In this materialistic era, it takes a lot of suffering to get a sincere love. Sometimes, it is more necessary to take the initiative to seek your own happiness.
And Liu Yuanyuan and Sha Tong can enter the palace of marriage, and Liu Yuanyuan's bravery has played a very important role.
Nine years ago, Liu Yuanyuan took the initiative to force marriage, so that Sha Tong, who had experienced a failed marriage, rekindled his expectations for married life, and made a vow to Liu Yuanyuan to accompany him to the golden wedding at the wedding.
After marriage, their family of three can live a sweet and sweet life, and it is inseparable from Liu Yuanyuan's painstaking management of marriage and family, and she firmly holds happiness in her own hands.
Fall in love with the young 12-year-old Liu Yuanyuan
Liu Yuanyuan is 12 years younger than Sha Tong, and the first time he met CCTV celebrity Sha Tong was on a CCTV New Year TV series. In the play, Liu Yuanyuan played the female number one, and Sha Tong was just a male N who came to make a cameo, and the two did not have a lot of scenes that needed to be cooperated together.
But sha tong can become a CCTV host for a reason, he is very talkative, and takes the initiative to talk to Liu Yuanyuan when waiting for the play.
He used the TV series played by Liu Yuanyuan as a topic, and the two chatted happily. But this time they met only to get the job done, and did not produce a good feeling, and the two did not even exchange contact information.
The next time they met was at an annual meeting, and this time the two finally exchanged phone numbers and opened the entanglement of fate between the two.
The two began their fate with a hug
The previous relationship allowed Liu Yuanyuan to label Sha Tong as "talkative", but Sha Tong was only an ordinary friend relationship in her heart.
So after a party, Sha Tong offered to send Liu Yuanyuan home, and with a defensive mentality, she got off the car in advance before she arrived at the residence, not wanting to reveal her exact address.
Who expected that this boy, who had only met four times, actually followed Liu Yuanyuan out of the car and took the initiative to ask for a hug.
Before that, Liu Yuanyuan's impression of Sha Tong was not too good, because Sha Tong could speak the Tao and needed to attend many parties to maintain social relations, which made her feel that such a man did not bring a sense of security.
But out of courtesy, Liu Yuanyuan gave Sha Tong a shallow hug. It is this embrace that opens the hearts of the two and opens the fate between them.
Since then, the two have become more connected, talking frequently to talk about their recent situation and their views on things. Sha Tong also unreservedly revealed his heart to Liu Yuanyuan and told his past.
As the two get to know each other in the process of getting along, Liu Yuanyuan finds that Sha Tong is not an unreliable man as she originally thought, on the contrary, he is very humorous and funny, and he is also very reliable and trustworthy.
This 12-year-old man in Liu Yuanyuan has the charm of a mature man, practical and responsible, which makes her open her heart and accept this relationship.
Delay in marrying is forced to marry
The 12-year-old age difference, coupled with Sha Tong's previous divorce, made Liu Yuanyuan's parents initially disagree with the relationship between the two. But the two resisted the pressure and persevered.
And Liu Yuanyuan took Sha Tong back to meet his parents, wanting them to see this man with their own eyes and know that he was not what they thought.
After a meal, Sha Tong "got it done" with Liu Yuanyuan's parents. I thought Sha Tong was a greasy divorced old man, but it turned out to be a mature, stable and experienced good man who would take care of people, and more importantly, Liu Yuanyuan liked him very much. The second elder was therefore very satisfied with the son-in-law and agreed with the feelings of the two.
But the love between the two lasted for three years, during which Sha Tong had no intention of proposing to Liu Yuanyuan, and the previous failed marriage was a blow to Sha Tong, and he did not have the confidence to enter the palace of marriage again.
But Liu Yuanyuan is a very brave girl, and she also wants to have her own family. Therefore, Liu Yuanyuan took the initiative to force Sha Tong to marry and asked him: "Have you ever thought of marrying me, if you just want to play, I will not play with you." ”
This question made Sha Tong suddenly wake up and realize that he needed to make an explanation to Liu Yuanyuan and the feelings of the two people over the past three years. So, they finally went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get their own little red book.
Lovers eventually become dependents
The marriage between the two was forced by Liu Yuanyuan on his own initiative, which was always a regret in Sha Tong's heart, and he believed that marriage should be opened by men to their beloved.
Although the two received the license early, due to pregnancy and body shape, it was not until three years later that the two ushered in a late wedding. In order to conform to Sha Tong's Muslim status, Liu Yuanyuan also thoughtfully designed the wedding in a Muslim style.
In order to make up for the regret in his heart, Sha Tong carefully prepared a marriage proposal ceremony behind Liu Yuanyuan's back at the wedding, he knelt down on one knee and said a belated "marry me" to this brave girl.
Although the wedding and the proposal ceremony came a little late, the sweet smiles of the family of three show that all this is the best arrangement.
Although the marriage was requested by Liu Yuanyuan on his own initiative, the feelings of the two were mutual. Since their marriage, their family of three has been happy and harmonious, and the relationship between Liu Yuanyuan and Sha Tong is also like an old wine, with the passage of time, the older it is, the more mellow it is.
After marriage, Liu Yuanyuan focused on her family and children, but she clearly understood that she loved performance deeply, and she could not give up her life because of her children. So she has also been insisting on her acting career and running her family and career properly.
Liu Yuanyuan has always clearly and clearly understood what she wants, which is probably one of the important reasons why she can have the same relationship with Sha Tong for ten years.
epilogue
The ideal marriage should be like this, running to each other, understanding and tolerance of each other, in order to hold the hand of the son to the white head.
Whether it is forced marriage, or in a busy family, he still chooses not to give up his career.
Liu Yuanyuan respected her own heart in every decision, she has been bravely pursuing what she wants, and thus achieved true happiness. Sometimes, we really need to be brave, take the first step bravely, and reap happiness.