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If in a marriage, if a man stands on the side of his wife, then the in-laws are not afraid of how to bully, there is a husband covered, but married to a useless man, only listen to the words of the parents of the man, then the woman will not have a good life in this life, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not have a peaceful day, so to say, a woman married into such a family, must understand the resistance, can not let the mother-in-law and the husband to bully, if the mother-in-law does not understand the respect for you, good to you, you do not have to be good to her, Let's take a look at the following story.
Ms. Zhang is 40 years old
I am 40 years old this year, when I was thirty years old, I married my husband, it is really funny to say, before I married my husband, my mother-in-law did not like me, because I am small, my mother-in-law thinks that I am so small, can not give her a grandchild, so I do not want to agree to the marriage between the two of us, fortunately, my husband insisted on marrying me, otherwise the two of us broke up like this.
Both of us were introduced by the family, the husband's age is a little older than me, although I have reached the right age, but in the search for the object of this piece, I am not so anxious, and then my parents introduced me to the object, it is also the husband, they told me that the husband is very good, let me go to meet, I do not want my parents to worry, so I agreed to go to see him.
When the two of us first met, I thought that each other was quite suitable, he looked very honest, so I agreed to get along with me, but when my husband fell in love with me, his parents did not see me, it was the two of us almost after getting married, my husband took me to his house too much, I thought his parents would not say anything, but who thought, his parents did not like me very much, think that I am thin, too small, think that her son is so big, I do not deserve him or the like, More importantly, I was afraid that I would not be able to give birth to a son, so she would dislike it even more.
Mother-in-law also thought about breaking up the two of us, but fortunately, the husband and I have always been very good, the mother-in-law's small actions have not been successful, there is no way, she can only promise us two to get married, I thought to myself, the mother-in-law promised us both to get married, then is it not possible to explain that the wedding of the two of us is very smooth, but who thought that when the two families talked about the bride price, they talked about collapse, My family is generally given 188,000, so the hair, but also smooth, but my mother-in-law is not willing to give, she said that I married feel like I am selling my daughter, not marrying a daughter, so she said to give 80,000, more than a point, at that time my parents were angry to death, did not want to agree to the two of us to get married.
Later, the husband came out of the round field, said promised my parents, the remaining 100,000 he came to give, otherwise my parents will not let go, change the mouth fee, the mother-in-law also said well, is to give 80,000, but the mother-in-law this person, is true, very good at fooling people, is not want us two to get married, is to see my jokes, think I am too good to bully, so in our wedding scene, give me a mess, but did not expect that the ugly is her.
It was not easy to get the two of us married, I thought that today's big day would be smooth and profitable, but who thought that on the wedding day, when toasting, when I wanted to change my mouth, my mother-in-law smiled and gave me a red envelope, originally I was thinking of calling her a "mom", but when I took the change fee given by my mother-in-law, it was particularly light, and it was very thin, didn't I say that it was good to give 80,000? How so thin, so I also disregarded the scene of more people, immediately opened to see, when I opened but saw, 6 yuan, but still a piece, I looked at the mother-in-law, but saw the mother-in-law's adulterous smile, I was particularly angry, I felt that she did not respect me, nor respect my son This wedding, she wanted me to be humiliated in front of so many relatives, she also thought that I would not say this in front of so many people, but she thought wrong, I not only want to say, I also have to say in front of everyone.
I took the host's microphone, looked at everyone and said: "Hello friends and relatives, today is very welcome to drink our happy wine, we are very happy, but, there is a point I am particularly unhappy, that is, my mother-in-law, when I said well, give me 80,000 mouth change fee, but now I actually gave 6 yuan, I feel that I have been insulted, I feel that she does not like me, and I do not want me to call her a mother, to be honest, I am very angry, but I figured it out, I don't care, But in the future, she will not think that I will call her a mother, here I promise everyone that she made me so embarrassed on the wedding day, then she will not regret it later."
When I said this, I directly disregarded what the crowd thought of me, I just left, toasting without toasting, I was too lazy to reason, anyway, the mother-in-law embarrassed me so much, the rest of her own handling can be, I know that as soon as I say this, the mother-in-law's old face must not be hanging up, and relatives will definitely look down on her, her heart does not know whether she will know that she did wrong, but whether she knows it or not, I will not call her mother in my life, and I will not call her again.
At that time, I was thinking of retiring from marriage with my husband, not married, but looking at my husband was also very good to me, I couldn't bear it, and I also gave my husband a chance, but after getting married, my husband and I moved out to live, and I didn't live with my in-laws, and I didn't want to live with her, otherwise there would definitely be no good life.
My mother-in-law has always wanted to come to us, but I resolutely do not let her come, do not want to see her, usually when the holidays, I will not go back, when I see her, just like strangers, call an aunt, the second year after marriage, I am also pregnant, pregnant, especially uncomfortable, eat bad sleep is not good, but no matter how uncomfortable it is, I do not let my mother-in-law to take care of me, she wants to come, I do not let her come, when I gave birth to my son, my mother-in-law finally knew that she did wrong, and apologized to me, Hopefully I can give her a chance to correct it, but she gave me insults that I can't forgive in my life.
To blame is to blame her, if it is not her, I will not be so angry, now want me to forgive her, I just ignore her, after the birth of the child, I do not let her come to see my son a glance, she wants to see, no matter what she says, the husband begged me is useless, I said, will not let her see is not allowed to see, the child I myself to bring, I do not ask her, in the pain and tired, I myself boiled, I am also willing.
In the past ten years, she wanted to meet her grandson countless times, and she wanted to apologize to me, she always said that she was sorry for me, and hoped that I could give her a chance, at that time, if it were not for the fact that my husband knelt down to me, I really did not want her to see my son, I just wanted to show her fiercely, otherwise she thought I was a bully.
I watched my husband kneel down to me, I promised him, to show my son to my mother-in-law, I took my son back to my hometown, ten years, I came back for the first time, when I came back, I saw that my mother-in-law was already old and white hair was very much, I called her an aunt, she was tearful, especially when she saw my son, I wanted to hug my son, but my son refused, the mother-in-law said: "Grandson, quickly call a grandmother, grandma give you candy."
The mother-in-law thought that the grandson would call him grandma, but let her down, my son directly came to a "old woman", the mother-in-law immediately cried, crying loudly: "Just because of the 6 yuan change fee, the daughter-in-law called me an aunt for ten years, ten years have passed, the grandson directly called me an old woman, it is too difficult", I looked at the mother-in-law All this, I did not feel pity at all, but I just want to say that all this is deserved, self-pleading.
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In other words, can you accept such a mother-in-law? You'd think the heroine did that, right? Don't let your son see your mother-in-law, welcome to comment on your valuable opinions.