#Nursery has me 2023##Summer Life Punch Season##Headline Cultivation Plan##头条创作挑战赛#
29-year-old Liu Lin has become a winner in life because she publicly "borrowed sperm to have children". Not only blessed his career, but also gained a pair of cute twin daughters. However, three years later, she took the initiative to find the child's "original father" Zhang Lei and asked to re-establish a real family.
What made her give up being a "single mom"? Will the other party agree?
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Late at night on April 15, 2021, Liu Lin anxiously dialed her mother Zhang Fen's phone: "Mom, the child is sick again, the high fever does not subside, I am in the hospital, can you come and help me?" ”
Zhang Fen rushed to the hospital. Seeing her granddaughter, who was crying with her daughter's hair on her head, she said angrily and urgently: "This is what bullshit theory of 'reproductive freedom' do you say?" Not only did he hurt himself, but he also put your mother's old life into it! ”
Liu Lin didn't say a word, and awkwardly cleaned up the vomit that the child vomited on her body. She admits she regretted it.
Liu Lin, born in 1989, returned from studying in Australia and entered a well-known real estate company in 2014, and she soon formed a well-known "wolf" team in the villa sales circle, with a monthly income of more than 50,000 and a high rise.
Two years later, Liu Lin bought an Audi car and a house for her mother. Seeing her daughter's successful career, her mother Zhang Fen began to urge marriage. But the marriage was very embarrassing for Liu Lin at this time.
She tried to fall in love several times, but to no avail. The elite little sisters around Liu Lin all sighed: Instead of being aggrieved in a scarce marriage, it is better to be proud to be single. Several single sisters pulled a group and shared the wonderful single life every day.
They also agreed that if they could not find a worthy man before the age of 30, they would go abroad to find a surrogate and have a baby, and their lives would be complete. But all this, Liu Lin and her mother have no way to tell.
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In April 2017, Liu Lin was introduced to Zhang Lei. The other party is a year older than her, graduated from college in 985, and engaged in drug research.
The first time they met, Liu Lin felt Zhang Lei's obsession with herself. Zhang Lei is handsome, honest, and fanatically pursues Liu Lin. Liu Lin reluctantly agreed. But at that time, the overall sales project of a real estate project had just been accepted, which was risky and profitable. Therefore, during that time, although Zhang Lei often asked her out, her mind was not on falling in love at all, and she pondered every day how to win customers and achieve her goals as quickly as possible.
In May 2017, she discovered she was unexpectedly pregnant. She never thought of marrying Zhang Lei, and she did not plan to stay with this child. But at this moment, she accidentally brushed a blogger called "Ye Haiyang", bought 3 mixed sperm from the American sperm bank, and gave birth to a mixed-race baby. This not only attracted the support of a large number of fans, but also made this single-mother makeup brand quickly become an Internet celebrity product, with monthly sales of more than one million.
Liu Lin suddenly moved: "I have the strength to raise a child by myself, why can't I learn Ye Haiyang to be a single mother?" Thinking of this, she was inexplicably excited. She did things resolutely, and soon found a reason to argue with Zhang Lei and proposed to break up. She was afraid that Zhang Lei would entangle, and directly blocked the other party.
It was not until the fetus was stable that Liu Lin called her mother to tell her. "What? Who is Baby's father? Zhang Fen was shocked. Sperm I bought from a sperm bank. Raise your own child, you don't need to know who the baby's father is! ”
Zhang Fen was furious and resolutely dragged her daughter to the hospital for surgery, but Liu Lin said: "The doctor who did the pregnancy test said that it was twins!" Zhang Fen was also stunned for a while, and finally accepted it helplessly.
Liu Lin's belly gradually grew, but she didn't pay any attention to the eyes of others, but confidently stood up with a big belly and calmly handled the company's business. She proudly speaks to her clients about her "reproductive liberal" views.
She told everyone that she had chosen it from the sperm bank: "The child's father is a Harvard graduate, 1.8 meters tall, and has an IQ of 140. Sure enough, her unique life choices impressed her courage, her business was like an opening, and the project started very smoothly.
03
In early February 2018, Liu Lin gave birth to twin daughters by cesarean section, named Tian Tian and Guo Guoguo respectively.
She originally thought very simply, ask two nannies to take the children, and return to work after her full moon, and the pace of life will not change. But she soon discovered that everything was completely different from what she had imagined. The nanny could not replace breastfeeding, the two children had to be fed differently, and she could hardly sleep all night.
