Barclays wrote in "The Path of Flowers":
"There are three indispensable factors in a happy life: one is hope, the other is to have something to do, and the third is to be able to love people."
Life is given meaning by love, and it is love that fills our spiritual world, thus becoming radiant, humble, and alive.
No matter how many problems life gives, as long as there is love in the heart, you can find a meaning of existence in the state of hope.
Just like Tao Xinran.
Recently, actor Tao Xinran posted an article for Sun Liqingsheng through social platforms:
"Happy Birthday, dear couple, our 11 years, thank you for appearing in my life, and wish you peace, health, and joy." Netizens sighed: "Ling Rong and Huan Huan, this life to be a true sister!" ”
Rare sisterhood, not easy to grow up.
11 years after the broadcast of "The Biography of Zhen Huan", the lives of the two important protagonists are also diametrically opposed.
Sun Li is still the big heroine who has opened and hung, acted in many fire plays, her acting skills and career have ushered in new heights, and her life has blossomed;
And Tao Xinran, still a transparent person in the entertainment industry, has basically no topic except for necessary publicity and activities.
Of course, this is also related to her personality.
In the entertainment industry, Tao Xinran is an "atypical female star", and when everyone is crazy to create topics and want to become the top stream, Tao Xinran has never participated in any internal volume.
She doesn't deliberately manage people, nor does she care to please anyone, she puts aside useless social networking and focuses on her own world, growing vegetables, calligraphy, raising children, running a family, and being comfortable.
In the competitive entertainment circle, Tao Xinran does not belong to the type that amazes everyone as soon as she appears, but after careful tasting, she has an indifferent temperament that has lasted for a long time.
In 1985, Tao Xinran was born in a family of teachers, and her parents deliberately let her learn dance in order to cultivate the literary and artistic atmosphere of her daughter.
This study is 11 years.
When Tao Xinran really returned from school and had a job in the literary troupe, she liked to perform, so she abandoned dancing and acting.
In the important choices of life, Tao Xinran, who has always been weak, is firm and powerful, and under the gentle appearance, he dares to fight and dare to break through.
After graduating from the drama school, Tao Xinran entered the entertainment circle, crawled and rolled for 6 years, and successively got some film and television role opportunities, but was not well known to the audience.
Until 2006, the preparation of "The Biography of Zhen Huan" gave her the opportunity to become famous.
In this drama, Tao Xinran plays a woman with low self-esteem and sensitivity, delicate mind and viciousness. Her bewildered eyes, her cautious state, played the essence of this role.
Finally, Tao Xin was on fire.
After other actors became popular, they all went with the flow and fought for more resources, but An Lingrong chose to marry and have a daughter with her boyfriend who had run for 8 years at this time.
An Lingrong's husband is He Jianze, who was also an actor in the early days, and has a good performance in "Ink Attack", "The Legend of Mulan" and "The Dream Life of Dagen".
His appearance is outstanding and his acting skills are commendable, but somehow, he has been tepid.
In 2007, while singing with friends, Tao Xinran and He Jianze met, and the two fell in love at first sight, with similar personalities.
Initially friends, they later upgraded to lovers and began a long love run.
This run, that's 8 years.
The reason why it dragged on for 8 years was because An Lingrong never gave He Jianze the opportunity to propose.
Because they have been together for a long time, the two know each other very well, and there is no secret to speak of, so every time He Jianze quietly prepares for the marriage proposal ceremony and wants to surprise Tao Xinran, she can always find and debunk.
Debunked several times, the marriage between the two was repeatedly delayed.
Finally, in 2014, the opportunity came, when Tao Xinran was busy challenging a new play, which gave He Jianze the opportunity to prepare for the marriage proposal ceremony.
He Jianze quietly prepared, carefully arranged, and in a press conference, handed over the ring, sent a bouquet, and made a promise that the love was stronger than Jinjian.
Although it had been expected, when that day really came, Tao Xinran was surprised and happy, and the tears of emotion flowed uncontrollably.
After 8 years of love running, it was finally completed in front of everyone at that moment.
Two months after the proposal, the two happily held the wedding, the bride was smiling like a flower, and the groom was full of love.
After marriage, the two stopped their acting careers one after another, He Jianze changed his career to devote himself to other work, and Tao Xinran was at ease to prepare for pregnancy and childbirth.
In 2016, Tao Xinran's daughter was born, and she happily shared her joy with fans, but she was unexpectedly insulted by a netizen, because An Lingrong scolded her daughter for not having a good ending.
Tao Xinran, who has always ignored netizens, was angry for the first time, which was not an angry look, but the instinct of a mother to protect her daughter.
Tao Xinran in life is a woman who combines gentleness and intellectuality, she is an acute child, but she met a chronic husband.
The two are anxious and slow, often mixing mouths, and tolerate each other;
She is a person who has lost everything and has no heart and no lungs, and her husband is careful and thoughtful, once, she forgot her bag in the car for three days, or her husband helped her find it.
She is a strong person, but for this love, she took the initiative to make three chapters of the law and talked about a rational love.
She does not have the brightness and delicacy of other actresses, but she has the simplest happiness of ordinary women.
Love runs for 8 years, marries for 6 years and has a daughter, and in the time of 14 years of love, everything in the world is changing, only Tao Xinran's love has lasted for a long time.
Today, Tao Xinran has returned to her acting career, and the TV series she starred in,"Growing Up With You", let the audience see a new her.
Perhaps, she is not as high-profile as other actresses, but the way she tries to live seriously interprets the best way for a woman to live.
The writer Lu Sihao once said:
"The farther you go, the more you like gentle people. Gentleness is the introverted fighting spirit, the tolerance of the bad parts of the world, not complaining and hiding attitudes in action. ”
Deeply.
Compared with the anxiety of quick success, cherishing every day, slow life is also an attitude, and the scenery of life is not only reflected in the career, but also in the family;
It is easier to achieve happiness than to complain and anxious, casual and gentle women.
In the entertainment industry, Tao Xinran is not the most famous, but he is unique.
She is focused on herself, on her emotions, on her family and her children, on everything she loves.
Because of this, she has her own personality, independent and optimistic, sober and simple.
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