When a person is over sixty, he must learn the following ways of enrichment

01

A Zen master asked his disciple, "What if there is a piece of land that needs to be cleared of weeds?" ”

A disciple said, "Just use a hoe to eradicate it." ”

Another disciple said, "Burn it with fire and uproot it." ”

The Zen master said, "Let's do it our own way." ”

After a year, the disciples found that there were still weeds in the land they managed, and only the land managed by the Zen master did not have a single weed—only huang Chengcheng's rice on it.

As the saying goes, "One thing drops one thing." ”

When the rice grows, the weeds disappear; when the mind brightens, there is no dark side in life; there is more wisdom; there is less trouble; there is more time to walk, less time to meditate; more smiles on the face, and the melancholy disappears...

When a person is young, in order to live, he has to put away his joys and sorrows, endure his temper to work, and after the age of sixty, he should be himself again, tear off all kinds of disguises, and enjoy the fruits of hard work.

We must understand that enriching ourselves is not to spend money desperately, but to understand the principle of one thing and the other, to use beautiful things to restrain ugly things, and to make yourself slowly grow old and better.

02

Kindness to cultivate virtue: The more good deeds are done, the less hatred there is.

I have seen such a sentence: "It is not the old man who has become bad, it is the bad man who has become old." ”

Although it is a ridiculous sentence, it is a wake-up call for the elderly. Old people who lack morality, wherever they go, are repulsive.

The elderly need to be respected by others, and they must first be "self-respecting and self-loving".

I have seen a story about a young man named Chan Hai, who, in a fit of rage, ran into a local official, and he blamed himself very much for it. After that, he lived in seclusion in a very remote mountain village to practice.

When he found out that the villagers were going to the market and had to climb over a big mountain, he had the idea of digging a tunnel. Year after year passed, Zen Hai grew older, but still did not give up.

The official's son finds Chanhai and threatens to avenge his father.

Chan Hai said, "It's okay to take revenge, but be sure to wait until I dig the tunnel through." ”

When the tunnel was successful, the villagers beat gongs and drums to celebrate and sing the praises of Zen Hai's good deeds. The official's son was deeply moved, and shook Chan Hai's hand and said, "From now on, you are my benefactor." ”

No matter what mistakes a person has made, what kind of festivals he has when interacting with people, as long as you insist on being kind, then all your grievances can be resolved. As the saying goes, repay grievances with virtue, and merit is immeasurable.

When a person reaches sixty, it is advisable for the wronged family to dissolve the knot, and the hatred is dissolved, and the soul is relaxed.

03

Learning to nourish the gods: When there is more humility and seeking advice, there will be less gossip.

In life, we can often see that a large group of elderly people sit around a group, chat about some gossip news, and judge others, which seems to be boring.

There are also some old people who do nothing every day, and wherever they go, they are mentally depressed, and they say something inappropriate as soon as they open their mouths, which is annoying.

What should the old man say? Do what? How to exert the residual heat? There is one principle to grasp – help, but not to add to the chaos.

Gorky said, "The more you read, the stronger and braver your spirit becomes." ”

The old man who really knows how to enrich himself will study hard and always make progress with the times. He kept his posture low, often communicated with studious people, and as soon as he opened his mouth to chat, he could say a lot of truth.

Less gossip, more insight, the old man's mental outlook will be improved, and it will be easier to be accepted by society.

04

Be diligent in health: the more time you work, the less the pain of the body.

My cousin Lao Zhang, after retirement, often went to the countryside to visit relatives and friends.

One autumn, Lao Zhang went to a cousin's house as a guest, and after a greeting. My cousin said: "I'm very sorry, our family has been cutting rice these days, and we don't have time to entertain guests. ”

Lao Zhang suddenly understood that not all people will retire, and relatives in the countryside need to rely on farming to provide for the elderly. He rolled up his sleeves and helped his relatives work in the fields.

Since then, Lao Zhang has lived a pastoral life, enjoyed the happiness brought by labor, and his relatives have welcomed him more.

As long as a person still has strength, he must work, and such a way of life is valuable.

Health is really not to eat a lot of health care products, nor to run desperately, but to do some "health things". Grasping the intensity of labor and living a regular life is to nourish the body naturally.

05

Love to support the family: the more time to hold hands, the less family conflicts.

Actor Wang Mingquan and her husband Luo Jiaying are both over sixty or seventy years old, but when they travel, they still hold hands. Wang Mingquan also affectionately nicknamed her husband "Brother Jiaying", just like young people in love, which is enviable.

Netizens commented: "This is, I drag you, you drag me." ”

People are old, husband and wife get along, really do not have to turn love into affection, to create some romantic elements.

Children go out to start a business, the old two can not follow, then live their own small life, let the children rest assured, is also a great help.

The more husband and wife hold hands, the less contradictions, and they are reluctant to let go - habit becomes natural.

The old man and his children hold hands and hold hands with their grandchildren, and the happiness of generations of the same church is born spontaneously. A family, no need to worry, holding hands represents reconciliation, love, and support.

Rich family, do not need to desperately spend money, do not need to buy a big house, the key is to be warm and harmonious.

06

There should be two kinds of poverty: poor to the scum, poor to be happy.

There should be two kinds of wealth: squandering money, industriousness and frugality.

True prosperity is to choose the life you want, and then kick out of your life what you don't want, what society rejects.

There is a line in "Saga's Super Grandma": "Everyone should pursue the life they want, other people's opinions are only references, and it is themselves who ultimately make the decision." Moreover, everyone must take responsibility for their own choices. ”

After the age of sixty, a person is an old man, the rest of his life is very expensive, he must have self-respect and self-love, do not live a muddy life, but live a spiritual spirit.

Author: Cloth coarse food.

Follow my words and go into your heart.

The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.