When someone asks you "How old is it that it's hardest to carry when a child is?" I believe that many parents answer "2 years old." "2-year-old children, entering a variety of developmental sensitivities, gradually have their own independent thoughts, keen on various explorations of unknown things, showing a sticky and noisy appearance, which really makes parents exhausted." However, no matter how hard it is, we must also grit our teeth and urge children to change some bad habits, otherwise it will be more and more difficult in the future.
First, sleep is irregular
Before the age of 2, children basically have no regular sleep. Some children are grandparents with, the elderly always try to find ways to let children sleep for a while, children often sleep for half a day during the day, and fall asleep at eleven or twelve o'clock at night; some children because parents like to stay up late, follow the parents' schedule, and sleep late has become a habit; some children, the time of sleeping every day is not fixed, napping or yes or no, or going to bed early or late.
But after the child is 2 years old, we must start to help the child adjust the routine of work and rest, so that the child can rest better, and after a year, kindergarten can be better adapted. The ideal state is: take a nap for an hour or so at noon, and fall asleep before 9 p.m., so that the child can be in a deep sleep state when the pituitary gland secretes growth hormone at 11-1 p.m., and it is more conducive to high and brain development.
Second, do not like to brush your teeth and wash your face
Although children like beautiful things, they also want to be beautiful and bright. But there are still many children who reject brushing their teeth and washing their faces, especially brushing their teeth, because most 2-year-old children do not rinse their mouths, do not have the ability to brush their teeth independently, it is easy to exclude parents holding toothbrushes in their mouths for half a day, always crying and making noise and unwilling to cooperate.
But after the child is 2 years old, most of the teeth have sprouted, the consequences of not brushing the teeth seriously will directly lead to tooth decay, "toothache is not a disease, pain to kill" will be a great torture for the child; at the same time, tooth decay will also affect the child's face, compared to those "a smile can show a mouthful of white teeth" children, tooth decay will also make the child more less confident, more unwilling to laugh.
Third, do not understand moderation and self-discipline
2-year-old children, full of curiosity about everything, eager to meet their own needs, are very lack of self-control. When he gets the cookies he likes to eat, he doesn't know how to stop eating a few, but he doesn't care to eat until he can't eat; when he goes to the playground to play, he doesn't think that it's late, he has to go home to sleep, and he always needs mom and dad to coax and drag him home.
Children lack self-control, but parents have an unshirkable responsibility. We need to slowly teach children moderation and restraint through various ways of communication, and help children become more self-disciplined. The process is naturally laborious, the child will resist, will cry, will be wronged, but the parents need to firmly implement, do not compromise because of the child's crying, do not allow the child to bargain, and will not change the order.
Fourth, do not like to read
Asking a 2-year-old to enjoy reading is naturally unlikely. However, we should consciously buy more picture books for children, guide children to look at picture books more, and let children better understand some stories and truths of picture books through parent-child reading. Slowly, the child will slowly enjoy reading. Otherwise, if parents do not give and show their children picture books less because their children do not like to read picture books, then future children will definitely be far away from books.
If you want your child to love picture books, the choice of books is very important. Be sure to choose picture books that are suitable for the child's age, interesting, and rich in pictures and texts to attract children more. For example, our family bamboo is also a baby, born to like numbers, when more than one year old, I know how to find numbers to press the elevator, I will buy some mathematical enlightenment picture books for her to see, she insists on reading for a longer time.
The above is the sharing of bamboo mother, I hope it will help you! Let's work together and grow up with our children!