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"I have booked a confinement center, and after giving birth, I will stay directly at the confinement center."
"Which one do you book, I also plan to go to the confinement center after giving birth, first compare and compare in advance, and then choose well."
A young pregnant colleague was chatting with other colleagues when they talked about who would take care of the baby after giving birth. Colleagues directly said that they had booked a confinement center. A young female colleague who was not yet married heard this, and immediately echoed the call, and she also went to live in the confinement center when the time came.
As far as I know, the pregnant female colleague's home conditions are not very good, the two have just bought a house with the financial support of both parents, there is a large monthly payment, life is stretched, the colleague was planning to get pregnant again in a few years, but did not expect to get pregnant unexpectedly. One of the colleagues asked how your mother-in-law and mother-in-law are still very young, so why don't they take care of the confinement, so as not to save a lot of money. The colleague said that now that everyone lives in the confinement center, there is no need to save this money, maybe it is nothing to have this child and enjoy it. The family conditions of another colleague who is not yet married are unclear.
After listening to the words of these two young colleagues, I also found that in the past few years, the confinement center has suddenly become popular, and even many eighteen-line small counties have also appeared various confinement centers. Young girls are scrambling to go to confinement centers, even if the economic conditions are general, they will not hesitate to spend a lot of money to live in confinement centers. Whether you have money or not, why are young people scrambling to go to the confinement center now? The reason is too real.
Information is developed, and people now have a heavier heart to compare
Now that network information is developed, people can easily browse to various information through mobile phones. The various publicity of the confinement center, as well as the feelings of some people living in the confinement center, can be expressed on the Internet, and young people have seen all kinds of such information with a little attention.
Therefore, it is easy to produce comparative psychology, since the confinement center has been so common, so many women live in the confinement center after giving birth, why can't I live? The confinement center also grasps the psychology of young people who cannot climb, throws in their favor, increases publicity in this regard, and attracts more and more young mothers to stay, thus promoting the popularity of the confinement center.
Now young people are pampered and raised, and they have not suffered since childhood
In fact, you can find that those who stay in the confinement center are all young people. These young people grew up in the era of relatively developed materials, and they have not experienced the hardship of lack of clothes and less food since they were young, have not been trapped by money, and have not saved money and are afraid of danger in times of peace.
When they started a family, there was not much financial pressure at the beginning, and they didn't know that there were many places where they would need to spend money in the future. Therefore, if you have money, you will spend it, and you don't want to be wronged yourself.
Unwilling to experience the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, spend money to buy peace of mind
Of course, the most important thing is that now young daughters-in-law have seen the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law from the previous generation, and there are all kinds of things about mother-in-law contradictions from the Internet, and we all know that the confinement is the high incidence period of mother-in-law contradictions, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the month will affect the whole family. Therefore, many young women choose to live in the confinement center in order to avoid the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, although they spend money, but there are many fewer contradictions and worries.
[Topic Discussion: Do you think it is necessary to live in the confinement center after giving birth? 】
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