Today I will teach you a trick in getting along with the sexes, that is, how to make a man feel insecure, and then always put your mind on you? I think more than 60% of people should have that kind of insecurity, then I can boldly speculate, if you are in this relationship, lack of security, then your feelings must be very tired, because when you are insecure, you will like to put more energy on each other, and then do, that is, you are obviously gaining a sense of security, but in the other party's view you are doing, and finally the two people quarreled,
So today I will teach you, how to reverse this situation, turn passive into active, pull the initiative back, so that this man has an insecurity, how to do it? In fact, the secret is two sentences, everyone remembers it, called verbal encouragement, behavioral indifference, everyone remember it well, verbal encouragement behavior indifference, how to explain this sentence, I will first say a negative is, everyone in life, why do you lack of security, or, why did you lose the dominance?
For example, your husband, went home and said one thing to you, that is, with you bragged a cow said, this month I am the company's crown, took thousands of bonuses, so many people in the company have not done me, I am the first place in the crown, said this matter, please ask as his wife, how will you reply to him, most women are that kind of disdain, although the heart is very happy but disdainful, look at you can, look at you to get the cersei, and then may have to hit two sentences, but the heart is quite happy, this language is not sure, What to do back, maybe make him a delicious meal at night, or buy him something, to encourage him, tell him that what he thinks is to contribute to the family, to praise him, but I want to tell you, if you do this, the man will only get farther and farther away from you, and even he is unhappy, why, because what the man wants, in fact, is the language of encouragement, that is, he brags with you, the cow blows up, he wants you to do something, I hope you encourage him to continue to blow, the more this cow blows the better The higher the cow blows, the better, but he just blew up, you disdainfully left, he himself in that performance you said how embarrassed, so he said that he did not receive, your language in the sense of accomplishment, then you do these actions later, he automatically ignored, he feels that you do not value him, well we will use today's secret, called verbal encouragement, behavioral indifference, that is to say, we turn this matter around.
The same is your husband, after returning home with you blowing this matter, saying that I am a pin crown, how much bonus I took this month, this time you only need to be in the language, to cater to him to praise him, for example: husband you are great, your company so many powerful people, have been killed by you, is these words of encouragement to him is enough, this time the man must be very happy, must be very accomplished, encouraged to do it, do not forget there is a sentence behind, called behavioral indifference, what does it mean, You see you are cooperating with him to brag, after blowing he must be thinking, my wife so recognize me today, am I can do whatever I want, I want to eat what I want to let you do for me, I want to do anything you will cooperate with me, but no, what is called behavioral indifference, is next, when he asks you to do something, reject him, whether it is what he wants to eat, want you to do it for him, reject him, that is, in behavior or the same as before, at this time, men will have a kind of self-doubt, It is this great reversal that will make him overwhelmed, and he will feel that his wife does not approve of me, how can he not cooperate with me now, he will have doubts, and when he has self-doubt, your purpose will be achieved.
You think about what you will do when you are in a relationship, self-doubt, you will keep trying, keep showing yourself, men are the same, then he may use, more good for you, more pay, to meet your sense of accomplishment of praising him, and then test the next behavior, you will not refuse, then this whole process is the process of putting all his thoughts on you, hoping to help your feelings.
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