On a beautiful and gentle night, Su Wenyun and Fang Hong gradually strolled under the moonlight, Su Wenyun was emotional for a moment, and made a bold move to let Fang Hong gradually kiss her.
Although at that time, Fang Hongwei was in love with Tang Xiaofu and knew that he should refuse, but in the end he still kissed it, and even involuntarily said a very ambiguous sentence, "The moon lured me to commit an unforgivable sin."
Su Wenyun looked at the tender moonlight, his heart was full of happiness, and his eyes were full of the posture of a little woman in love, but Fang Hong gradually called the forgetting at that moment "all the disasters caused by the moon".
When I saw this paragraph before, I always felt that Su Wenyun took the initiative to seduce Fang Hongwei, and sat down to make Sure that Mr. Qian Zhongshu set up a "vain and contrived, like men to revolve around her", and now look at this paragraph, I just want to say that Fang Hongyi is cowardly and does not dare to refuse is false, and the proper scumbag is real.
01 Knowing that Su Wenlu gave him the treatment of being a husband, he did not refuse
Su Wenyi should be regarded as an older elite leftover woman in modern times, and Fang Hongzhi was originally a college classmate, but at that time, Su Wenyi had a high vision, bent on staying in the Ocean, and he was always disgusted with the students of the university, thinking that they had no future, so Fang Hongzhi never entered her eyes.
After returning to China after completing his studies, Su Wenyun, who was holding the title of "female doctor", was cold in the high place, and no one dared to get close, at this time Su Wenyun began to pay attention to Fang Hongwei, thinking that his family lineage was not bad, and there was no shortage of money, Su Wenyun had the heart to achieve a marriage.
Later, seeing that he and Miss Bao were fighting fiercely, Su Wenyun temporarily rested this layer of thought, until Miss Bao got off the boat, and the two had a chance to get along again.
They went shopping together, ate, and went to the theater to watch the play, although the two did not talk about love, but like a pair of intimate male and female friends, Fang Hongzhi could even see:
Miss Su's accidental behavior seems to have a more profound and long-standing relationship with him than marriage proposal, engagement, and new marriage, and her blandness makes Hong gradually suspicious, feeling that this is the super-warm stability of love, as if the ocean waves after the hurricane are calm, and there is a surging and churning force lurking underneath at any time.
Fang Hongzhi's heart for Su Wenyun's initiative to show kindness is like a mirror, and even knows that Su Wenyun's interaction with him is by no means an ordinary boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, but to develop him as a fiancé, which makes Fang Hongzhi afraid and afraid, but he understands in his heart that he and she are two parallel straight lines, no matter how close the two are, there will be no possibility of union.
Knowing that the other party loves himself and even wants to continue to develop, Fang Hongzhi not only did not refuse, but even accepted it calmly, and also enjoyed the rights given by the husband of the other party.
Hand towels, socks, buttons, are the wife's small obligations to her husband, why do you enjoy these rights, enjoy the rights of your husband, of course, it is her husband, otherwise why is she willing to fulfill these obligations....... He knew that Miss Su's service was not easy to appreciate casually, and every time she nailed a button or made a hole, he added a point of responsibility to propose to her in his conscience.
Don't say that in the old times, even if it is put into modern times, a girl to a boy to wash clothes, sewing socks buttons should also be regarded as a more intimate relationship to do, especially the old handkerchief, should be no less than modern underwear, is a more private intimate thing, if it is not a relationship to a certain extent, should not accept a member of the opposite sex to wash their hands.
Su Wenyun's affection is self-evident, but Fang Hongwei's attitude is ambiguous, while sincerely resisting in his heart, but on the surface he accepts everything according to the order, completely giving Su Wenyun a wrong hint and feeling that this relationship is developable.
Therefore, when he met his brother, Su Wenxun generously introduced Fang Hongxian in a way that "the family approved to be an alternate son-in-law".
Fang Hong gradually panicked, only when they arrived in Shanghai, the two parted ways, there would be no chance of such a close in the future, and the danger could be reduced.
Fang Hongwei's mentality is a real scumbag essence, saying that the good point is "I am a good person who does not know how to reject others", in fact, under the banner of an "honest person", blatantly playing ambiguous with the girl, there is a kind of justice that "this is the person's own initiative to paste, and it is not me who cheats her feelings", but it is actually a down-to-earth hypocrite.
02 For Su Wenyun's obvious show of love, do not take the initiative
After the two parted ways, there would have been no intersection, if Fang Hong gradually did not take the initiative to find Su Wenlin, it might not become Su Wenyun's gun to stimulate Zhao Xinlin.
But Fang Hongwei decided to visit Su Wenyun because the lack of a girlfriend was too boring, and the reason he found for himself was "I promised to go to see her, why not go once?" I know that I may be troublesome from now on, but life is too boring, and the ready-made girlfriend is too lacking, just like people who can't sleep, can't care about the harm of sleeping pills, first try to find the comfort in front of you."
Pay attention to see, Fang Hong gradually went to see Su Wenyun in the spirit of "the comfort in front of him", that is, he knew in his heart what kind of consequences would occur after seeing Su Wenyun, but in order to enjoy the feeling of being pursued by women, he chose to go to see her again.
You must know that before the breakup, when he developed Su Wenfeng as a "fiancé", his feelings were "creepy", he wanted to stay away from her as soon as possible, and now he was bored, but he remembered her good again.
Like those who have something to avoid you, bored to think that you are a spare tire scumbag.
After Su Wenyun learned from the newspaper that he had a fiancée, she was extremely indifferent to his arrival, which showed that although everyone said that she was vain, she was not without a bottom line, and her pride did not allow her to show favor to a person who already had a family.
