In the variety show "My Family's Girl", Li Liqun's way of educating his children has aroused the resonance and praise of many people.
The audience all agreed that with the addition of Li Liqun, this program has been sublimated from a marriage promotion program to an in-depth talk show.
He said that he did not agree with the practice of the elderly wanting to hold their grandchildren to urge marriage, and that the twenties were the best age for childbearing, but not necessarily a fixed happy age, and there was a great risk of marriage in order to have children.
For emotional problems, he taught his children this: "Don't fall in love with a person because of talent, appearance, and wealth, you can start from this, but you are not the main force in continuing your love life." ”
He brought out his personality and care, believing that this was the most important secret of the two people getting along.
After the program was broadcast, many people praised Li Liqun for his deep understanding of the way of speaking and his thorough life. Not only that, Li Liqun is also a rare good husband and father in the entertainment industry without scandals.
If you really want to talk about a few points, his open-mindedness is honed by experience.
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Li Liqun was born on May 2, 1952 in Hsinchu County, Taiwan, during a time of turmoil in which his family was displaced.
In order to avoid risks, the father and his wife and children lived in a broken temple, but the broken temple could not even guarantee basic shelter from the wind and rain, so the family not only had to bear the pain of hunger, but also bear the wind and the sun.
Until the situation was stable, his father found materials to repair, the living environment was simple, and the sensible Li Liqun realized that his family was not rich.
Therefore, Li Liqun never asked for anything, nor did he ask for anything to eat, and even when he was in elementary school, he took an empty lunch box and filled it with water every lunch.
Sometimes when I see other students eating leftovers, I will help others eat it up, and while eating, I will say: "Don't waste it."
Gradually, the students knew about Li Liqun's family situation and often left meals for him to eat.
Li Liqun saw all this in his eyes and dreamed of supporting a wonton stall in the future, inviting every student in the class to eat a bowl.
It was also that difficult experience that gave Li Liqun a monetary and material pursuit, laying the foundation for his future career development.
Although he was born in Taiwan, Li Liqun's father is from Henan and his mother is from Beijing, so Li Liqun has spoken two dialects since he was a child, and the corresponding Taiwanese dialect is very small.
At that time, Li Liqun often followed his mother to listen to cross-talk Peking Opera, and from an early age, he was exposed to the art of opera, so that Li Liqun opened his wisdom very early, as if he had opened up the second vein of Ren Dou.
Following the adults into the cinema, watching free movies, watching them again and again made him yearn for this form of artistic expression.
However, at that time, the money earned from filming could not support the family, so his father encouraged him to go to the seafarer examination.
Successfully became a seafarer, the stable income of the job was guaranteed, and the family was very happy, but when Li Liqun really entered the industry, he found that the job was boring.
Often adrift at sea and unable to contact his family, day after day, Li Liqun finally developed a rebellious heart, so he told his parents his plans.
Not surprisingly, his parents did not agree with Li Liqun's suggestion, so Li Liqun secretly went to the actor training class of the TV station in 1978 to register without his parents.
Just like Li Liqun himself said, he is the one who eats this bowl of rice.
When the 27-year-old Li Liqun stood in the company's recording studio and improvised the role he founded for him by the screenwriter, he won widespread attention from the audience with "Teratical Love".
Since then, Li Liqun has embarked on the road of showbiz, and since then Li Liqun has treated himself more harshly, and every line and every look must be studied for a long time.
As he obsessively indulges in the study of acting, his chances of fame also creep in.
In 1981, through the recommendation of Deng Yukun, Li Liqun successfully entered the crew of "Qing Su Pity Me I Pity Qing", and won the highest award of Taiwan television "Golden Bell Award".
At this time, Li Liqun understood that long-term starring in TV dramas would consume acting skills, so he began to travel between various Western restaurants, performing talk shows and honing his acting skills.
In addition to the running field, Li Liqun also got to know good teachers and friends and the love of his life.
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At that time, Li Liqun often went to the repertory theater to watch them rehearse plays, and it happened that Li Guoxiu and Lai Shengchuan were planning to shoot a "Picking Stars".
Telling about the children with disabilities and learning about their pre-filming work, Li Liqun was greatly shocked, so the three of them became acquainted, and in 1984, they jointly founded a folk theater troupe, named "Performance Workshop".
At that time, the three often got together to study the table acting method and shooting techniques. One day, as usual, Li Liqun went to Li Guoxiu's house, and as soon as he pushed the door in, he met a girl with coiled hair.
Because the distance is too close to stop, the two will turn sideways through the door, the moment when the four eyes are opposite, Li Liqun's heart can't stop beating wildly, the girl saw Li Liqun looking at herself, she smiled at him slightly, looked back at a smile, Li Liqun could not return to God for a long time.
After the girl walked away, Li Liqun still stood in the same place, and when he met with Li Guoxiu, Li Liqun was impatient to ask who the girl was.
Li Guoxiu replied that it was his sister-in-law's sister-in-law, Lin Liqin, who had studied painting since childhood and was under the door of a Chinese painting master at the age of 20.
Under the guidance of Li Guoxiu, the two married after less than a year of acquaintance, and soon gave birth to their first child.
After marriage, Lin Liqin resigned her job in the university, married and taught her children at home, and many people around her persuaded her in the face of her choice, but Lin Liqin said that she did not look at the wrong person.
It turns out that Lin Liqin did not misread it, not only handing over all the money to his wife, but also discussing big and small matters with his wife and listening to her opinions.
In 1995, because of disagreements with his partners, Li Liqun sold all his shares in the performance workshop to Lai Shengchuan.
After that, Li Liqun chose to go to the mainland to shoot a film, in order to alleviate economic pressure, Li Liqun learned to invest, but he encountered a big economic crisis, not only lost all his money, but also carried a huge debt of 7 million yuan.
