Military training is the fastest way to adapt a child to the next stage
Military training
During this time, except for a few "free and loose" schools, most of the imperial capital middle schools began vigorous military training activities.
The high school is relatively regular, going to the barracks, while the junior high school is mostly trained in school and goes home at night. Even so, some children complain a lot.
As an old loving mother who spoils her child, I have to say a word to my child, and the baby who stayed at home for a whole summer vacation (six days and two months of early rest) suddenly needs to stand in a military posture and walk for six or seven hours a day, which is really enough.
People are in the air-conditioned room every day, eating and drinking, lying down when tired, where have they experienced this? You asked me why I don't arrange sports during the summer vacation... No, what's the matter with you, why are there so many questions?
Well, I admit that the two babies are weak in physique, lazy in bones, squeamish and willful, and are all my pots as parents. I'm no better myself, and if I didn't have to go to work, I wouldn't want to go out every day.
I can't help but think of my military training in college, and it's no exaggeration to say that it was the most painful memory of my life.
For a person who does not like sports, does not like group activities, is afraid of standing for a long time, and is particularly disobedient who is afraid of being restricted from freedom, military training can deprive almost all comfort.
The boring training under the scorching sun, the forced unity during group activities, the performance talent in "entertainment time", the inconvenience of bathing and going to the toilet... It's torturous.
The only thing that was a little fun was eating. At that time, a class of 10 people sat at a table, seven or eight dishes, rice or steamed buns were enough.
On the first day, I still disliked the bad dishes, and as a northeasterner, I couldn't understand the behavior of stir-frying a dish alone with carrots. However, after two days, I couldn't grab it even if I cared about disgust.
10 college students Sven swept the floor, grabbed it on the table, and frantically pulled vegetables into the bowl. I am keen to grab vegetable soup, a little bit of oil star, mixed in rice, click and eat, can quickly relieve the burning fire.
Because I didn't have any extra food, I used steamed buns as a snack every time I finished eating, and the highest record was eating four large steamed buns in one meal. Previously, it was 174cm/104 pounds, and after military training, it quickly gained 112 pounds, and has remained for many years.
At that time, our class leader, a tall, beautiful and proud girl, with superior family conditions, delayed for five minutes because she suddenly could not find a rice bowl, and when she went to the table, she found that seven or eight plates had been scraped to the point that there was no soup left, and she cried aggrievedly.
For several years after that, he never saw a single tear from her.
Yes, military training is the fastest weapon, cut off the child's dependence on the family parents, specialize in arrogance, quickly let the child out of the "self-centered", learn to obey, learn to endure hardships, learn to integrate into the collective, learn to understand one thing - there are always things in the world that you don't like and have to do.
In general, the college students who had just finished the college entrance examination entered the barracks, they were very weak, very self-sufficient, forced to laugh, and survived in the dungeon like Ling Hu Chong. Only a few people can enjoy military training, various performance talents, and organize activities.
Such people are often also popular figures on campus and young elites in society.
Although the rest of the people are not happy, there is still a difference in obedience. Many students are honest, conscientiously complete the action, strictly abide by the system, have no complaints about the assigned work, and have no doubts about the specific regulations.
I belong to the kind of person who is very obedient and free to wander.
For example, I often ask "why", "why", "why", "I want"... After a loud argument with the school leader, he fled, and the leader found a specific company and asked to find one:
Tall, a girl who speaks Northeastern dialect.
So I was picked out of the hundreds at once ... So the features are obviously really boring, okay.
After the military training, the bus took us back to school, and some girls cried and couldn't bear the instructor... Just this kind of emotional excess, we really can't complain. Later, there were actually instructors who chased them to the school and asked to meet downstairs.
Others cried because they were finally free, and we don't know what it feels like to be released after completing their sentences, but the one may be close at the end of military training.
Back in college, ordinary cafeteria meals became very delicious, and you could buy some sausage and potato chips to occupy your mouth. After sleeping, I don't go to class, I eat, drink, sleep, and talk freely in class, and I go it alone.
Pulling away... So with a mother like me, how can a child's attitude towards military training be correct. But now that I am a mother, in fact, my attitude towards military training has changed again, and it is quite complicated.
On the one hand, seeing the girl is exhausted, she must be super distressed. In the past two days, he came back with back pain and foot cramps, saying that he almost fainted, and the second man also went to the infirmary to eat a few candies. Although the weather is not so hot, it is also enough to choke.
On the one hand, they deeply understand their complaints about the boredom of military training, whether it is soaring in the mathematical world or soaring in the online world, it must be much more interesting than standing up and swinging their arms left and right.
On the one hand, they secretly rejoice, and the children who have experienced the long small promotion season + summer vacation are lazy, self-centered, unscrupulous, and do not know what "suffering" is.
Military training is the fastest way for them to know the world, themselves, the collective, and the new stage, and this process cannot be changed by arguing with the old loving mother, and they must also understand that there are some things in this world that they don't like and have to accept.
As long as the mother is not around, the child will suddenly be strong.
At this point, I can also understand why every time we enter a new stage, such as high school and university, the school must organize a real military training. Otherwise, the child cannot be quickly removed from the holiday state; Without suffering, children cannot realize daily happiness.
This is also the process of allowing children to quickly integrate into the group and get acquainted with new classmates. And, for the eyes, it's really good; For the body, it's really good.
The young men who chased the materials of "Fengshen " in the previous paragraph, watching any sports and not admitting defeat, feel really alive, far better than those children who can only shrug their eyes and do math problems.
What is particularly infuriating is that these children also took out scratch paper during military training, trying to use mathematical and physical methods to tell the teacher that it was impossible for them to put their arms and legs in the same position... The result is more being punished and taken away.
Should! Just train them!
I hope that in the future, the school will often force the children to move, the campus is big, and everything has to be run. The school leader's parent-teacher meeting said that there is an average of 10,000 steps a day, so I will wait to harvest two strong girls.
With my own education, I can only harvest two moths. Relying on school education, you can also count on hope and fantasy.
The sunset is red and flying, and the grunt is back home after training...
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