The day after the baby was born, the seven aunts and eight aunts in the family came to a group. Seriously, it is understandable that their kindness is also out of care and love. However, for the mother who has just given birth, this wave of love is too fierce, and it is really a bit overwhelming.
As we all know: when a woman gives birth to a child, it is like closing the ghost door. After giving birth, the body is in a state of extreme weakness. At this time, even I can't take care of myself, where is the energy to take care of the baby, as well as the seven aunts and eight aunts who came to visit?
Therefore, the care of relatives can wait and let the mother rest quietly for a few days. Especially in the first few days, it is more important to leave time for mothers and babies to slowly adapt and recover. Even just lying quietly in bed is conducive to both physical and psychological recovery.
During the confinement period, the mother can only stay at home, because the body is relatively weak at this time, and even a simple walking requires great courage. This process, or hope that those relatives around, easily do not disturb them. In a short period of time, just leave time for the mother.
During confinement, visits are also exquisite, and not everyone can
The first category: people who are getting sick
If you are sick, it is still recommended not to go to see the baby and the mother immediately, which is easy to increase the chance of getting sick. It should be known that the resistance of newborns is particularly fragile, and a little wind and grass movement are easy for them to "be recruited". For new parents, the most feared thing is that the baby is sick, which is simply a kind of suffering.
If you find that the relatives who are visiting the sick are sick, you can know the affection and ask them to leave first. I believe that the relatives who can come to see the mother must be particularly concerned about her and the baby's health, so after knowing the consequences of illness, they are willing to cooperate.
The second category: people with too loud voices
Everyone speaks differently, someone is born with a loud voice, and she can be heard for miles. They are accustomed to this way of speaking, even when visiting newborns, it is difficult to "seek perfection". Originally the baby slept well, heard a loud voice, and was likely to wake up frightened.
The most frightening thing is to be suddenly awakened in sleep, which will really be a "nightmare" for babies who are only a few days old. After falling asleep at night, it is likely to wake up from sleep and then cry non-stop. For both mom and baby, it's a torture.
The third category: people with too low emotional intelligence
The so-called low emotional intelligence is that people who are not very good at talking, and women who believe that they have just given birth to a baby are not very willing to meet such relatives. Because she can't speak, she often says "frightening" things, causing bao mom to be angry and sad.
These people, who are elders, began to chatter and start counting from the moment they stepped into the ward. The saddest thing is that they habitually use their own way of thinking to count others, and the spearhead is directed at Bao Ma, thinking that they are not doing well.
Warm reminder: During the confinement period, for the sake of BaoMa's health and psychological considerations, it is still necessary to prohibit these relatives from visiting. To put it simply, have more understanding of the novice mothers, and don't add to them. Especially those relatives with low emotional intelligence, they still have to keep them away from their mothers.
Regarding confinement, these practical tips should be collected
1. Reasonable use of air conditioning
Since it is a scientific confinement, the air conditioner must be arranged in place, otherwise the high temperature weather in the summer will really make people hot to collapse. During confinement, the air conditioner temperature is controlled between 25 ° and 28 °, and the air outlet is best covered with cardboard, not directly facing the mother and baby.
When blowing air conditioning, you need to close the doors and windows, the indoor air is relatively poor, if you can arrange a humidifier, you can effectively improve the indoor air. In case of bad luck, you can choose to open the window in the morning or at night, so that the indoor air convection and let fresh air enter the room.
2. Balanced diet and nutrition
Until now, many people feel that confinement should be supplemented with more nutrition. But in fact, too nourishing ingredients are pure waste, the current state of the mother, not only can not absorb these nutrients, but also easy to form a burden in the body, affecting the future recovery of the body.
Especially the mother who decides to breastfeed, there is really no need to eat too nourishing things. If you want to recover your body, you must make reasonable use of confinement time, and the diet is balanced, and green vegetables, fruits, cereals and proteins can not be less. Soups that are too greasy, be sure to drink less.
3. Pay attention to personal hygiene
The older generation feels that you can't get cold during the confinement period, and it is best not to do these things such as bathing, washing your hair and washing. I always feel that washing during the confinement period is easy to catch a cold, leading to the appearance of confinement disease. It's just that the body is too weak during the confinement period, often sweating, and needs to pay attention to hygiene.
You can wash it, but with warm water and dry it in time after each wash. The washing time should not be too long, it is best to keep it at about 10 minutes, and a simple rinse is good. Whether it is a vaginal birth or a caesarean section, it is necessary to take a shower as the mainstay, and do not choose a bath.
Write at the end: the times are progressing, and choosing a scientific way to confinement is the best way to protect yourself and your baby. If you don't want to be disturbed during the confinement period, you must communicate with your close relatives and let them solve this problem.