of them from looking at me and me.
Subsequently, movies such as "2046" and "Subway" have been released.
It is worth mentioning that there is a passionate opponent scene in "2046", even if it is put to the present, it is very ambiguous.
Did the two extend their feelings outside the play to the play?
At one event, she and Liang Chaowei behaved ambiguously, intimate like a couple.
Soon after, Dong Jie's popularity gradually soared, and many media speculated that the two had already carried out an underground affair.
In 2007, before the legitimate girlfriend Liu Jialing arrived, Dong Jie could not wait to celebrate the birthday with Liang Chaowei.
In 2009, Liang Chaowei took Dong Jie to a gold shop, and then she had a new bracelet on her wrist.
More hotel breaking news, every time Liang Chaowei walked into the hotel on the front foot, Dong Jie followed on the back foot, and when cleaning the room, the house could always find the used XX set.
In the face of these gossip, how could Liu Jialing give up?
Soon, Dong Jie's doom came, she was hidden by the brokerage company, and finally she could only return home.
Soon, the most tragic "receiver" Pan Yueming appeared, and Dong Jie's "absurd history" had just begun.
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As we all know, Dong Jie and Pan Yueming met because of the filming of "The Red Dress".
You know, Pan Yueming was a hot young actor at that time, and he launched a fierce pursuit regardless of the scandals of Dong Jie and Liang Chaowei.
Two months after Liang Chaowei and Liu Jialing officially announced their marriage, Dong Jie and Pan Yueming also quickly married.
After that, the birth of his son Dingding was even questioned by the media, and this child was most likely Liang Chaowei's illegitimate son.
It wasn't until 2012 that Dong Jie suddenly issued a statement saying that she and Pan Yueming had divorced.
In the statement, Dong Jie accused her ex-husband of gambling excessively, and owed huge sums of money, as well as x incompetence.
At this time, the spearhead of public opinion was pointed at Pan Yueming, but soon after, this matter was reversed.
After a photo of a passionate kiss was exposed, the public was dumbfounded, and the protagonists of the photo were actually Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi.
Such an act confirmed the fact that Dong Jie cheated in marriage.
And her previous accusations against Pan Yueming were really the first complaints of the evil people, which was purely a rake.
Since then, the image of Dong Jieyun has disappeared, and her career has plummeted.
After the divorce, she took her son to the top.
Although he said that he did not mind his ex-husband coming to see the child, in fact, Pan Yueming never had the opportunity to see his son.
Dingding intentionally or unintentionally talked about his father in the show, but Dong Jie's answer is always that his father is very busy and has no time to see you.
Even on the eve of Pan Yueming's father's illness, Dong Jie did not let the old man see his grandson...
The cold autumn that used to hold the lilies finally disappeared.
And Pan Yueming, although he can't see the child, as long as he has a birthday, he will send blessings.
And for 10 years, the copy he posted was exactly the same, which was probably the only thing he could do.
In one show, when the host mentioned the child's question, Pan Yueming couldn't help but turn around and cry.
It can be seen how heavy the pain of his thoughts is.
And Dong Jie, not only continues to oppose her ex-husband, but also keeps her son away from her biological father Pan Yueming, which is not only excessive, but also contrary to morality.
Children must often contact their fathers to form a sound personality later, and what Dong Jie is doing is actually harming his children.
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Pan Yueming's helplessness and pain cannot be felt by ordinary people.
But for the sake of the healthy growth of his children, he never said Dong Jie half a "no" word.
Perhaps in his heart, he has always been grateful to this woman who has given birth to children for herself.
In terms of career, Pan Yueming experienced a long bottleneck period and finally returned to the public vision with a "White Night Pursuit".
Subsequently, "Ghost Blowing Lights" made him a success.
It's just that the big boy with clear eyebrows has now become a vicissitudes uncle.
And Dong Jie, her approach has not gained any benefits, from a hot first-line actor to a second- or third-line, rarely can receive the role of a big-scale production heroine.
Whether it is to participate in "Sister Lang", the final round of the tour will be eliminated.
Or starring in the TV series "Meritorious Service", netizens do not buy it.
Perhaps in the days to come, Dong Jie's personality will no longer be able to wash white.
Looking at her son who lacks fatherly love and her ex-husband whose career is booming, I don't know what her heart feels like?
Ruining the marriage and ruining the popularity is simply self-inflicted, which is really stupid.
Dong Jie should never, should not continue his personal grudges to the next generation.
And Pan Yueming, from beginning to end, has remained silent, neither denying nor accusing the other party, he only hopes that those sad things will gradually be forgotten.
Perhaps, this is also his last tenderness to Dong Jie.
Author: Lollipop
Edit: Wheat