"Hope for the son to become a dragon, hope for a daughter to become a phoenix" has been the common wish of every parent since ancient times, how to make the children into a dragon into a phoenix has always bothered parents, and the debate around how to educate their children has never stopped.
The debate has not reached a consensus, and the term "chicken baby" that entered the public eye last year because of the TV series "Little Shed" has become the norm for most parents and children.
It is true that "chicken baby" is not a new term that exists now, and He Liesheng, who brought "eagle education" into the public eye ten years ago, is definitely the forerunner of "chicken baby", so what is the current situation of his son, He Yide, who was known as a prodigy in Jiangsu at that time?
Do not succumb to fate, and train a healthy son with rigorous training
In February 2008, He Yide fell to the ground in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province.
The arrival of a new life should have been a very happy thing, but his birth made the He family mixed.
Due to the premature birth of 2 months, the body's various organs are not fully developed, especially the brain is accompanied by a variety of complications such as low protein and cerebral edema, the doctor deduced that He Yide would be a child with cerebral palsy, and let them make some psychological preparations for the family.
For He Liesheng, the father of He Liesheng, who had been pregnant for many years and had a son at the age of 40, this result was unacceptable to him.
Unwilling to bow to fate, He Liesheng sought medical advice from many sources, and after consulting professional advice, He Yide formulated an almost rigorous rehabilitation training plan and strictly implemented it.
Because swimming can exercise limb coordination ability and promote brain development, He Yide, who is not yet one year old, has to swim training every day, not only the swimming time is slowly extended from the first 10 minutes to 20 minutes, 1 hour, 8 hours, the water temperature is also slowly reduced from the appropriate temperature of the human body to 24 degrees, borrowing cold water to stimulate the development of the brain.
Early training was not smooth sailing, young and weak children could not adapt to such high-intensity training, crying and disobedience is commonplace, and swimming in cold water, diarrhea and other situations also occur from time to time.
The family could not understand He Liesheng's crazy behavior, and secretly hid the portable pool for training.
But He Liesheng seemed to have an iron heart, and he even stopped his work and devoted himself to the training of children.
Unexpectedly, He Yide's physical indicators slowly tended to normal in high-intensity training, which made the doctors marvel.
Although the training process was cruel and arduous, if the result can restore the child's health, then no amount of hard work is worth it, He Liesheng is greatly encouraged, and the family has no reason to oppose.
Flying a plane at the age of 5, crossing the "Sea of Death" at the age of 7, the prodigy first appeared
With successful experience, He Liesheng's training of He Yide became more and more radical.
From the age of 1, when most children were toddlers or even could not walk, He Liesheng took He Yide on foot.
When he was 2 years old, He Liesheng took He Yide to climb the Purple Mountain in Nanjing, and He Yide hiked to the top of the mountain, resting for a while when he was tired, without any assistance from his father.
But what caused controversy about He Yide was a video running naked in the snow.
In Chinese New Year's Eve 2012, 3-year-old He Yide was wearing only sneakers and underwear, running naked on the streets of Minus 13 degrees in New York.
The morning after the snow was a white snow, the street was empty, quiet and boundless, He Yide's whole body was frozen red, crying and crying for his father to hug, but the father who took the photograph in front of him was indifferent, just shouting to cheer up.
The video attracted more than 200,000 comments in just two or three days, and nearly 80% of the comments were berating He Father's cold-blooded ruthlessness:
"Just watched the child's naked running video, it was heartbreaking to die! Because I also have children who are about the same age. I know you love children and have your own set of methods and principles. But you should not do this kind of extreme training in the future. There are countless ways to train the will and exercise the body, even if you give him less clothing can be understood, you want him to laugh when he is unbearable, and the way he laughs makes people die of pain. ”
"Eagle Dad trains his 4-year-old son to run naked in the snow, isn't this abuse?" The child is so small, in the growth of the mind, is this so-called father not afraid to teach his own indifference to the child? Still filming it? Is it for hype? If you really exercise, you have the ability to run together with your father and son, and you are still not sure how tightly you are wrapped. ”
In the face of the accusations of the whole network, He Liesheng was unconvinced: "Naked cold education is commonplace in Japan and South Korea and other countries, why are we so sideways?" ”
He hoped that the child would not become the flowers of the greenhouse, and would not become the "little emperor" and "strawberry family" of a family of six.
