This is my 335th day/500th day of continuous writing
Hello everyone, I'm Dameiko.
Do you believe this statement?
What you believe, you will attract.
Own experience
Some time ago, I understood that the teacher came to me and said that he had done a new project and could help me achieve my goals through training.
For example, the goal of making money.
But take at least 1 hour a day, obey and do what you are told, and train the basic skills well.
As long as the basic skills are practiced solidly, he can guarantee that I can do any Internet project.
Then asked me if I would like to join the project.
To be honest, after listening to the teacher, I was really moved.
Because I am looking for a side hustle, I want to open up a second income channel for myself through a side hustle.
In this way, even if you lose your job in the future, you can earn an income to support your family.
And you can also learn new knowledge and skills, so that you can grow every day and become stronger.
As long as we are strong, then most of the problems we encounter may not be a problem for us.
This is also the reason why I learned to write, that is, I want to practice writing well, grow, and then prepare myself for monetization and money.
Own problems
But because I have to take care of my children, and my main business can make my life okay, I don't have enough energy and time to do it in my side job.
As a result, I have not had the experience of making any projects into success.
And now someone comes to bring himself, especially a master, to give himself the opportunity to learn and improve his cognition.
Exercise your logic of monetizing and making money.
I feel very excited, and I feel that I have taken a step towards the life I want.
But thinking that if the teacher does this, it will cost him a lot of time and energy, and the price of joining this project will not be low.
So I went to ask for the price again.
After the teacher said it, he really shocked himself.
My hesitation and struggle
Since last year, I have recognized the payment of knowledge, thinking that I can step on fewer pits, and my growth rate can be faster.
But the price is not high, basically a few hundred yuan.
The most expensive is to join the partner of anti-entropy increase, thousands of dollars, and he hesitated for a long time before deciding to join.
And the price of this project far exceeded his imagination, reaching tens of thousands of yuan.
Suddenly broke the cognition of their knowledge payment, making it difficult for them to accept for a while.
First, he just paid off the money he borrowed to buy a house, and he didn't have much deposit in his hand,
Second, now that the economy is sluggish, we dare not spend money indiscriminately.
Third, my own family may not be able to support me, such a high cost of knowledge
Fourth, they don't believe in themselves very much, and they will have the ability to earn back the money they spent in the future
Fifth, I have to accompany my children to study, afraid that my energy and time will not be enough to complete the project
This makes him very hesitant and entangled, whether he should spend this money and do this thing.
That night, I discussed with my wife, and based on the reasons of the second and fifth articles, I refused.
But this matter has always appeared in his own psychology, and he regrets it a little.
I'm afraid that I will miss such a good opportunity to exercise myself, and I don't know when I can participate next time.
So the next day, through the teacher's introduction, I made an appointment to join the project's propaganda group.
I want to listen to the introduction of this project again, and at the same time understand that the teacher answered some of the doubts of the money-making project for the second time.
It was finally decided to join
I made an appointment for two days to think about it and decide whether to join it.
First of all, I believe that since I personally recommended this project to me, it must be a good project
Second, a sentence in "The Courage to Be Hated" moved me:
Fear of moving forward or not really trying hard. Reluctance to sacrifice the pleasures you currently enjoy – such as play or leisure time, in order to change yourself.
That is, they cannot take the "courage" to change their lifestyle, and even if they are dissatisfied or unfree, they are still more willing to maintain the status quo.
That is, I lacked the courage to change.
Then this was the opportunity to exercise, and I was able to break through this self-restraint.
Third, money in the hand, that is, the number, and spend it on yourself, let yourself grow and change, the value is greater
Fourth, since you have given yourself a chance, why don't you fight and believe in yourself, in case it is done?
Jack Ma said: Most people believe because they see, and a few see because they believe.
And Li Xiaolai has always encouraged the people around him in "The Road to Wealth and Freedom":
Blindly believe in your bright future, even "120% believe" - even if others pour cold water on them and hit 20%, they still believe 100%. Not only that, once you find that there is only 100% left, you still have to take the initiative to find a way to re-cultivate this value to 120%.
So, as long as you believe in yourself first, you can get things done.
And this time, I had a deep chat with Teacher Ming, and I was more sure that joining was a correct choice.
After joining, I also joked with the teacher, except for the driver's license, the college entrance examination was not so nervous and entangled.
Write to the end
For me, this is really a major life decision and an experience for myself.
After all, life seems to be very long, but in fact, it is only a few decades, and there are not many things that can be done well.
When you encounter an important opportunity, you have to do it, otherwise, by the time you want to do it, it may be too late.
After the full article, it is another day of growth, I hope this article can also bring you some thinking and help.