After finally surviving the maternity leave, Liu Lin went back to work. The company actually recruited a new team to join the competition, and all of them were long-legged beauties, and these sisters had quite a means of sales. Liu Lin, who originally dared to fight and rush, had been worn out by the child at this time and lost her wolf nature.
Now that no one is pointing to her belly to listen to her stories, the single mother who once bought sperm can no longer bring her benefits, and she drags her tired body and mind every day, running between the company and her children, and her sales performance is declining.
In December 2018, her project failed. The child was less than a year old, and she found that her income at this time could no longer afford a nanny. She had to quit her nanny and ask part-time workers and her mother to help her take care of her children. But the two daughters are weak, and they seem to have telepathy, always catching a cold and fever at the same time.
In the middle of the night, every time Liu Lin took her child to the hospital to see a doctor, she had to ask her mother to help. Zhang Fen's blood pressure and blood sugar are high, but even in the middle of the night, she has to run before and after running to get medicine for her granddaughter; Sometimes there is no hospital bed, and you have to hold an infusion hanging bottle in the hospital corridor...
In this way, stumbling brought the child to the age of three. The mother and daughter were overwhelmed by this life. Zhang Fen forced her daughter to go on a blind date with a black face, and Liu Lin couldn't stay up and walked to the blind date market. But she found that she had no choice.
Walking on the crowded street, Liu Lin had mixed tastes in her heart, and suddenly remembered the honest man Zhang Lei. "Others can dislike me, and it is impossible for the child's original father not to take over." She quickly flipped out Zhang Lei's number, didn't think about it, picked up the phone and called——
04
The next day, Liu Lin dressed up carefully. Liu Lin was secretly surprised and happy when she saw the honest man she couldn't look at in the past, and she looked more and more dignified.
At this time, she was very confident, she was a goddess-like existence to Zhang Lei, and she was confident that she would win it as quickly as possible. "How are you doing?" Liu Lin straightened up, took a sip of coffee, and asked. "Very good, I'm married, my daughter is almost 3 years old, how are you?" Zhang Lei answered honestly.
When Liu Lin heard that Zhang Lei was married and had a daughter, a sip of coffee almost spewed out. She forced her composure and silently adjusted her response plan in her heart. She thought that if she told Zhang Lei the truth directly at this time, Zhang Lei had a reason to retreat all over, and at most she could ask for a little alimony. So, Liu Lin held back.
She made up a reason and told Zhang Lei that her friend wanted her to take a stake in a Chinese medicine health club, and she remembered that Zhang Lei was engaged in medicine and wanted to ask him to check it. When Zhang Lei heard this, he agreed without hesitation. Since then, Liu Lin has repeatedly asked Zhang Lei to inspect various health centers in Chongqing.
A week later, Liu Lin invited Zhang Lei to a top Thai health center for a massage in the name of experience service. On the same day, Liu Lin took off her coat and exposed her shoulders. She caught a glimpse of Zhang Lei turning his head with a red face.
Liu Lin quipped lightly: "It's not that I haven't seen it." It was this sentence that pinched Zhang Lei, who was hesitant on the edge of emotion. After inspecting the health center that day, Liu Lin invited Zhang Lei to eat at a well-known steakhouse in the name of gratitude.
During the dinner, both of them drank some red wine. Zhang Lei was overwhelmed by alcohol and incoherently said his loss after Liu Lin proposed to break up. "It's not impossible now."
Liu Lin smiled slightly and cast a fiery and ambiguous gaze at Zhang Lei. Liu Lin's ambiguous words were like a "shot in the arm", and Zhang Lei completely fell. Taking advantage of the drunkenness, the two renewed their old relationship in the hotel.
When he woke up the next day, Zhang Lei said with some regret: "I'm sorry, I was too impulsive last night." Liu Lin smiled and took out the photos of the two daughters on her mobile phone and asked: "We don't need to say such things between us, do you think our daughter looks like you?" "Your daughter? Aren't you unmarried? Zhang Lei asked honestly. No, it's our daughter! "Liu Lin finally showed the hole card, she knew that Zhang Lei, who had cheated in marriage, had no ability to resist." Our daughters? Zhang Lei was shocked, obviously not believing Liu Lin's words.
"If you don't believe it, we take our children to go for a paternity test." Seeing that Liu Lin was very firm, Zhang Lei believed it. In order to increase Zhang Lei's guilt, Liu Lin said with tears in her eyes: "I have nothing else to ask for, that is, the child is older, and I always ask where the father is, I don't want the child to have a psychological shadow since childhood, so I want you to see the child." Zhang Lei's expression was complicated after hearing this, and he constantly apologized to Liu Lin.
