Spring Festival Golden Week, a "Hello, Li Huanying" fire all over the Internet, remembering a film I had seen before;
Introduction: "Wrestle! Daddy is a biopic directed by Nitsh Tevari and starring Amir Khan, Sakashi Tewa, Sanya Mahota, Fatima Sana Saka. Based on the true story of Indian wrestler Mahavira Singer Perga, the film tells the inspirational story of former wrestling champion Singer who trained his two daughters to become women's wrestling champions, breaking indian traditions.
Synopsis:
Mahavira Singer Poga (Amir Khan), a former Indian national wrestling champion, was forced to give up wrestling because of his life. He hopes that his son can help him fulfill his dream of winning a world-class gold medal. As a result, he gave birth to four daughters, and Singer, who thought that his dream was shattered, unexpectedly discovered the amazing talent of his daughter, saw the hope of the champion, he decided not to let his daughter's talent be wasted, like other girls can only wash and cook for a lifetime, after thinking twice, he agreed with his wife for a year to train two daughters according to the standards of wrestlers: change skirts, cut off long hair, let them practice wrestling, and win one championship after another, and finally won the opportunity to become role models and inspire thousands of women;
This Indian movie, it is easy to resonate with the Chinese people, once Douban scored 9.0; it is also a relatively good inspirational film;
01 Hope son Jackie Chan, hope girl ride the wind
The plot also greatly pokes at the pain points of the Chinese people, the father's idea of "hoping for the son to become a dragon, hoping for the girl to ride the wind" has been running through the ancient and modern, and the dreams that have not been realized in themselves, or the value of life are transferred to the children. Then for children, there will be high standards and strict requirements.
It is hoped that they can realize their own life value and realize their childhood dreams. (For example, requiring academic progress and applying for various cram schools is not based on the child's interests, but on their own subjective assumptions;)
02 Son preference
Another point is "son preference". In fact, this kind of thinking is very common in China, especially for the older generation, and it still exists today. In the plot, Mahavira, also wants to have a son, and then be able to take over the baton, when he was young, he was a wrestling champion in India, and wanted to have a son and train it to become a champion, but in fact, it backfired and gave birth to 4 daughters in a row. One day, he found that his daughter also had this talent for wrestling, and then he changed his mind and put all his energy into training her daughter to become a wrestling champion.
The above two points are easy to resonate with us.
Then, for his educational methods, I think we also need to have a certain reference.
1. There is no shortcut to success. No one succeeds casually, like Geeta and Babita; they also go through countless times of hard training to win the championship. In the middle, he also experienced changing her skirt and cutting off her long hair, a series of difficult choices, which were nothing more than changing the fate of her daughter;
2, everything should pay attention to the method, in the middle of the plot there is a paragraph, Geeta has been defeated, and then suffered from the ridicule and distrust of many people around, and finally the father Mahavira came over, the coach's training method, in fact, is not right, because only suitable for himself, is the right; dad teaches the Tao, but also the concept and direction, is a powerful force from the bottom of the heart, in the case of Geeta in the case of strong enemies and weak enemies to achieve a counterattack.
3, that is, do not despise women, change your thinking. To change the mind, it is not the patriarchal society of the past; guzhi also has deeds such as "Mulan joined the army for her father", and the scarf does not let the eyebrows be raised;
Whether it is educational philosophy or educational methods, Wrestlemania! "Daddy" is a good explanation of how to communicate with children, encourage children, explore children's potential, and dedicate it to all fathers on the eve of Father's Day.