"Eagle education" is still continuing, and what is different from the past is that the popularity of "naked running brothers" has made He Yide's every move be paid attention to by the media and has become a regular visitor to the newspaper network:
At the age of 4, he won a good result in the international OP class regatta and is expected to break the Guinness World Record for the smallest participant in this event;
The 5-year-old flew around the Beijing Wildlife Park, creating a new world record, although there was a little assistance from the coach in the process, but the whole process was basically He Yide flying alone, and the flight performance was also highly affirmed by the coach;
At the age of 6, he published his autobiography "I Am a "Naked Running Brother" with the encouragement of his father, totaling 100,000 words. This autobiography has been called "the youngest autobiography of an author in the world";
At the age of 7, he crossed Lop Nur three times in Xinjiang's "Sea of Death". For the sport of crossing the "Sea of Death", even if only once, it is an extremely difficult achievement for most adults to achieve;
At the age of 8, he was admitted to Nanjing University through self-examination, majored in sales management; at the age of 9, he won three championships in the Beijing Robot Competition; at the age of 10, he passed 20 self-study examination courses in one year; and graduated from Nanjing University at the age of 11...
Appearing on the TV screen at the age of 12, his amazing resume has caused controversy
In 2020, He Yide successively appeared on the stage of jiangsu satellite TV's two ace variety shows, namely "The Strongest Brain" and "One Stop to the End".
The influence of popular TV media programs is enormous, and He Yide's amazing resume quickly rushed to the hot search, causing a wider discussion.
At the scene of the "Strongest Brain" competition where school bullies gathered, He Yide, who looked like a primary school student, was particularly eye-catching, as a minor player, his age experience with the on-site opponent was very different, but his performance was not inferior.
In the "Fibonacci Spiral Tree" competition, He Yide won the third place.
In the preparation room before the "Fibonacci Spiral Tree" challenge began, the other contestants were exchanging ideas for solving the problem, while He Yide was silently studying the model at hand.
This attracted the attention of the guests in the observation room, and Wang Zulan bluntly said that this child was not simple.
At the beginning of the challenge, each contestant placed in front of a Fibonacci spiral tree with similar faces on both sides, and they need to find the two faces corresponding to their Fibonacci spiral trees in the massive number of faces on the spot.
This challenge seems simple, but in fact, the key information provided to the contestants to solve the problem is almost "fragmented", and the massive number of faces on the scene will also form a huge interference item, it is not simple!
Zhang Xianyue from Tsinghua University and Wang Yuxuan from Peking University took the lead in completing the challenge, and He Yide then entered his own answer and pressed the confirmation button.
Live broadcast of "Third Place He Yide".
He succeeded in his challenge, taking only 4 minutes and 11 seconds! Wang Zulan in the observation room stood up excitedly and cheered loudly!
He Yide successfully advanced to the upper circle, and in the post-match interview, the host asked him why he was preparing alone, and whether he had already made a bamboo chest.
He Yide replied with a smile: "They are too crowded there, so I didn't go in." ”
On the stage of "One Stop to the End", He Yide, alias "Thief of Years", was selected by Wang Qiwei and participated in the final battle for the championship and runner-up.
When He Yide introduced himself and slowly said that he had been living in his resume since the age of 1, Wang Rose said that she regretted it.
He Father He Liesheng also came to the scene of the program on the same day, as a veteran player of "One Stop to the End", He Father was invited to the stage to cheer for his son, he told the transformation of He Yide from a child with cerebral palsy to a 12-year-old graduate of Nanda University.