05
The next day, Zhang Lei bought snacks and toys and accompanied Liu Lin to pick up her daughter from kindergarten. Liu Lin pointed to Zhang Lei and said, "Sweet, fruit, who do you think is coming?" It's Daddy! "The blood relationship is indeed very magical, the two children who have never seen Zhang Lei, but instantly accepted the strange father, and blurted out almost at the same time: "Dad, dad." ”
Zhang Lei was a little excited, and the two soft and cute daughters made Zhang Lei love it. After that, Liu Lin began to create various opportunities for Zhang Lei to contact her daughters. Sometimes on the grounds that she was too busy with work, Zhang Lei asked Zhang Lei to help her pick up her children from school. The two had many relationships, but Liu Lin never mentioned requests other than children, and Zhang Lei almost responded to his requests.
Shortly after the Spring Festival in 2022, Zhang Fen accidentally bumped into Zhang Lei, she saw that the other party was very good with the child, and she also said to her daughter with joy: "You can find such a man, I am half better." Get married! Liu Lin decided to speed up the pace.
During that time, Zhang Lei often bought clothes and toys for his children. He said: "I want to do everything I can to make up for what I owe to my children over the years. Liu Lin chased after the victory and said, "The best compensation is to give my daughter a home!" At this moment, Zhang Lei was silent.
Not long after, Liu Lin saw Zhang Lei's circle of friends post a set of photos of his daughter Yuanyuan's birthday. Liu Lin was very upset when she saw it, and she didn't want to hide it anymore, and on the same day, she sent Zhang Lei several photos and videos of her twin daughters, clearly putting forward her demands: "Can you let the two daughters have a complete family." ”
But that night, Zhang Lei did not reply a word. Liu Lin was trembling with anger, and early the next morning she held back her temper and called Zhang Lei and asked him: "Why don't you reply?" Is it playing the fool? Zhang Lei carefully apologized: "At home last night, the child pestered me, and it was inconvenient to return." ”
Liu Lin was even more angry and said, "The child she gave birth to has a father pestering, will our child be a baby without a father?" Zhang Lei was speechless on the phone.
In order to divorce Zhang Lei, Liu Lin began to change tricks to call and text Zhang Lei in the middle of the night, and after this trouble, Zhang Lei's wife Chen Xiaoxia found something strange, but could not find evidence, Zhang Lei reluctantly prevaricated.
Soon, Liu Lin gave Zhang Lei an ultimatum that he must divorce within a month. Zhang Lei was overwhelmed and begged: "I will divorce, but please give me a little more time, I have been exhausted by you." Liu Lin hinted that Zhang Lei would take his children to make trouble if he didn't divorce. Zhang Lei was obviously scared, and promised a quick victory.
06
However, the plan could not keep up with the changes. On the evening of June 5, 2022, Liu Lin saw that Zhang Lei had not heard from him for a few days, and a series of question marks were sent on WeChat, and he called again to ask: "Don't forget what you promised me." ”
Zhang Lei answered the phone and said, "The child is sick. It's quite serious, let's talk about it tomorrow, okay? "Who knows that Liu Lin not only does not believe, but also does not adhere to it. Perhaps it was Liu Lin's final coercion that made Zhang Lei unable to bear it.
That night, he knelt in front of his wife Chen Xiaoxia and cried: "Xiaoxia, if I do something wrong, can you give me a chance in the face of the child?" Chen Xiaoxia looked confused.
Zhang Lei began to cry and confess everything. He said, "I'm sorry for you and Yuanyuan! But I'm pushed too hard by her, I can't leave you and the child alone..."
Unexpectedly, after learning the cause and effect of the matter, Chen Xiaoxia not only forgave Zhang Lei, but also asked Zhang Lei to pay the maintenance fee for the twins. Zhang Lei was very touched by his wife's righteousness, and he promised to live well with his wife and children.
However, Liu Lin did not know all this. She is waiting for Zhang Lei's divorce, she needs a normal family too much. A few days later, Zhang Lei wanted to talk to Liu Lin once. He just bumped into Zhang Fen, and he no longer hid it, and asked Zhang Fen to help persuade Liu Lin.
"How do I persuade? If you want to persuade it, I will stop it at that time! What reproductive freedom is she still stubborn! Zhang Fen complained again and again. Zhang Lei thought about it and found that everything in front of him was not an accident, but Liu Lin's intention. He questioned Liu Lin, but the other party did not admit it, so the two had a fierce quarrel. For several days, Liu Lin found that Zhang Lei began to run away from herself.