Just when Li Liqun's thoughts were gray, his wife comforted him and said let's start over. So he regrouped and began to take on the scene like crazy. Later, when the debt was finally paid off, Li Liqun also began to return to the family, often accompanying his wife to shop and play.
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Li Liqun and his wife had three children, two men and one woman, of which daughter Li Yuanyuan was the youngest and the most pampered.
Seemingly serious on the outside, he is exceptionally tolerant of his daughter, and in life he has become friends with his daughter, and the father and daughter are almost talking.
In the face of his children's future development, Li Liqun rarely interferes, he allows his children to develop freely, and he will help them when they need it.
At first, Li Yuanyuan followed his mother to learn art, and it is well known that art is also a hobby of burning money, but even in the most difficult period, Li Liqun did not stop his interest in children.
And when her life improved, she sent her daughter to the Vancouver Academy of Fine Arts to study.
At that time, her father was her idol, and Li Yuanyuan always hoped that she would become an excellent actor like her father when she grew up.
Therefore, not long after walking on the road of art, Li Liqun wanted to enter the show business circle, inheriting her father's excellent genes, and won the championship in the 2015 "I See You Have Drama" program.
The judges of this show are Zhang Guoguo, Feng Xiaogang, Jackie Chan, and Li Bingbing, and the absolute strength of the lineup makes the awards of this show seem more valuable.
The entry is Li Yuanyuan's original sketch "Grandma", through this competition, it can be seen that Li Yuanyuan's acting talent, but she really involves this field, and she regrets it.
After the game, Li Yuanyuan's excellence was not seen by too many people, but only took several supporting roles, always tepid, for a long time, Li Yuanyuan could not help but compare with his father's excellence, so he no longer took the role, but went abroad to further study and hone his acting skills.
Because he was prevented by his parents when he was young, Li Liqun did not interfere with his daughter's decision, he believed that people always have to choose a path in their lives, and they chose the right path again and again.
However, it was this study trip that made her much criticized afterwards, and even her father was ridiculed for it.
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Li Yuanyuan did not talk about a boyfriend once before going abroad for further study, and was not exposed to his first relationship until he was 30 years old.
The two met in a foreign acting class, and after 3 months of acquaintance, they established a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship because of mutual attraction, and in the words of Li Yuanyuan, the boyfriend was considerate, hardworking, kind and funny, charming and responsible, handsome and honest.
This uses almost all the praise words of praise, all of which reveal Li Yuanyuan's deep love for her boyfriend.
However, on the fourth day of the relationship, because the whole family was going to travel, she was called home to travel with her family, and then because of the epidemic, the two have been in a different place and cannot meet.
On February 14, 2021, Li Yuanyuan posted a photo of himself and her boyfriend. The content of the group photo is that the two people face to face, Li Yuanyuan holds a bouquet of flowers in his arms, and the two smile sweetly.
However, when Li Yuanyuan's relationship was exposed, it was questioned by a number of netizens, and many people expressed great incomprehension about Li Yuanyuan's finding a foreign boyfriend, especially a black boyfriend.
Some people even began to attack Li Liqun's way of educating children, and criticized him.
Perhaps the outside public opinion is too noisy, Li Liqun responded to the netizens: "They have been separated for a while, my daughter's first love, Miao! ”
After all, in the interview in the early years, Li Liqun said that his daughter got along happily with her boyfriend, and for him, her daughter's happiness was the most important.
As for what the last "wonderful" in his words really meant, he did not dare to say more.
For Li Liqun's reply, many netizens said that love is free, happy is good, and some said old Li should be relieved this time, it seems that netizens are also by this.
Today, Li Yuanyuan still often appears in Li Liqun's social accounts, just like when he was a child, but now Li Yuanyuan is 32 years old, and he is no longer the fat little girl at that time.
Li Yuanyuan, who is 1.76 meters tall and has short hair and a large back, is more and more dashing and heroic.
However, Li Yuanyuan has no expectations for marriage for the time being, she said that the love in her parents' lives is indeed very happy, but she does not force marriage.
And Li Liqun's attitude is still "if the daughter is happy", as he said:
"Marriage is a social act, and falling in love is an individual act. Because the child enters the marriage hall, this risk is very large, I hope that every girl can think clearly and then decide how to go in the future. ”
Just like Teacher Li Liqun's recent new drama "Let's Start a Business", the role played by Li Liqun in the play, despite countless winds and rains, parents are always the warmest harbor behind their children.
Since his debut, Li Yuanyuan's every play Li Liqun will watch and will also guide in private. It is believed that in the near future, Li Yuanyuan will also get good results.
And Li Liqun and his wife's love for each other does not know how many people have touched.
"Holding the hand of the son, and the son with the old" after 36 years, from green silk to white hair to support each other, snuggle with each other.
So far, Li Liqun and his wife have to hold hands when crossing the street, and they have to say on the phone every day that I love you.
Later, after the film, Teacher Li Liqun bought a piece of land in the Hsinchu Mountains and lived a leisurely pastoral life with his wife, "The wife is the leader of the family, she has the final say" Li Liqun has never had any scandal since marriage.
I have to say that the marriage of the two people is envious of others.
Li Liqun has been living in Shanghai since coming to the mainland in 1995, and his wife, who is still in Taiwan, quarantined at home during the epidemic this year, sharing his personal life on social accounts every day.
In addition to his down-to-earth lifestyle, he has gained a lot of good popularity, and in addition to this, he often shares funny stories about isolation from his daughter on social media.
Born in a poor family, Li Liqun, through the tempering and lessons of life, has come to this point after a lot of stubborn resistance, and now at the age of 70, he has finally realized his childhood dream and obtained the simplest happiness.