But after learning that her fiancée had died, she immediately changed her attitude towards him, and even deliberately provoked his struggle with Zhao Xinlin in order to stimulate him.
She likes Zhao Fang and the two of them to fight and rob themselves, but she is worried that the battle is too fierce, and she will divide the victory and defeat in an instant, there is only one person left in the two, and her side is not lively, she is more worried about the defeat of Fang Hongwei, she wants to borrow Zhao Xinlin to stimulate Fang Hongwei's courage.
I have to say that Su Wenyun has her vanity as a woman, which should be a kind of careful machine that most little girls will have, does not mean that she is "bad", for Fang Hong's ambiguous, if the attitude of leaving, she wants to get an accurate response, wants to understand his true intentions, wants to see if he will be jealous in the face of men pursuing her? Will you be angry? Will you question her like a couple in love?
Isn't this the trick of some small women that normal men and women play when they are not sure about a relationship, and how can she rise to vanity?
I have always felt that Su Wenyun is a brave and intelligent woman, in the face of the people she likes, she has the courage to dare to love and hate to chase, but she does not understand love, so she used some seemingly clumsy, but actually belongs to the means of a small woman in love.
Compared with Fang Hongwei's attitude of not showing his heart, not rejecting your kindness, and not taking the initiative to pursue, Su Wenyun at least made her intentions clear.
I have to say that Fang Hong gradually understood her "plot" and vanity, and also understood her implicit confession and overtures, but still bore all her affection.
03 After kissing Su Wenyun, he turned his head and wrote her a rejection letter, not responsible
Fang Hong gradually resisted Su Wenyi's heart, and even had some panic about her initiative, because Su Wenyun's good feelings for him had never been hidden, and he knew that he would not accept her and could not marry her, but he still calmly accepted the treatment she gave to the "boyfriend".
He even accepted her invitations again and again, and even had some similarities to "shaking hands" and saying some intimate words, so that Su Wenyun had always confidently believed that he was affectionate to her.
But Fang Hongwei's psychological description at that time was very wonderful, after shaking Su Wenyun's hand, he felt that "he was too soft-hearted, he would cut off some in the future, don't make it true", and felt very remorseful for this;
When using Su Wenyun as a pretext to invite Tang Xiaofu to dinner, after being indifferently muttered by Su Wenyun, it was described in the original work:
He felt that she was too pitiful, and he felt that she was tricky, that he had softened his heart, that she should not be so easily hurt, that she should stay still and not cry pain. ”
It means that she should be hurt by him, who let herself be attached to love him, be good to him, and put on a wounded look, forcing him to be soft and try to pretend to love her and coax her.
What a grandiose reason, there is a kind of I don't want to love her, he has to force me to rush up and paste me, I can't bear to obey, but I am a "chaste martyr" of the righteousness of awe.
Especially in the moonlight kissed Su Wenyun this section, it made people bloody, at that time he had already fought with Tang Xiaofu fiercely, but still kissed her at Su Wenyun's request, after kissing him, he was afraid that Su Wenyun would propose to him to get engaged, so he offered to leave on the grounds that "the moon lured me to commit an unforgivable crime".
At this time, Su Wenyun has long lost her usual shrewdness and arrogance, and only has a love brain that is immersed in a honeypot, thinking that he proposed to leave because "his emotional impulses are at stake, and he wants to lose his autonomy", so she does not dare to keep him, leaving only the trembling and happy beating heart in the night.
After pulling his hand, sweet words also said, hugged, kissed, and did all the things that lovers should do, Fang Hong gradually felt that it was time to have a showdown with Su Wenyun, so he wrote a sincere letter of refusal to Su Wenyun overnight.
So Su Wenyun told Tang Xiaofu about his fiancée and his father-in-law's sponsorship to study abroad, his sexual encounter with Miss Bao on the boat, and his ambiguity with her.
Tang Xiaofu is not a fool, she does not care whether he is married, Fang Hongwei still thinks that "Su Wenyun must add oil and vinegar to say that he seduced her and kissed her, and when the time comes, he is ready to refute it according to the truth", but Tang Xiaofu only grabbed a key question: "I don't know if you have been in love outside for several years, but you are on the ship back to China, you have a miss Bao, you have to be too good to leave, right", only this sentence, let Fang Hong gradually be dumbfounded.
Seeing this, I have to say that he should!
04 Su Wenyun broke up him and Tang Xiaofu, and he was not wronged at all
Su Wenyun broke up him and Tang Xiaofu, not wronged at all, his obvious non-rejection of the scumbag behavior of not taking the initiative and not being responsible, not to mention that Su Wenyun and Tang Xiaofu are cousins, just being played by Fang Hong as a fool, Su Wenyun, who has always been arrogant and conceited, can endure the strange, put any modern woman, this is also a proper scumbag.
A few years ago, Wu Xiubo once talked about the "three noes" principle of his friendship in a variety show and was hotly discussed as "too bad".
The ambiguous relationship of "not taking the initiative, not rejecting, not being responsible" means that you can not only meet your own emotional needs, but also enjoy the satisfaction and pleasure of intimate relationships, and you can not take the risk of determining the relationship.
So in the end, Wu Xiubo set himself on fire and got off the stage, and Fang Hong gradually stole the chicken and did not become an anti-erosion rice, offended Su Wenyi, and lost Tang Xiaofu.
Finally, I also advise those "three noes" personnel who "don't know how to refuse" to play with people less in the name of "good people", and sooner or later it will be your turn, after all, the heavens are good reincarnation, and the heavens have spared no one.
I also hope that women who are as smart as Su Wenyi can have more reason when they encounter love, and don't be fools in the eyes of others and don't know themselves.