Author: Bo Xi
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The scene of the crime
01
On April 25, a shocking video quickly circulated on the Internet.
It is understood that the location of the incident is located next to a hotel on Huanghai Street in Zhuanghe City, Dalian, Liaoning Province.
Video footage shows that at about 11:50 a.m. that day, a black car suddenly accelerated and crashed into a nearby pedestrian.
Some witnesses said that there was a quarrel between the two sides before the incident, and the perpetrator suddenly hit the pedestrian after getting into the car in the process of the dispute.
After the pedestrian was knocked down, he also tried to stand up, but the vehicle then fell back, crushing the injured person, and finally causing the tragedy of the victim dying.
What is even more incredible is that these two people are actually mother-daughter relationship!
Without hesitation in broad daylight, he killed his mother while driving in the street and trying to escape, which felt like a rumor, no matter who he changed it to.
What is the deep hatred that makes a person kill his mother?
As some netizens said: She gave you life, but you took her life with your own hands.
The police quickly brought the suspect under control after the incident, but as for the specific details of the incident, not much was disclosed for the time being.
However, some people at the scene said that the reason for the incident seems to be because of family trivia.
The reason for this is that the woman lives with her mother, who does not dislike her daughter, but the woman drove away from home one day, stayed in a hotel, and did not return home for several days.
Knowing that her daughter was staying at the hotel, her mother rushed to persuade her to go home, but her daughter got into an argument with her.
Subsequently, the daughter lost control of her emotions and suddenly drove into her mother, causing her mother to die while being sent to the hospital for treatment.
At this point, the mother would never have imagined that the person who ended her life would be her own child. The woman would not have imagined that she had deliberately killed her mother.
How sad is it that 37-year-old, presumably an educated person, has long been a parent, but does not understand the so-called "adopter knows the grace of his parents"?
Whether it was the 13-year-old boy who killed his parents with a ram's horn hammer, the girl who strangled his mother with a rope from behind, or Wu Xieyu, the scene of extraordinary blood and brutality was enough to make people shudder when they think about it.
The ancients said: "The skin of the body, the parents who receive it, do not dare to damage, the beginning of filial piety." ”
In the eyes of the ancients, they got their own body and hair, which were given by their parents, and they did not dare to have any damage, which was also basic filial piety.
Some people understand the hardships of their parents at a few years of age or teenagers, and they will try to be a sensible and obedient child, which is very good.
But when some people do not experience family and career twists and turns until they are in their thirties, when they have a bad career, a family disharmony, and when the people around them are gradually stopping interacting, they know that they have lived for others many times, but the parents at home always live for their children.
This is not an exaggeration.
Killing fathers and mothers, which was originally thought to be only in ancient societies to seek the position of emperor, is now common.
This kind of corrupting ethical norm is constantly heard, is this a lack of education, or is it the extinction of human nature? Why have cases of children killing their fathers and mothers still occur from time to time in the past few years?
As early as the Warring States period, the famous thinker Xun Zi once put forward the view that "sex is inherently evil".
He believes that human nature is originally evil, but it is only because of the indoctrination of the day after tomorrow that it becomes good.
But today, some people have received a higher level of education and a better life, but human nature has become more and more evil.
This should be the original human nature, the original evil.
The vehicle that caused the accident
02
I once saw a question on the Internet that said, "What is going on between you and your own mother?" ”
Some netizens replied like this:
@ You are the sum of my time: The most precious gift my mother gave me was to grow up, teach me love, give me enough spiritual wealth, and being a daughter of a mother is one of my luckiest things, not one.
@ Angel does not wash dishes: My mother is really a first time to be a mother, I am in my early twenties, she covers me in the winter, first lift it all up, shake the heat in the air, and then put the extended quilt on me.
@ Eat not fat: Even if you cry a thousand times, you will still dry your tears and continue to love people well. Because when I didn't know, My mother probably endured ten thousand tears. I would blame her for the grievances, but I couldn't help but love her.
@Haiyue: That day, I was upgraded to a mother, pushed out of the operating room, I saw my mother holding my baby, she saw me when she breathed a long sigh of relief, it was probably a moment when the pressure suddenly lifted. In the hospital room, I washed my face and feet, helped me to the toilet, and I seemed to change back into the child who couldn't do anything, and she seemed to change back into the all-powerful mother.
@RN: My mother always thinks back to what happened when I was a child, and then always feels that I have not done a good job, and there are many regrets, as if I want to start again and be a mother again. Actually, I don't think I can do better than her when I become a mom for the first time in the future.
Most of the time, especially in Chinese families, mothers are making careful calculations, but they can't meet their children's every wish.
Many children don't always understand this behavior, and in their opinion, the mother always fails to fulfill the promises that have been promised.
In the eyes of the child, there may be a gift that has not been fulfilled, and in the mother's heart, there is always a regret that she has not been able to go all out.
Sometimes, until you have wandered in a foreign land, experienced countless cold eyes, and been smashed by real life, you will understand the real life and will find out who really loves yourself.
A friend who saw a 37-year-old woman drive herself and kill her mother, who often communicates and writes together, talks about herself.
She said that when she was a child, her family was poor, and every time her mother took her to the street, she had to ask her to buy her a bun that she wanted to eat. But once, my mother didn't have enough money to buy it.
Although he was young, his careful wishes were still not met, so he was very aggrieved in his heart and made a fool of himself.
In the next few days, my mother talked to herself, and she agreed without a word, let alone helped her mother to do anything, but her mother did not blame herself.
Now that she's at home, her mother buys some of those buns every time she goes out on the street, sweet and salty.
She said that although her mother may not remember that she was pestering herself to buy buns, this is only accidental, but it always makes her feel as if her mother is making up for her child, and she feels guilty.
It seems that everything is the same, and sometimes we always feel that the mother who gave her life does not seem to have given enough, so whatever we take from her is a matter of course, but we rarely stop and look back to ask her if she is tired.
But do you feel that we owe them too much?
03
"Human nature is inherently evil", I always feel that maybe this is the case.
Isn't this the so-called "easy to change nature and difficult to move"? Some people's evil really can't be changed.
At the age of 37, he killed his own mother with his own hands, and the evil of human nature can be like this.
Even if it is really like some people say, is there something wrong with her family, so her spirit has been stimulated.
But even if that were the case, how could a man, in full view of everyone, do an executioner and kill the man who gave birth and raised himself?
Personally, I just found it incredible, and I didn't know how the mother felt at that time.
What did she feel in her heart when she found her daughter abandoning her emotions, abandoning her kindness, and turning to killing herself, what did she feel in her heart, panic, helplessness, disappointment, or something else?
It is impossible to imagine, much less what appeared in the minds of the mother and the perpetrator at that time.
Maybe when her mother was knocked to the ground, if she hadn't escaped in her car, her conscience would have found that her mother would still be alive, but that's only if.
I don't know what kind of intractable conflict between the 37-year-old woman and her mother, or what kind of legal sanctions she will face, but I feel sad and pity the mother.
Maybe the day the truth comes out, I will also sympathize with some of the unfortunate things that the perpetrator has encountered in his life, but more often I will feel: what is human nature?
Is human nature Mencius's "nature inherently good" or Xunzi's "sexual evil"?
It may vary from person to person, and there is no absolute right or wrong.
What I want to say is: at any time, don't overestimate the goodness of human nature, don't underestimate the evil of human nature, and don't lose the human nature that you were born to be.
Moral bottom line, don't lose it!
The vehicle that caused the accident