The past of father and son working together made Wang Rose almost cry, and she choked up and said:
"I spent a whole year as a newborn in NICU, and that was a year when I was in pain and happiness, but because of this, I really, very much admired you, as a father, as the backbone of this family, you are really very, very remarkable." 」
Then the competition officially began, and the questions of "One Stop to the End" covered a wide range of topics, but these problems did not bother the two players, and finally after several rounds of competition, He Yide lost.
After the broadcast of the two programs, the brilliant resume that did not match the age made the audience deeply remember He Yide, and at the same time, his father once again fell into the storm of public opinion:
"One-year-old runaway? I'm afraid it's not to take it away, if it's true that I think this parent is sick, I still think that children grow up slowly at the right time, so it's really not necessary to engage in these extreme sports."
"It's just a specialty of Nanjing University, and I have the ability to test qingbei."
People with hearts also dug up the old news of Eagle Father He Liesheng:
In May 2018, the "Eagle Father Public School" founded by He Liesheng was ordered to rectify during a multi-departmental joint raid in Nanjing, because it did not have the qualification to run the school.
Eagle Dad Public School was founded in 2016 by Eagle Dad He Liesheng under the banner of He Yide's prodigy, and the original intention of this school was to establish a private school for talented children who used Ho Yi Tak as an example.
But in reality, this is not a training camp for gifted children, but more like an educational place for the correction of behavior corrections for troubled teenagers.
From some of the internal articles and materials that have flowed out, it can be seen that "Eagle Daddy Public School" is a place that follows the law of survival of the fittest:
The daily class schedule is arranged to a full schedule, washing, dating, brunch, bedtime are all listed one by one, and the specific duration is limited.
In order to cultivate children's obedience, at lunchtime, children need to perform the sign language dance "Thank You" before lunch, followed by the recitation of thanksgiving words, "Disciple Rules" and "Tao Te Ching".
The most important embodiment of the law of the jungle in "Eagle Daddy Public School" is the "Star Coin".
Star coin is the circulation currency in the public school, all activities in the school must be charged, such as breakfast 2 star coins, lunch and dinner 3 star coins, each class to charge 1 star coin, if the performance is good can be taken back after class, if you make a mistake will be fined, the money will run out of bankruptcy, even the class can not be attended, you need to work to make money.
The winners in the school, how to be dede, often have more surpluses, but most students are often quickly fined "star coins" and can't even eat.
After two years, He Liesheng did not make any rectification of the "Eagle Father Public School", but continued to use his son to market himself as an "eagle education".
In the face of public opinion, He Yide defended his father on Weibo:
"Thank you uncle and aunt, my brothers and sisters care about me, in fact, I have no achievements, let alone achievements." Since I was a child, my father has been strict with me and has taken an unusual path, thank you. ”
Eagle father He Liesheng is even more bold, to send He Yide to the top international schools before the age of 15, vowing to carry out "eagle education" to the end.
The huge heat brought by the debut of He Yide's screen in 2020 has now slowly dissipated.
Today, He Yide has turned to a low-key daily life.
In 2021, He Yide and his father selected a school district house in Nanjing's South West Lane, and at the same time, he was also making a final sprint to pursue a master's and doctoral degree in business administration.
He Liesheng trained a child with cerebral palsy into a normal child or even a prodigy through his own educational methods, which is an admirable feat, and he is successful.
However, judging from the failure of "Eagle Daddy Public School" and the large number of negative public opinions that will arise whenever He Yide's deeds are exposed to the public, this kind of education method is undoubtedly too radical and not universal.
Teaching according to aptitude has always been the core of education, and although the small horse-drawn cart can be pulled, the hidden dangers in it are unknown.
The release of the national double reduction policy can also be seen that the state does not advocate the increasingly fierce chicken baby trend and tuition culture, and striving to find a balance between learning and play is the essence and meaning of education.