20 years ago, Venus adopted a child as a transgender woman, and what she got was not blessings, but more questions and accusations. Some people think that she adopts in order to satisfy her selfish desire to become a mother, leaving the child with an unwarranted layer of pressure and trouble in her growth, and Venus's behavior is very selfish, so she cannot become a good mother. There are also some people who worry about how children can grow up in this chaotic gender concept, how can the mind and body be healthy? Children will have psychological problems in the future. In the face of criticism, Venus proudly said that I am not a good mother, and I will judge it in 20 years. Only my children have the right to judge whether I am a good mother or not. Now a full 20 years later, Three of Venus's children have grown up, ages 21, 19 and 18. What have they grown into? In this episode, we will talk about the current situation of Venus's three children.
Venus adopted her eldest son, Toot Toot, who was three days old, in 2002 her five-month-old daughter Nini, and in 2003 she adopted her youngest son, Little Three, who was three days old. The reason for adopting three children is also very simple, if only one is adopted, this child will face pressure from the outside world alone because of the special structure of the family, and the three children can rely on each other. Children are of great significance to Venus. After becoming a mother, Venus felt that her life had become thicker. Venus has always said that being able to be a woman is her personal choice, and she is content. Later, God thought that she was doing a good job as a woman, and gave her three children as a reward. For a long time, Venus raised these three children alone, and then, God saw that it was a little hard for her to take three children as a woman, so he sent an angel to help her. This angel is Hans.
At the age of 36, Venus met Hans on a plane. She told Hans that she had three children, three children with three different fathers. Hans thought that this woman's love history was too rich, and then Venus told Hans about her experience of male and female, Hans was even more frightened, but after only one night of thinking, he still decided to pursue Venus. The two married in 2005. From then on, Venus fulfilled all the roles a real woman could play in her life: daughter, mother, wife. Venus has repeatedly said that the person he admires most in his life is her husband Hans. She said that Hans was under as much social pressure as I was. He gave up the right to have a biological child in order to be with me and raised three unrelated children with me.
However, after she and Hans formed a family, the problem of the children's hukou became a difficult problem. Hans is German and needs to apply for an international adoption certificate, which is a cumbersome process. Venus even divorced Hans for this, and the reason venus divorced was that Germany lost the World Cup. After that, in order to solve the problem of the child's household registration, the two have not been licensed. When the children are grown up, in 2018, Venus and Hans remarried and held a wedding. Fortune tellers say that Venus will be married three times in this life. Sure enough, Venus and the American woman Kemperin married once, and the German man Hans twice.
Venus talked about the different personalities of the three children in the show, and her education methods were also different. Venus often said that without the confidence given to her by her eldest son, she might not have the courage to adopt the next two more. Venus's eldest son, Toot Toot, is named Jin Ziyong. The eldest son is like half a parent. Venus said that many things were explained to the boss, which was equivalent to telling two small ones. As the first child to come to this family, Jin Ziyong also had doubts about his identity. He asked Venus when he was five years old, "Mom, am I your biological child?" Venus said: Mother especially wants to give birth to you, but mother can't give birth, so other aunts gave birth to you for your mother and sent you to my side. After that, Toot understands his origins. At the age of 7, Venus once asked Toot Toot, who do you love the most in this world? Venus said that being a mother is a, just to hear his son say that he loves himself the most. But my son said, "There are two people I love most in this world." One was mom and the other was mom who gave birth to me. Because if I hadn't given birth to my mom, I couldn't have been your child.
When Hans first entered the house, Toot was already 5 years old, so he was a little wary of this man, afraid that his mother would be robbed, and he was afraid that his mother would suffer losses. Once while driving, Toot saw Hans touching his mother's hand, and he pulled Hans's hand away and said: "Drive well, pay attention to safety." Another time, When Toot saw Venus spending money, he asked his mother: Doesn't he make money himself? Why doesn't he spend money? And Toot is also the last of the three children to be called Hans "Daddy", and his younger siblings are already called "Daddy", he is not called. So when did Toot change his mouth? In fact, it is not difficult, Hans said that once he took the children to eat McDonald's, Toot called Daddy. In fact, after a long time, Toot found that Hans was really good to his mother and them.
In Venus's family education, it is certainly impossible to avoid the topic of her transgender identity. When the eldest son was five or six years old, he once saw a picture of Venus when he was young and asked: Who is this uncle? Venus replied: That was when Mom was young, and Mom was a man when she was young. Moms especially want to be your moms, so you can only be your mom if you become a woman first. Since then, the son has never asked about the gender of Venus, nor has his younger siblings asked. Because the older brother explained it clearly to the younger brothers and sisters.
For moms, kids are absolutely maintained. When Toot Was 8 years old at school, a classmate said that your mother was a man before, and Jin Ziyong directly shrugged it back: "What's the matter with you?" Take care of your own affairs. "This made Venus very moved.
As the eldest son in the family, Jin Ziyong took on too many expectations from her mother. Venus also never skimped on the praise of her eldest son. The eldest son is now studying in the UK and has a pure English accent. Venus said: Listening to my son is a pleasure. When he returned home from vacation, he saw that his brother was very naughty, and he shook his head helplessly and said to Venus a little worriedly: You have to take care of your little son. It's so ignorant. This made Venus laugh, and I felt that the tone of the eldest son was half of the parents. Venus also said to her younger siblings, you have to thank your brother. Venus once said to her eldest son, in the future, if you take any girl home, your mother may not be able to see it. Because I don't think there is a girl in the world who deserves you. It can be seen how satisfied Venus is with her eldest son.
Now Jin Ziyong is 21 years old and has opened his own social platform. His biggest hobby is watching football, and much of what he shares is related to football. After the official announcement of the rebroadcast of the "Venus Show" this year, he also cheered for his mother.
Venus is rich for her daughter Nini. But discipline is the strictest and most traditional. Piano, female worker, cooking must be known. Venus believes that girls learn these things to accumulate her capital to become a woman. Venus rarely exposes the daughter's positive photos, in 16 years, some media photographed Venus and her daughter going out together, and in 18 years, Venus also deliberately covered her daughter's face when she sent Weibo. In 2021, Venus and her daughter were photographed shopping together, and Nini was already as tall as her mother.
The most Venus-like of these three children may be the youngest son, the younger third child. It must be a special fate to be able to walk into a door and become a family. The younger son not only looks like Venus, but also has sharp teeth, and even his mother is ashamed of himself. Venus is sometimes held up by the younger son very speechless, helplessly said: Why are you so sharp-tongued? The younger son said: Then you don't look at who my mother is. In 2014, Venus specifically called out his youngest son in an interview with Lu Yu. In his own show "Venus Show", Venus did not make fun of his young son as a paragraph. The youngest son is also 18 years old this year, and has faded into an adolescent boy.
After 20 years, All three of Venus's children have grown up, with different personalities and hobbies, the only thing that is the same is that they are all healthy and happy. This also breaks some people's stereotypes. It can be seen that love is the most important thing in the growth of children. Venus's relationship with three unrelated children may be better than many blood-related family ties. This intimate mother-child relationship may not be something that all mothers can have. Venus said that her life was worth it, and she had already lived several lifetimes of other women. Her life can be used to use the word "legendary".
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