Just when the two were deadlocked, on June 25, 2022, Liu Lin's father suffered a cerebral infarction and urgently needed surgical treatment, so she hurried to her hometown to deal with it. She called Zhang Lei. The atmosphere on the other side of the phone was boiling, like playing with a child. But Zhang Lei said to her in a distant tone: "Let's talk about something tomorrow, I'm taking the child." ”
Liu Lin was so angry that she dropped her mobile phone, and she thought hatefully: "Don't blame me for being unrighteous if you are not benevolent, it's too late for you to regret..." Her state is getting worse and worse, and she loses sleep every day.
Soon, Liu Lin had unbearable neck pain, at first thought it was a viral cold, went to the hospital for examination, but was told that thyroid nodules stage IV, precancerous lesions.
Liu Lin was so frightened that she couldn't walk, and happened to run into her high school classmate Chen Li. Chen Li, a hospital nurse, let Liu Lin sit on a chair to rest. In addition to being moved, Liu Lin couldn't care about face, and poured her bitter water to Chen Li one by one.
After listening to Liu Lin's one-sided words, Chen Li didn't want to say without thinking: "Such a man with no conscience, he must not let him go." Take responsibility for your children! Liu Lin listened and nodded uncontrollably.
On the afternoon of August 26, 2022, Liu Lin received a call from Chen Li, saying that she had helped her find a familiar attending doctor and would arrange thyroid nodule removal surgery next week. Liu Lin decided to force the uterus one last time before surgery.
07
Liu Lin called Zhang Lei and insisted on meeting, and said: "I am sick, as long as you promise to take care of the child, I will let go." Let's meet. Zhang Lei heard that Liu Lin was sick and couldn't bear it, so he promised to go to the hospital to pick her up.
When receiving Liu Lin, when the vehicle left the hospital and went to the square road, Liu Lin asked: "How did you think about it?" Zhang Lei almost cried: "Can you stop forcing me?" Liu Lin smiled miserably and said, "Am I forcing you?" I'm dying! ”
Who knows, Zhang Lei didn't believe it, only thought that Liu Lin was exaggerating, and he said in a resolute tone: "We won't meet again in the future, I discussed with my wife, and pay the child support." ”
"What do you mean? Bummer! Liu Lin became emotional. The scoundrel and despicable person is you! Your mother said you didn't want to get married, you just wanted to have children. I was calculated by you! Zhang Lei voiced the grudge that had been in his heart for a long time.
At this time, Zhang Lei's mobile phone received a message, Liu Lin saw that the mobile phone screen actually changed their family photo! A huge fire of jealousy filled her whole body and mind, and she said angrily: "I will give you another chance, leave or not?" ”
Zhang Lei was also out of control and said, "You are not qualified to force me to divorce!" Liu Lin glared and roared: "Okay, now I'm not qualified!" While speaking, he beat Zhang Lei, "If you don't want me to be good, I won't let you have a good time!" Liu Lin's long-accumulated negative emotions were instantly ignited, and she was almost delirious when she saw a fruit knife in the co-pilot's door compartment, raised the knife and stabbed Zhang Lei's right chest!
In an instant, the splash of blood and Zhang Lei, lying on the steering wheel, made Liu Lin suddenly wake up. "I didn't mean to!" She cried and trembled and dialed 120, but Zhang Lei died on the way to the hospital.
It was determined that Zhang Lei died of acute hemorrhage from aortic rupture caused by a sharp instrument stabbing his right chest. After the case, Liu Lin was immediately detained by the police. After Zhang Fen learned what her daughter had done, she beat her chest and cried: "How can you let me and my two dolls live..."
During the interrogation, Liu Lin confessed to the crime. She explained: She regretted being a fertility liberal, and when reality gave her a chicken feather, she saw Zhang Lei's resolute unwillingness to accept her two daughters, thinking that she had a terminal illness, and her mind suddenly went blank, so she took out the knife next to the car door and stabbed Zhang Lei. She said that she was impulsive, and she couldn't help but regret it when she thought of her daughter.
In March 2023, the local court heard the case. In the end, the court sentenced Liu Lin to life imprisonment for the crime of intentional injury.
[Case by case]
This pluralistic society is now teeming with new ideas and lifestyles. Many single women openly choose to find surrogacy to have children, or go abroad to buy sperm, and dare to live individually seems to be invisibly equated with "strong ability". Therefore, many elite women may also blindly follow the wind. However, these behaviors have not been demonstrated over time, and future legal and ethical risks cannot be predicted. This case is a classic example of the risks of being a "reproductive liberal" and young women need to think twice. (Yujian)