After a woman gets married and has a family, how many people will have the courage to become a full-time housewife without hesitation? Willing to go around the stove and the child's husband?
But any woman with a little enterprising will not be willing to be a full-time housewife. After all, society is very realistic, and economic independence determines the superstructure, especially in a family. Whoever makes more money has the right to speak.
But women are forced to return to the family, but also forced to helpless. After all, not everyone can be willing to give up their work and self, return to the family, and start a life of two o'clock every day. Just for love, for men, women have to sacrifice themselves and complete everyone.
But women make such sacrifices, and when they meet men who understand, women will sacrifice. And when encountering men who do not understand, women will only be sad, and even seek perfection, forcing themselves into a resentful woman.
01, the mother-in-law is not willing to take the child, the woman returns to the family as a housewife
Other people's mother-in-law, sad grandchildren are too late, where will they refuse to take care of grandchildren? But such a mother-in-law, for Luo Qin, is encounterable and unattainable. Because she herself could not meet such a good mother-in-law.
Before getting married, the mother-in-law was enthusiastic about Luo Chenke and asked for warmth. For this reason, as soon as the mother-in-law cried poor, Luo Qin immediately persuaded her parents to voluntarily give up the bride price. But when Luo Qin got married, the mother-in-law found that Luo Qin's parents did not have the dowry of 300,000 yuan as she requested, and her face turned black, and her attitude towards Luo Qin was also much colder.
Luo Qin was aggrieved in her heart, but she had to endure for her husband. Her husband was distressed by her, and every month he gave his salary to Luo Qin for safekeeping. Therefore, even if the mother-in-law often stirs up dissension, the couple's relationship is still as good as ever.
A year after the marriage, Lochen became pregnant and gave birth to a daughter. Before giving birth, Luo Qin and her husband had also asked their mother-in-law for help many times, but they were all rejected. The reason why the mother-in-law refused was simple, that is, she was not in good health, had no experience, and could not take the child.
Luo Qin understands very well that her mother-in-law is a son over a daughter, and she hates that she has a daughter, so she would rather retire in her hometown than work hard. The couple discussed for a long time, and finally Luo Qin offered to resign and return to the family as a housewife.
02, "8.8 yuan a pound of habits, you also dare to buy" mother-in-law reprimanded the daughter-in-law loser
In the first few years with the child, Luo Qin experienced a lot of bittersweet and bittersweet, but fortunately, with her husband's understanding and support, she also slowly survived. Just seeing that the child is about to go to primary school, the mother-in-law is uninvited and takes the initiative to ask Miao to help with the child.
The husband is not good at rejecting his mother's kindness, and Luo Qin is both unexpected and surprised, and when the mother-in-law comes, she can naturally entrust the child to the mother-in-law's care and go out to work by herself. But after her mother-in-law came, Luo Qin found that her idea was too naïve and simple.
The mother-in-law came to take care of her granddaughter in the name, but in fact, she enjoyed the care and service of Luoqin at home, and from time to time she cried with her eldest son, and her husband had no choice but to take money to send her mother-in-law. In this way, the husband has to take at least 3,000 yuan from Luo Qin's hands to his mother-in-law every month.
Although Luo Qin was a little dissatisfied, it was not easy to think of her husband, so she did not make a fuss. Until recently, the weather was hot, and my daughter loved to eat watermelon, and when she saw the unicorn watermelon, she shouted to buy it.
Although Luo Qin also felt that 8.8 yuan a pound of unicorn melon is indeed quite expensive, but thinking that her daughter loves to eat, she had to buy half of it hard, and it cost almost 70 yuan.
When she carried half a watermelon home, the sharp-eyed mother-in-law had already seen it. The mother-in-law aimed at the price, and suddenly her face was ugly, "8.8 yuan a pound of watermelon, you dare to buy, too bad."
03, son: much cheaper than the whole family of the adoptive brother
Luo Qin explained that the child wanted to eat, and she rarely bought such expensive fruits. But the mother-in-law heard that it was bought for the granddaughter, the face was even more gloomy, a handsome piece, eating such an expensive habit is too wasteful, it is better to save more money for my two grandchildren to spend.
The mother-in-law's reprimand made Luo Qin very uncomfortable, and the child was also a little afraid. When the husband got off work, the mother-in-law also made a complaint with the old announcement for the first time, angrily rebuking Luoqin as a housewife, spending a lot of money, and not having half a point of moderation.
The husband did not speak at first, and after asking the child and Lochen, his face was also a little ugly. Seeing that his mother was still there to count the wives and daughters, the husband was a little irritable.
The grievances and heartache suffered by the wife at the beginning made the husband also somewhat unable to help but maintain it: "Mom, the child loves to eat watermelon, buy it, buy it, will not buy many times a year, there is no need to go on the line, even the children are scared to cry." ”
As soon as the mother-in-law heard it, she immediately jumped up: "You really married your daughter-in-law and forgot your mother-in-law, and now that I say a few words about your daughter-in-law's daughter, you accuse me of not being, who are you born to, and who are you kissing?" Don't you know that buying your daughter a watermelon for 70 yuan can make my two grandchildren eat more ribs? ”
The mother-in-law did not mention that the two nephews were fine, and when she mentioned them, her husband became angry and ashamed, "Mom, you prefer sons to daughters, and you don't want to see Luo Qin and my daughter, but you don't have to count them like this." Raising their mother and daughter is much cheaper than adopting my brother's whole family, don't think I don't know, the money you want to take from me every month is fully subsidized to my brother. ”
04, the son sent away the eccentric mother overnight
The mother-in-law did not expect that her little careful thinking was discovered by the eldest son, and her face turned red and white. But she still stubbornly refused to admit it, even if I prefer sons to daughters, what is wrong? You don't have any sons, so you won't allow me to spoil two more grandchildren?
The more the mother-in-law wants to go too far, the more the husband listens and gets angry. In the end, he did not defend himself, directly helped his mother-in-law pack her bags, and sent her away overnight. The mother-in-law was still unwilling to leave, saying that she had to stay, saying that the younger son's family was all counting on her to take money to support her.
Luo Qin did not dare to look at her husband's face, but she was also particularly distressed about him. From childhood to adulthood, the mother-in-law has the courage to be biased towards the little uncle, but the husband, the eldest son, is relatively cold and indifferent. If it were not for the purpose of forcing the eldest son to fulfill his filial piety, perhaps the mother-in-law would not even bother to pretend to bring her grandson.
It's just that the mother-in-law also misestimated her husband's determination this time, regardless of the mother-in-law's crying, the husband directly sent people away, and before leaving, he also directly told the mother-in-law, since you have the ability to raise your brother's family, then after 3,000 yuan per month will be broken, you will follow your brother to the pension.
After that, how the mother-in-law spread her husband's filial piety in front of her hometown and relatives and friends, the husband ignored it. Maybe it is not ignored, but he is also powerless against his parents, after all, the palms of his hands and the backs of his hands are all meat, so that he can't bear to break off the relationship.
Today's Topic:
Do you support Lochen's husband in sending away her eccentric mother-in-law?
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